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Old Sep 19th, 2011, 05:27 AM   21
makeawishx
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Hi MIMI555 and tu123, hope you feeling better and sorry to hear you going through this. I am going through the same at the moment (10 wks pg with sac, placenta but no baby and nothing happening) after another miscarriage at 17 weeks in May 2011 so my mind all over the place and so full of questions. Going to see a consultant today so hoping to feel better soon myself. Take care x



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Old Sep 19th, 2011, 05:31 AM   22
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Hi Bellamamma, hows u? sorry not been on in a few days but just couldnt face it. Went out friday nite to relax and feel better and ended up feeling really sick all weekend. Going to see the consultant today and its my sons birthday today as well. I had twins (27 weeks) on 19th sept 92 and twin 2 died 20th sept so having a little party later for my sons birthday and have my other twins anniversary tomorrow and then on friday have to go and see the hospital to discuss meds to bring on the miscarriage. Weird week for me!! Tc x



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Old Sep 19th, 2011, 06:17 AM   23
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Hey makeawishx, yes very weird week for you! Take it one day at a time, I really hope they help you out with the m/c, it's taking too long on its own! I have stopped spotting so that's nice, have to follow up with a gyne, keep putting it off tho as am sick of docs right now! Otherwise am feeling down and unsure of what to do, if anything! OH is not ready to talk about things yet, he needs time to get his thoughts together. I'm also quite angry at the mo, with everything and everyone, have to try and control myself! You hang in there, sending positive thoughts your way, hugs!



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Old Sep 20th, 2011, 17:05 PM   24
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Wow! I had the procedure yesterday afternoon. I was freaked out! First surgical procedure ever. Emotionally, I felt better after they did the ultrasound just before hand and things were not improving. I guess the body knows best, but hopefully, I'll never have to go through this again.



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Old Sep 21st, 2011, 05:26 AM   25
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I hated the waiting too. For me it was the worst 3 weeks of my life (well so I thought) All the testing and scans and still no one could tell me if we had lost the baby. Finally I started spotting and had sharp cramping pains and knew we had lost it. After 4 days there was no major loss so I went to the hospital and after blood tests they confirmed my loss. I was booked in for a D&C the next day. It was my choice as I had gone through enough waiting and just wanted it all to be done so I could start healing. I had complications during the D&C and ended up back in hospital. I am still Bleeding now (2 weeks later) This has been the worst experience I have ever had and I am grateful I have 2 lil girls already because I am to scared to get pregnant now as I never want to go through this ever again. I have good days but then comes the sad sad days I want to just give up.....



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Old Sep 22nd, 2011, 03:53 AM   26
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Mimi555, I'm glad you got through the ercp, I've had one and it went really well considering. It feels better to be beyond the physical part but then the emotional part has more space is what I'm finding, trying to keep busy and start new things, but the sadness is always there, underneath, like a stream that runs through me.
Aroha4bub, thanks for sharing your story, it is def the hardest thing I've ever gone through, 3 times too many...I tend to want to give up then a day arrives when I have new hope, you are fortunate to have your kiddies, I'm still hoping for one. Take each day at a time, it does get better, hugs to all...



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Old Sep 23rd, 2011, 16:59 PM   27
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RE: Medical management of blighted ovum


Hi Bellamamma, had my first tablet nearly 7 hours ago for my medical miscarriage and nothing happened so far. Go back in 2 days to get remaining tablet. Was reading up on getting pregnant afterwards and most articles say to wait for at least one normal period but one article said to wait at least 3 normal periods because the meds can still be in your system. Do you know current medical advice on this??



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Old Sep 24th, 2011, 02:56 AM   28
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Hey makeawishx, I don't know, I've never taken those meds, but as a nurse, I find it hard to believe it could take so long for the meds to leave the system! Most take a few weeks at most, my doc always said I could start right away due to my age, but many say wait at least a month. Keep me updated onhow you're doing! Hugs



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 04:45 AM   29
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I'm just going through my 2nd mmc. Pregnancy should of been 11/12 weeks but scan just showed a pregnancy sac measuring 6/7 weeks. Bleeding heavy atm but am due in tomorrow for a d&c if nothings come away by then.



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 14:22 PM   30
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Hi fudgese, so sorry to hear you're going thru your 2nd, it's really crap isn't it!?! My first was an mmc, it's awful thinking all's well then...boom it's not. I had a d & c then too, at 11 weeks. Am sending you strength and good thoughts..let us know how you're getting on, hugs



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