Help?

MissMummyMoo · Feb 23rd, 2012, 14:33 PM

We just found out today that our baby grew its wings at around 8 weeks. I should be 12+1. I didn't find out I was pregnant until I was 8 weeks

I have an appointment at the hospital tomorrow and I just don't know what to do?

x

sophxx · Feb 23rd, 2012, 14:50 PM

so sorry hun ive bad a mmc to. i had a scan at 10weeks baby died at 10+1 i found out at 12 week scan. i had medical management and it was fine if yiu have any questons please ask. have they given you your options ? x

MissMummyMoo · Feb 23rd, 2012, 15:09 PM

hun. Yeah they have offered for me to wait and do it naturally, take the pill or a d&c. I just don't know what to do x

sophxx · Feb 23rd, 2012, 15:55 PM

i took the pill as i was to nervouse to have the op and it had already been nearly 3 weeks. the pill was fine it was painful but its painful if you went naturally. i didnt bleed alot i just felt weak after. it wasnt as bad as i though it would be but i know some people have had bad experince for that but the same can be said for the d&c x

Jkelmum · Feb 23rd, 2012, 17:36 PM

I had to have a d&c whatever u choose I hope its as painless as possilbe x

Charlotteee · Feb 23rd, 2012, 17:53 PM

I didn't have a MMC but my miscarriage was natural and I bled a lot and found it painful hun. I wish i had been offered medical management as it left me drained.

Dont want to scare you, just being honest.

I hope you're coping "ok" and you know where I am if you want a chat xxxx

TripleA · Feb 24th, 2012, 11:27 AM

I chose to have a d & c after hearing that sometimes the pills don't work. However, I miscarried naturally the night before I was booked in for it. I had contraction type pains for about 20 minutes and bled a lot, but other than that I found it pretty managable. A terrible situation to be in whichever way you deal with it

Sorry for your loss x

Feb 23rd, 2012, 14:33 PM	#1
MissMummyMoo Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: County Durham Posts: 15,601	Help? We just found out today that our baby grew its wings at around 8 weeks. I should be 12+1. I didn't find out I was pregnant until I was 8 weeks I have an appointment at the hospital tomorrow and I just don't know what to do? x

Status: Offline

Feb 23rd, 2012, 14:50 PM	#2
sophxx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 7,798	so sorry hun ive bad a mmc to. i had a scan at 10weeks baby died at 10+1 i found out at 12 week scan. i had medical management and it was fine if yiu have any questons please ask. have they given you your options ? x

Status: Online

Feb 23rd, 2012, 15:09 PM	#3
MissMummyMoo Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: County Durham Posts: 15,601	hun. Yeah they have offered for me to wait and do it naturally, take the pill or a d&c. I just don't know what to do x

Status: Offline

Feb 23rd, 2012, 15:55 PM	#4
sophxx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 7,798	i took the pill as i was to nervouse to have the op and it had already been nearly 3 weeks. the pill was fine it was painful but its painful if you went naturally. i didnt bleed alot i just felt weak after. it wasnt as bad as i though it would be but i know some people have had bad experince for that but the same can be said for the d&c x

Status: Online

Feb 23rd, 2012, 17:36 PM	#5
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,706	I had to have a d&c whatever u choose I hope its as painless as possilbe x

Status: Offline

Feb 23rd, 2012, 17:53 PM	#6
Charlotteee Other BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 8,774	I didn't have a MMC but my miscarriage was natural and I bled a lot and found it painful hun. I wish i had been offered medical management as it left me drained. Dont want to scare you, just being honest. I hope you're coping "ok" and you know where I am if you want a chat xxxx

Status: Offline

Feb 24th, 2012, 11:27 AM	#7
TripleA Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 85	I chose to have a d & c after hearing that sometimes the pills don't work. However, I miscarried naturally the night before I was booked in for it. I had contraction type pains for about 20 minutes and bled a lot, but other than that I found it pretty managable. A terrible situation to be in whichever way you deal with it Sorry for your loss x

Status: Offline

User Name		Remember Me?
Password