Hi all I'm having a few issues dealing with the loss of my baby and don't know who else to talk to I went in Sunday to get a check up as I was spotting pink they gave me an ultrasound to ease my mind cause they said everything was fine next minute they said it was in my tubes the next thing I knew I was in surgery and when I woke they told me they had to take my left tube and that my right 1 was blocked meaning I could no longer have children I'm absolutely devastated I really wanted this baby
Awww I understand what you are going through. I lost both my tubes to two ectopics and went on to do IVF, on the third egg we feel pregnant with twins but at 18 weeks my water broken and I lost both my babies. I am planning to go back and do IVF but it is a very emotional roller coaster.
Got luck with the future
Thanks guys unfortunately I know they are right about my other tube as It was damaged when I had my daughter.. It may sound silly and like I'm ungrateful but I'm really sick of people telling me I already have 3 children and should be greatful for them I love them dearly but it's just not the same I know I was early but I loved my baby and wanted it sooo much and feel so broken I didn't know it was possible to be as sad as I am.
My baby sister is due in 2 weeks and I really want to be there for her but I can't bring my self to look at her I feel so horrible but I cry even looking at her..
I don't think you sound silly or ungrateful at all! Your feelings are your own, are valid and you don't need to defend them to anyone, even your sister. They are based on your own place in this world, your own situation and they can change (or not) at any point.
Do what you need to grieve your losses. Be good to yourself. Remember you are not alone in this and you always have us to come and talk to!
Hi all just thought I'd post here the doctors were wrong I found out last night that I am 6 weeks pregnant and it is very healthy and all is where it's meant to be the doctors
Can't explain it and either can I but I couldn't be happier thank you all for the support you gave me xxx
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