To cut long story short had mmc and d&c done 3 weeks ago. Been having pains so had scan done today. Everything looked fine but was told in ovulating!!! ( also had stillbirth 36weeks pregnant in July and d&c also done in August) do you think I'm more likely to miscarriage after d&c or should I get to it tonight
I want to get pregnant so badly but worried my body just isn't ready. What would you do? All my family and friends keep saying my body needs a rest after everyhing I've been through but I feel as tho now I've been told I'm ovulating I'm missing my opportunity! So confused xxx
If it was me, I'd wait. After my first miscarriage (first pregnancy) I was t old to wait at least 3 months to ttc then I got pregnant with my son 2 months later (oops lol) and everything was normal with that pregnancy. I'd give it at least another full month, but that's just me. Did your ob give you any advice about how long to wait?
I saw my GP yesterday and she told me that you are more than able to get pregnant with a healthy LO after a miscarriage...Even though some docs tell you that you have to wait. I would go with what your gut tells you...that is what I am doing and we are TTC this month! I believe that the choice is up to you. I had a stillbirth at 39 1/2 weeks in September and a miscarriage in February so I know exactly how you must feel...desperate to be pregnant with your angel.
I waited after my first m/c and it didn't help. I still m/c even though we waited 3 cycles. The "rules" won't prevent another m/c and it couldn't hurt to start trying now. I would go for it!
(Sorry if TMI, but I'm not even stopped bleeding on this one and we've already started...trying...again.)
Thank you so much ladies for your replies, I've decided that I'm going to wait until I've had my first cycle, altho I feel like I'm missing out on this opportunity but I think my body is telling me to wait. I feel sick at the thought of letting it pass me by especially now my best friend has announced she's pregnant( I'm a tad jealous and feel hurt, anger not sure why all rolled into one)
Krippy I know you can truely relate to me as you have been through a similar experience wiv losing our angels last year do close to the end. How many weeks were you when you just had your miscarriage? And have you waited til your 1st cycle to ttc? Did you also find any reason for your beautiful angel last year? Mine was due to complete placenta abruption no1 can tell me why is happened and it has completely broken me. As you know only too well I'm desperate for my rainbow especially when everywhere I look everyone else is getting their happy ending. The hospital have said its just sheer stroke of bad luck havin miscarriage this time. I wonder if it was too soon and maybe my body isn't ready at all but I'm so desperate I have to try. Sorry for all the questions xxxxxx
I was 5 weeks along when I had my miscarriage in Feb but it wasn't right from the start. I wasn't getting a positive HPT until about 5 days after my period was late and my HCG only got to 72 so this LO did not implant properly and was not meant to be. The only reason I waited 1 cycle was my thyroid was hypo (under active) and I was put on meds. I just wanted to give the meds sometime to work with my body and get my levels within range so that we could TTC again. Now that my levels are within range we are ready to go and it only took 4 weeks.
There still is no reason for our son's death and I have been told the same...that is was just bad luck. What a flippant way to describe something so heartbreaking...
I am just so ready to be pregnant with my rainbow...It has only been 6 months since RJ's death but it seems like a lifetime. I hope that this is it for us. I am CD 6 today and just waiting to ovulate. If you ever feel the need to talk feel free to PM me at anytime. I am here for you sweetie.
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