I am 6w3d and high risk for tubal pregnancy due to a tubal reversal last April. I spent last week getting u/s and BETA blood tests. Last Monday at 5w2d I was 296 and Wednesday I was 496 in Hcg which I was told is normal. I have u/s every few days, last one yesterday and still nothing showing anywhere. I have had lower right quadrant pain and the dr seems to think it may be from ovarian cyst but still keeping an eye due to risk. This weekend on the way to a family birthday my husband wrecked my car into an suv on the highway going about 75. Thank God it was a side to side impact so no one in our family or the other driver was hurt but immediately after I had severe cramping, almost like contractions. Not to mention I was an emotional basket case. My doctor happened to call soon after and I told her what happened and she told me to lie down and take it easy for the day. We haven't told any family since we are early and high risk so I had to spend the day trying not to look worried and scared and to top it off, my husband took me on a four wheeler all over the place which was bumpy and shaking me like crazy but being that he is a firefighter/paramedic I figured he knew what my limits would be. I know he had good intentions trying to distract me from the wreck and my anxiety but I later found out that was not a smart idea. Yesterday we had sex and after I had a bit of brown spotting which I heard can be common but as time went by the spotting turned pink and continued throughout my nightly trips to the bathroom and still present this morning. It is light, am wearing a thin liner and light pinkish to a rust color so far. I have cramping with it, which I have had but more like menstrual cramping than the stretching cramps I had been having. I have also had a stitch on my side above my hip and lower right back pain, I have an old back injury that may have been aggravated after car wreck impact. That is when the stitch appeared as well as the lower back pain started. I know this is all a waiting game now and I need to relax but so much easier said than done. I am back at work today and the activity is wearing on me. Just went to bathroom and blood looks more red. Husband just keeps telling me to relax so I just needed to get the frustration and fear out. I have wanted to be so excited and felt like I had a good chance for things to go well until now.

im so sorry for whats going on. i know how it feels as i had a miscarriage in my eleventh week. i too had spotting, from brown to bright red, but they do say its quite normal to have this in the beginning. although with the accident, and your high risk, i would get in to dr soon. get another us just to make sure babe has a hb. it sucks having to wait not knowing if everything will be ok, and im not going to say "dont worry" because you will anyway, who wouldnt?! just relax, leave work if you have to and go to the dr, the sooner you find you whats going on the sooner you can deal with the results. hang in there, youre not alone!:-)

Thank you! Blood has turned bright red and I took Tylenol for cramping. Small clots with bleeding and lower back hurts. Dr said to ride it out unless bleeding becomes heavy or pain becomes severe. You are right, who wouldn't worry.

how are you doing? did the bleeding get bad? is the baby ok?

Ended up losing the baby. Went through an ordeal. Dr ended up giving me a shot of methotrexate since I am high risk for tubal, just to be on the safe side. I still think it was a mc, but will never know since we weren't able to confirm placement of baby. Waiting for beta to drop to 0 then have to wait a cycle to try again. Scared to try again though. How are things with you? Thank you for checking in btw, that is really sweet of you?

im so sorry you had to go through this losing a baby is tramatic. i dont know much about tubal preg, my friend had one, and i know it puts the mom at risk as well. did they do an us to determine baby position? should they have not done one earlier on? my miscarriage was very traumatic for me, i lost my baby in a public bathroom, and an ambulance needed to be called. i bled so much, it really terrified me! they didnt perform a d&c, even though they shouldve, since i ended up being extremely anemic, and almost needed a transfusion. it scared me to even THINK about trying again. it took me four years to convince myself it would be ok to try for another baby. i knew if i didnt take the chance i would regret it. so we did, and two years later we had our baby girl. she just turned one, and now were trying for another! it is still scary, i still think about the baby i lost, and about HOW it happenned, but having another baby is too important. if you need help to get over this loss, dont feel ashamed! i had horrible depression and anxiety following my mc. i still am on meds to help my anxiety. this is a hard time, and if you need help reach out. it will be much better than waiting, as it could get worse. if you ever need to talk, im here!:-)