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Mar 21st, 2011, 11:12 AM
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I know it's so hard but for them it is such an exciting time. If i had had a successful pregnancy first time round i'd probably have been that person! However, now, i will NEVER announce my pregnancy, and try to limit any status' about it. x

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Mar 22nd, 2011, 16:02 PM
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My bestfriend found she was pregnant last week. She already has a 12 week old, I was gutted when she told me xx
My sister in law got pregnant 2 months after me. I lost my baby 2 weeks ago at 18 weeks and I have no idea how I am going to interact with my sister in law. I don't want to ruin anyone's joy, but I just can't be happy right now so i rather just stay away xoxoxo
I am going through the same exact thing. I need to stay away as well. I even deleted my FB because I got so upset at seeing baby/pregnancy posts....especially from my sister-in-law. It hurts so bad.


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Mar 22nd, 2011, 16:42 PM
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A friend of mine that I used to work with had her baby yesterday... I actually broke down in tears..

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Mar 22nd, 2011, 17:02 PM
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I know the feeling - everyone else seems to be pregnant. This girl from school who knew i was pregnant all of a sudden started asking me loads of questions.. like when i was due..etc, even though she normally doesn't speak to me. Then after i miscarried.. she all of a sudden posted that she was pregnant x

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Mar 22nd, 2011, 20:13 PM
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Hiya girls, I just wanted to say I know where you are all coming from I really do I was gutted absolutly gutted when one of my friends told me she was perg with her 2nd baby after my mc (and she herself had a mc) so I felt bad for feeling gutted but I couldnt help it she had one I had none whjy was she getting her 2nd I still waiting for my 1st. But I am sure none of the girls are putting it on there fb to be nasty and I bet when you are in that situation you will do the same. I know it don't take away how sad you feel right now. Hell it took me 4 years after my mmc to even try again. try not to blame them they are just over exited as they should be it will be your turn soon xxx

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Mar 23rd, 2011, 00:15 AM
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yeh just got an invitation to one of my friends' baby showers. she was due 2 days after me (on my first miscarriage)

whats worse is she knows i am going through my 2nd miscarriage (in 4 months) now
My best friend and I were due the same day... Her daughter turns one today.

I've gone through two more miscarriages... The first one i distanced myself from her for months, luckily she understood, and we are now closer than ever, but it is like a slap in the face....

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Mar 23rd, 2011, 18:39 PM
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I deleted my FB but there are so many friends I speak to only on there that I felt lost without it so I reactivated....to find too many statuses about parenthood...if I delete all my posts etc it will just make it so have been so much better over the last few weeks and tonight logged on to find yet another good friend announcing her pregnancy...I feel stupid for wanting to just break down and cry when I was feeling sooo much better and not sure that anyone will understand after seeing me alright for a while now when i just wanna break my heart tonight x

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Mar 23rd, 2011, 18:56 PM
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I have not been on FB since last week because most of my friends are expecting or just delivered. I'm truly happy for them, but at this time seeing the pictures make me sad.

I do understand where you are coming from. If it helps just take a few weeks off and hopefully in time we will all have our happy news to post.

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Mar 23rd, 2011, 22:19 PM
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Someone I grew up with just posted that they are pregnant... And with twins.. Ughhhhh

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I deleted my FB causes too many problems and upset i have lost 2 babies both ectopic aug and nov last year i feel pregnant in aug same time as my friend who i work with and we both were due yesterday come off facebook as cant see if she has had the baby too raw as i would of been due mine now...i know sounds awful but too upset x

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