hi, sorry to hear about your loss. .I had a ERPC so dont know how long it takes for a natural miscarriage to happen, i hope you see the end soon so you can think about moving on xxx

i found out i had a mmc on the 12th aug today is 21st aug i av bin bleeding slowly the whole time with the odd twinge of pain but tonight i have been getting worse pain like a bloated feeling when you first start your period i am hoping this wont last long but knowing my luck it will this is my second pregnancy my first been sucessful and having a little boy i am really sorry to anyone who has lost a child i do know what your experiencing and my thoughts go out to you x

So i found out at my 8 week ultrasound that the gestational sac was irregular,empty, and measured at 5w 4d. I started spotting around week five, just a tiny bit of brown then it was gone.It came back a few times and tad heavier each time ( always brown or slightly rusty along with some low,harsh, and quick period cramps.)This has been over the course of the last 3 weeks. The hospital diagnosed it as "threatened miscarriage" however i TRULY suspect blighted ovum.
When i got home from all the extremley invasive tests & Scans ( still spotting brown w/ closed cervix?)i slept ALOT! the next day it got heavier and i had the worse cramps ever, pretty much the same as before just worse, they made me roll around & wiggle trying to get comfy, plus my lower back was radiating pain kinda.The blood turned bright red at some point during the day and i already knew what to expect, Well...not really but you figure it out fast. Cramps were STEADILY kickin my ass all day and then i got the urge to shower all of a sudden, went to the loo and there it began.. it was like 5 periods at once i wont even sugar coat it. TO ALL WHO ARE AFRAID OF PASSING SOMETHING, DONT BE. cramping is seriously the worst part, seeing it might be second but you really dont feel it on its way out, I was passing peach sized clots but all i could think about were cramps.

if you choose to let your body do what it needs to do then dont underestimate yourself but go to the hospital if you start to pass out or get light headed seriously

At first you will probably be tempted to fight it but really it's the only thing that can make you feel better.

This has all happened to me in the last week.. so i hope i didnt offend anyone its just still VERY vivid.

I'm truly sorry to all that are facing this & you are probably SICK of people telling you that you are "strong" and " everything happens for a reason" but truth is.. we are strong, and it does happen for a reason. Just deal with it however you are most comfortable and dont let anyone try to change your mind. Best of luck ladies.

I'm sorry this happened to you.

Thank you for sharing your story.