Update

Apple111 · Mar 29th, 2012, 16:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Bena

Hi Apple, I have been thinking how you are all day. I cant really give an opinion as I never been through this until now, didnt want to read and run. Im still having no pain and got another scan in the morning. Im dreading hearing it all over again. Lots of hugs xx

Hi Bena, sorry you are going through this too. I really hope your scan goes well. I didn't want to look at oh during mine because I knew I'd be able to read his face. It is such a horrible time. I really pushed and ended up having four, even though I was pretty convinced of outcome after second I didn't want any intervention just in case they had made a mistake. I know I will at least be able to come to terms with this once it has passed. Good luck and I will be thinking of u Hon xx

Bena · Mar 30th, 2012, 12:36 PM

Thanks for the reply Apple. Im even more confused now i have the second scan! Last week i was told i had a definate blighted ovum as there was nothing in the sac and now today they can see fetal pole and yolk sac??? They said baby only measuring at 5 weeks and my gestational sac is huge in comparison.(I should be 13 weeks today). No heartbeat was detected so got to go back for another scan in 10 days. Im so confused and when i asked why nothing could be seen last week they just shrug their shoulders.

Lots of hugs

Apple111 · Mar 30th, 2012, 17:10 PM

Oh honey that makes things even more stressful for u, what a nightmare for u

...it's going to be a long 10 days... I think the only way I would cope with it is to say it's in gods hands hon, if it's not ment to be nature might take it's course before , I'm 12 weeks today and I have finally started passing quite a lot, no big gush just lots of clots

and very uncomfortable to walk about. Just be glad when this is over so we can get our heads together and try again when we r ready. The fact that they have seen fetal pole is crazy for you but don't give up hope yet Jon. What will be will be and you will deal with whatever outcome u get.. Don't be alone through this hon keep us up to date and pm me if u like, take care , big hugs..xx

Apple111 · Apr 1st, 2012, 07:05 AM

Hi ladies just wanted to update and firstly thank everyone who supported me through this past month. My ordeal is now over. I ended up being taken to A&E by ambulance as I wouldn't stop bleeding, 24 hrs from first gush of blood I was still passing big clots and lots of blood so oh made decision enough was enough. Good job as my bp was really low and the bleeding got much worse. It took four hours for A&E to stabilise me before I could go to a ward. They had me on fluids and pain killers all night and gave me injection for bleeding. Thankfully it worked and scan shower that miscarriage was complete and didn't have to have D&C . Back home now for long sleep. Thank u all again for your support.gonna rest for a while now but will be back on here soon ttc xxx hug to u all , apple xxxxx

HisGrace · Apr 1st, 2012, 13:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Apple111

Hi ladies just wanted to update and firstly thank everyone who supported me through this past month. My ordeal is now over. I ended up being taken to A&E by ambulance as I wouldn't stop bleeding, 24 hrs from first gush of blood I was still passing big clots and lots of blood so oh made decision enough was enough. Good job as my bp was really low and the bleeding got much worse. It took four hours for A&E to stabilise me before I could go to a ward. They had me on fluids and pain killers all night and gave me injection for bleeding. Thankfully it worked and scan shower that miscarriage was complete and didn't have to have D&C . Back home now for long sleep. Thank u all again for your support.gonna rest for a while now but will be back on here soon ttc xxx hug to u all , apple xxxxx

Make sure you get some good rest. So sorry you had to go through all of this.

Bena · Apr 1st, 2012, 15:09 PM

Sorry you went through this and had to go a and e, must have been scary. Im happy you can try and get some closure from your loss after the long horrible wait you had to endure. Take care and get lots of rest. Hugs x x x

mrswil · Apr 1st, 2012, 17:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Apple111

Hi ladies just wanted to update and firstly thank everyone who supported me through this past month. My ordeal is now over. I ended up being taken to A&E by ambulance as I wouldn't stop bleeding, 24 hrs from first gush of blood I was still passing big clots and lots of blood so oh made decision enough was enough. Good job as my bp was really low and the bleeding got much worse. It took four hours for A&E to stabilise me before I could go to a ward. They had me on fluids and pain killers all night and gave me injection for bleeding. Thankfully it worked and scan shower that miscarriage was complete and didn't have to have D&C . Back home now for long sleep. Thank u all again for your support.gonna rest for a while now but will be back on here soon ttc xxx hug to u all , apple xxxxx

oh apple this has brought tears to my eyes i m/c 2 years ago after 12 years ttc had scan at 11 weeks to find baby dies 8+2 i decide to do it naturally one night i was in that much pain i was having like really bad cramping every 30 secs i was sobbing i was rushed into epa unit and they just gave me painkillers it happened again next night so i took my self in to hospital and they did an internal what had happened is baby and sac plus 2 blood clots had got wedged in my cervix cos of medical reasons i ended up having a D&C while i was awake and im telling you i wouldnt wish that on anyone so believe me i know exactly how you are feeling

Mar 30th, 2012, 12:36 PM	#12
Bena Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Staffordshire Posts: 24	Thanks for the reply Apple. Im even more confused now i have the second scan! Last week i was told i had a definate blighted ovum as there was nothing in the sac and now today they can see fetal pole and yolk sac??? They said baby only measuring at 5 weeks and my gestational sac is huge in comparison.(I should be 13 weeks today). No heartbeat was detected so got to go back for another scan in 10 days. Im so confused and when i asked why nothing could be seen last week they just shrug their shoulders. Lots of hugs

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Mar 30th, 2012, 17:10 PM	#13
Apple111 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: North west Posts: 632	Oh honey that makes things even more stressful for u, what a nightmare for u...it's going to be a long 10 days... I think the only way I would cope with it is to say it's in gods hands hon, if it's not ment to be nature might take it's course before , I'm 12 weeks today and I have finally started passing quite a lot, no big gush just lots of clots and very uncomfortable to walk about. Just be glad when this is over so we can get our heads together and try again when we r ready. The fact that they have seen fetal pole is crazy for you but don't give up hope yet Jon. What will be will be and you will deal with whatever outcome u get.. Don't be alone through this hon keep us up to date and pm me if u like, take care , big hugs..xx

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Apr 1st, 2012, 07:05 AM	#14
Apple111 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: North west Posts: 632	Update Hi ladies just wanted to update and firstly thank everyone who supported me through this past month. My ordeal is now over. I ended up being taken to A&E by ambulance as I wouldn't stop bleeding, 24 hrs from first gush of blood I was still passing big clots and lots of blood so oh made decision enough was enough. Good job as my bp was really low and the bleeding got much worse. It took four hours for A&E to stabilise me before I could go to a ward. They had me on fluids and pain killers all night and gave me injection for bleeding. Thankfully it worked and scan shower that miscarriage was complete and didn't have to have D&C . Back home now for long sleep. Thank u all again for your support.gonna rest for a while now but will be back on here soon ttc xxx hug to u all , apple xxxxx

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Apr 1st, 2012, 15:09 PM	#16
Bena Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Staffordshire Posts: 24	Sorry you went through this and had to go a and e, must have been scary. Im happy you can try and get some closure from your loss after the long horrible wait you had to endure. Take care and get lots of rest. Hugs x x x

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