EVERYONE is pregnant :-(

MissMummyMoo · Mar 18th, 2012, 15:18 PM

Everyone and I mean everyone seems to be pregnant or announcing they are pregnant on my Facebook lately

its really starting to get me now

I just want my baby back in my tummy. I should have a nearly 16 week baby in my tummy now

x

Starry Night · Mar 18th, 2012, 17:49 PM

If it helps, maybe you should hide these people's news posts so you don't have to keep hearing about their pregnancies.

Saranna80 · Mar 18th, 2012, 18:03 PM

MissMummyMoo · Mar 19th, 2012, 01:57 AM

It's people who are just announcing so I didn't know they we're pregnant

suppose I just need to br happy for them and get on really

x

Tracie87 · Mar 19th, 2012, 02:46 AM

You need to grieve sweetie! My heart used to rip everytime i saw one on mine. I just couldnt feel happy for them.
Take a deep breath, and remember you have a gorgeous family and people on here who care about you
xxx

AlannaB · Mar 19th, 2012, 09:24 AM

The day after my D&C there was a big old ultrasound picture of my friend's brother's baby directly at the top of my Facebook the first time I logged on. I tried hard to remember they have no idea and it's not their fault. But yeah, it is really frustrating. That would have been us making that announcement in like 2 weeks.

Roembke88 · Mar 19th, 2012, 09:45 AM

IM SO SORRY

I completly understand. I have had 4 losses and the last one was over a year ago, but its still soooo hard!

You need to allow yourself some time to grieve. hide their status until you think its ok to view them... and talk about it. Talking about it will get alot of anger and hurt out. Wish I could give you a hug

Are you going to try again for another one?

MissMummyMoo · Mar 19th, 2012, 09:57 AM

I think the reason I feel worse is that we had already announced it ... very naive I know but I had two previous healthy babies and announced those at around 4/5 weeks (this one 8 weeks when I found out) as I thought that miscarriage wouldn't happen to me.

Roembke88 yeah we are trying for another one. Baby number 3 wasn't planned but we've both decided that we would like another one now and feel that it would complete our family x

Roembke88 · Mar 19th, 2012, 10:01 AM

I hope it works out for you!

AlannaB · Mar 19th, 2012, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by MissMummyMoo

I think the reason I feel worse is that we had already announced it ... very naive I know but I had two previous healthy babies and announced those at around 4/5 weeks (this one 8 weeks when I found out) as I thought that miscarriage wouldn't happen to me.

The biggest downside of this for me is now I'm scared of EVER announcing. My aunt told me she miscarried at 14 weeks. That sort of made me feel worse! I miscarried at 9 (well, really probably a week before that, we just didn't know, but...) and now I think next time the baby will already have a gender and I'll have gained 15 pounds before I feel confident telling everyone on FB.

Mar 18th, 2012, 15:18 PM	#1
MissMummyMoo Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: County Durham Posts: 15,254	EVERYONE is pregnant :-( Everyone and I mean everyone seems to be pregnant or announcing they are pregnant on my Facebook lately its really starting to get me now I just want my baby back in my tummy. I should have a nearly 16 week baby in my tummy now x

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Mar 18th, 2012, 17:49 PM	#2
Starry Night Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 4,601	If it helps, maybe you should hide these people's news posts so you don't have to keep hearing about their pregnancies.

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Mar 19th, 2012, 01:57 AM	#4
MissMummyMoo Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: County Durham Posts: 15,254	It's people who are just announcing so I didn't know they we're pregnant suppose I just need to br happy for them and get on really x

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Tracie87 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: In a pineapple Posts: 11,521	You need to grieve sweetie! My heart used to rip everytime i saw one on mine. I just couldnt feel happy for them. Take a deep breath, and remember you have a gorgeous family and people on here who care about you xxx

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Mar 19th, 2012, 09:24 AM	#6
AlannaB Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: New Orleans Posts: 174	The day after my D&C there was a big old ultrasound picture of my friend's brother's baby directly at the top of my Facebook the first time I logged on. I tried hard to remember they have no idea and it's not their fault. But yeah, it is really frustrating. That would have been us making that announcement in like 2 weeks.

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Mar 19th, 2012, 09:45 AM	#7
Roembke88 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 248	IM SO SORRY I completly understand. I have had 4 losses and the last one was over a year ago, but its still soooo hard! You need to allow yourself some time to grieve. hide their status until you think its ok to view them... and talk about it. Talking about it will get alot of anger and hurt out. Wish I could give you a hug Are you going to try again for another one?

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Mar 19th, 2012, 09:57 AM	#8
MissMummyMoo Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: County Durham Posts: 15,254	I think the reason I feel worse is that we had already announced it ... very naive I know but I had two previous healthy babies and announced those at around 4/5 weeks (this one 8 weeks when I found out) as I thought that miscarriage wouldn't happen to me. Roembke88 yeah we are trying for another one. Baby number 3 wasn't planned but we've both decided that we would like another one now and feel that it would complete our family x

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Mar 19th, 2012, 10:01 AM	#9
Roembke88 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 248	I hope it works out for you!

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