Sex after mc - Page 2

Nightshade21 · Apr 1st, 2012, 10:52 AM

Sounds like you have lovely OH who is talking about his feelings and being honest with you. Remember that he has also experienced a trauma and thinking of the blood is probably flashbacks and anxiety that will fade with time. He clearly adores and loves you very much so the loss must have hit him pretty hard. It's that old cliche but time does help, you need time to process what happened and get through it together.

Lots of love and keep communicating and supporting each other and you will get through this. x

djbutton01 · Apr 4th, 2012, 22:50 PM

Thank you! I guess it didn't phase him for very long because last week we found out that I am pregnant again. I soooo hope this one goes full term and healthy.

shanti01 · Apr 5th, 2012, 06:08 AM

I'm scared that he might not feel what I feel.

He try to comfort me, but not to talk too much about it. I don't know what he thinks and feels as he try to talk it away - although I can see that it hurts him to see me hurt.

I'm scared to do it again. Maybe it will just happen naturally in the end anyway.

Apr 1st, 2012, 10:52 AM	#11
Nightshade21 On a break (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Cambridge, UK Posts: 110	Sounds like you have lovely OH who is talking about his feelings and being honest with you. Remember that he has also experienced a trauma and thinking of the blood is probably flashbacks and anxiety that will fade with time. He clearly adores and loves you very much so the loss must have hit him pretty hard. It's that old cliche but time does help, you need time to process what happened and get through it together. Lots of love and keep communicating and supporting each other and you will get through this. x

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Apr 4th, 2012, 22:50 PM	#12
djbutton01 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Wentworth, MO Posts: 354	Thank you! I guess it didn't phase him for very long because last week we found out that I am pregnant again. I soooo hope this one goes full term and healthy.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 06:08 AM	#13
shanti01 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 484	I'm scared that he might not feel what I feel. He try to comfort me, but not to talk too much about it. I don't know what he thinks and feels as he try to talk it away - although I can see that it hurts him to see me hurt. I'm scared to do it again. Maybe it will just happen naturally in the end anyway.

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