Went in for an ultrasound woke up in surgery

Babybee5 · Mar 27th, 2012, 06:10 AM

Hi all I'm having a few issues dealing with the loss of my baby and don't know who else to talk to I went in Sunday to get a check up as I was spotting pink they gave me an ultrasound to ease my mind cause they said everything was fine next minute they said it was in my tubes the next thing I knew I was in surgery and when I woke they told me they had to take my left tube and that my right 1 was blocked meaning I could no longer have children I'm absolutely devastated I really wanted this baby

StillFertile · Mar 27th, 2012, 06:40 AM

Oh babybee! I am so sorry for your loss and devastating news. I really hope they are wrong about your other tube. Please get another opinion!

TwoRdue · Mar 27th, 2012, 16:02 PM

Awww I understand what you are going through. I lost both my tubes to two ectopics and went on to do IVF, on the third egg we feel pregnant with twins but at 18 weeks my water broken and I lost both my babies. I am planning to go back and do IVF but it is a very emotional roller coaster.
Got luck with the future

amygwen · Mar 27th, 2012, 21:49 PM

I'm so sorry! As the others have said, please get a second opinion.

Katleigh1983 · Mar 27th, 2012, 22:51 PM

Oh hun am so very very sorry,sending big hugs.Like the others have said please get a second opion.I really hope they are wrong,am thinking of u hun sure everything will be fine xxxxx

Babybee5 · Mar 28th, 2012, 05:08 AM

Thanks guys unfortunately I know they are right about my other tube as It was damaged when I had my daughter.. It may sound silly and like I'm ungrateful but I'm really sick of people telling me I already have 3 children and should be greatful for them I love them dearly but it's just not the same I know I was early but I loved my baby and wanted it sooo much and feel so broken I didn't know it was possible to be as sad as I am.
My baby sister is due in 2 weeks and I really want to be there for her but I can't bring my self to look at her I feel so horrible but I cry even looking at her..

StillFertile · Mar 28th, 2012, 05:34 AM

Hugs Babybee.

I don't think you sound silly or ungrateful at all! Your feelings are your own, are valid and you don't need to defend them to anyone, even your sister. They are based on your own place in this world, your own situation and they can change (or not) at any point.

Do what you need to grieve your losses. Be good to yourself. Remember you are not alone in this and you always have us to come and talk to!

creatingpeace · Apr 1st, 2012, 16:54 PM

Big hugs and so sorry for the trauma of waking up from surgery must have been terrible! Sorry about your loss!

Starry Night · Apr 1st, 2012, 17:44 PM

The number of children you already have doesn't take away the worth and value of the baby you lost. Each one is unique and special. I'm so sorry for your loss and the devastating news you've received.

Babybee5 · May 14th, 2012, 05:07 AM

Hi all just thought I'd post here the doctors were wrong I found out last night that I am 6 weeks pregnant and it is very healthy and all is where it's meant to be the doctors
Can't explain it and either can I but I couldn't be happier thank you all for the support you gave me xxx

Mar 27th, 2012, 06:10 AM	#1
Babybee5 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 343	Went in for an ultrasound woke up in surgery Hi all I'm having a few issues dealing with the loss of my baby and don't know who else to talk to I went in Sunday to get a check up as I was spotting pink they gave me an ultrasound to ease my mind cause they said everything was fine next minute they said it was in my tubes the next thing I knew I was in surgery and when I woke they told me they had to take my left tube and that my right 1 was blocked meaning I could no longer have children I'm absolutely devastated I really wanted this baby

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Mar 27th, 2012, 06:40 AM	#2
StillFertile Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: London, UK (originally from PA) Posts: 230	Oh babybee! I am so sorry for your loss and devastating news. I really hope they are wrong about your other tube. Please get another opinion!

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Mar 27th, 2012, 16:02 PM	#3
TwoRdue Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,376	Awww I understand what you are going through. I lost both my tubes to two ectopics and went on to do IVF, on the third egg we feel pregnant with twins but at 18 weeks my water broken and I lost both my babies. I am planning to go back and do IVF but it is a very emotional roller coaster. Got luck with the future

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Mar 27th, 2012, 21:49 PM	#4
amygwen Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: San Antonio, Texas Posts: 9,581	I'm so sorry! As the others have said, please get a second opinion.

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Mar 27th, 2012, 22:51 PM	#5
Katleigh1983 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 164	Oh hun am so very very sorry,sending big hugs.Like the others have said please get a second opion.I really hope they are wrong,am thinking of u hun sure everything will be fine xxxxx

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Mar 28th, 2012, 05:08 AM	#6
Babybee5 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 343	Thanks guys unfortunately I know they are right about my other tube as It was damaged when I had my daughter.. It may sound silly and like I'm ungrateful but I'm really sick of people telling me I already have 3 children and should be greatful for them I love them dearly but it's just not the same I know I was early but I loved my baby and wanted it sooo much and feel so broken I didn't know it was possible to be as sad as I am. My baby sister is due in 2 weeks and I really want to be there for her but I can't bring my self to look at her I feel so horrible but I cry even looking at her..

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Mar 28th, 2012, 05:34 AM	#7
StillFertile Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: London, UK (originally from PA) Posts: 230	Hugs Babybee. I don't think you sound silly or ungrateful at all! Your feelings are your own, are valid and you don't need to defend them to anyone, even your sister. They are based on your own place in this world, your own situation and they can change (or not) at any point. Do what you need to grieve your losses. Be good to yourself. Remember you are not alone in this and you always have us to come and talk to!

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Apr 1st, 2012, 16:54 PM	#8
creatingpeace Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Muskoka, Ontario, Canada Posts: 3,276	Big hugs and so sorry for the trauma of waking up from surgery must have been terrible! Sorry about your loss!

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Apr 1st, 2012, 17:44 PM	#9
Starry Night Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 4,612	The number of children you already have doesn't take away the worth and value of the baby you lost. Each one is unique and special. I'm so sorry for your loss and the devastating news you've received.

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May 14th, 2012, 05:07 AM	#10
Babybee5 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 343	Hi all just thought I'd post here the doctors were wrong I found out last night that I am 6 weeks pregnant and it is very healthy and all is where it's meant to be the doctors Can't explain it and either can I but I couldn't be happier thank you all for the support you gave me xxx

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