Hi as some of you will know I was told on monday at a scan that my baby had died at 8 and a half weeks, I opted for the medical management and went in to hospital on thursday to have the baby. its been a horrible week and we have both be devastated, today we had been invited to a bbq we went and two of my friends were there who are both pregnant AFTER MY DH HAD A FEW DRINKS HE SAID DOES ANYONE WANT TO BUY A PRAM THEN LAUGHED, I am so upset and feel really cold towards him, it hurt more hearing him make a joke out of whats happened than anything else i've gone through this whole week. sorry to ramble
oh hunny im SO sorry. Sorry for your loss and sorry your hubby is a twit!! He like most guys probably and tend not to engage brain before mouth!! Definatley speak to him once he's sober and tell just how much he's hurt you! Huge hugs sweetie!!! xxxxx
aww hun im sorry for your loss and it must just be a man thing my hubby did the same but it was 2 me i did a photo frame of baby and he said to me i dont like that pic its horrible it made me cry and think thats our baby how dare u instead i just ignored him for the day
i'm going to go against the grain and say this is NOT "just his way of dealing with it" --- this was a clear cut ignorant remark on his part while he was drunk. he was insensitive and did not think of you and that is something i find intolerable. I'd take him aside while he's sobered up and tell him what he did and how it hurt you and WHY it hurt you so he understands in the future not to make such heartless remarks - either when drunk or when sober.
Men don't think before they speak and add alcohol into that and oh man, watch out! I'm so sorry for your loss and that your husband made such an insensitive remark. You should talk to him about it and see how he is feeling about the loss, sometimes men don't really know how to cope with a loss and end up looking like total jerks!
Wow, that is harsh.
Sorry hun, lets just hope it was the alcohol talking.
You aren't overreacting, you have been through something terrible and are allowed this time to be sensitive to the topic especially if it's in regard to an uncalled comment like that. Hugs!
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