Feeling a little nuts

NT123 · Mar 29th, 2012, 11:35 AM

Let me know how the two of you get on please ladies, I'll be thinking of you x

Creative · Mar 29th, 2012, 11:46 AM

hugs to you both. lost mine yesterday too. thinking of you.

newbie123 · Mar 29th, 2012, 18:10 PM

Hi ladies,
I wanted to let you know I had the d&c and I'm glad I decided to go that route. I'm really relieved it's all over and it wasn't nearly as painful as I had expected. I have some mild cramping now and I'm bleeding, but I'm really ready to put this behind me an move on.

NT123 · Mar 29th, 2012, 22:08 PM

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Originally Posted by newbie123

Hi ladies,
I wanted to let you know I had the d&c and I'm glad I decided to go that route. I'm really relieved it's all over and it wasn't nearly as painful as I had expected. I have some mild cramping now and I'm bleeding, but I'm really ready to put this behind me an move on.

Newbie so glad it went as well as can be expected, I actually have bleeding far less than a normal period and took hardly any painkillers really. The thing that's making me upset now is the pregnancy bumps everywhere and how upset my gorgeous hubbie is x how's ur OH taken the news ? Im going to get a gp appt monday and get some reassurance for the next time, part of me feels I don't know I can risk this again and that I will dread pregnancy again and other part thinks I must try straight away and not give myself to much time to build this up in my head.

Leinzlove · Mar 30th, 2012, 01:53 AM

I'm sorry ladies!

I also had a missed MC this month. It is just awful. Scream, kick, cry, and just do whatever you feel like doing.

rose_x · Mar 30th, 2012, 05:02 AM

Hi I went through the same thing in january went to my 12 week scan and baby had no heart beat was heart broken. This was my second baby. First baby is a healthy 2 year old. I was booked to have a d&c 10 days later as there was no space. The day I found out baby had no heart beat started having light bleeding and cramping 6 days later the miscarriage started I was rushed to hospital with complications and still had to have d&c eventhough I miscarried naturaly as not everything has came out.
Everyones body is different so deals with it in different ways.

xxx

newbie123 · Mar 30th, 2012, 07:58 AM

Hi ladies,
I'm doing well, but the bleeding seems to have really picked up. I think it's normal so I'm just waiting it out. I've had some cramping, a little worse than period cramps, but I'm just relaxing today and my husband has been taking great care of me.

I'm having the same emotions NT. Part of me really wants to try again as soon as possible, but part of me is sooo scared. I never expected this to happen and I was so relaxed about this pregnancy, but now I feel like I won't be able to enjoy my next one. The doctors have all told me this doesn't at all indicate how future pregnancies will unfold, but you can't help but be scared. I think my husband's more upset than he's letting on. The day we found out was really difficult for him. I'd never seen him like that actually so I think I became numb. Now I think he feels like he has to take care of me and that's what he's focused on.

rose_x · Mar 30th, 2012, 08:03 AM

Its been just over 2 months since I had my mc. A part of me wants to try again but another part of me is so scared I don't think I could cope with going through something like this again.
Its hard trying to get all my emotions together and trying to work out what is best for me and my family as it has been rough on us all.

NT123 · Mar 31st, 2012, 00:53 AM

How are you doing today newbie? I keep waking in the middle of the night and for that split second I don't realise and then it all comes back and I'm crying. I know partially the hormones will play a role, I'm now starting to bleed more which I think is probably linked to the psychological side of getting my head around this whole horror? I'm dreading going back to work, to listening to everyone and their nosey prying questions ( my boss has told them i was in hospital for appendix problems) and to clients whose problems I'm not interested in. How do u feel? Is this happening to you? I feel like one minute I could cry and the next I coul scream with anger.

Stressbucket · Mar 31st, 2012, 01:56 AM

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Mar 29th, 2012, 11:35 AM	#11
NT123 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 457	Let me know how the two of you get on please ladies, I'll be thinking of you x

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Mar 29th, 2012, 11:46 AM	#12
Creative Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: East Yorkshire Posts: 1,240	hugs to you both. lost mine yesterday too. thinking of you.

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Mar 29th, 2012, 18:10 PM	#13
newbie123 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 184	Hi ladies, I wanted to let you know I had the d&c and I'm glad I decided to go that route. I'm really relieved it's all over and it wasn't nearly as painful as I had expected. I have some mild cramping now and I'm bleeding, but I'm really ready to put this behind me an move on.

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Mar 30th, 2012, 01:53 AM	#15
Leinzlove Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 7,271	I'm sorry ladies! I also had a missed MC this month. It is just awful. Scream, kick, cry, and just do whatever you feel like doing.

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Mar 30th, 2012, 05:02 AM	#16
rose_x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 26	Hi I went through the same thing in january went to my 12 week scan and baby had no heart beat was heart broken. This was my second baby. First baby is a healthy 2 year old. I was booked to have a d&c 10 days later as there was no space. The day I found out baby had no heart beat started having light bleeding and cramping 6 days later the miscarriage started I was rushed to hospital with complications and still had to have d&c eventhough I miscarried naturaly as not everything has came out. Everyones body is different so deals with it in different ways. xxx

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Mar 30th, 2012, 07:58 AM	#17
newbie123 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 184	Hi ladies, I'm doing well, but the bleeding seems to have really picked up. I think it's normal so I'm just waiting it out. I've had some cramping, a little worse than period cramps, but I'm just relaxing today and my husband has been taking great care of me. I'm having the same emotions NT. Part of me really wants to try again as soon as possible, but part of me is sooo scared. I never expected this to happen and I was so relaxed about this pregnancy, but now I feel like I won't be able to enjoy my next one. The doctors have all told me this doesn't at all indicate how future pregnancies will unfold, but you can't help but be scared. I think my husband's more upset than he's letting on. The day we found out was really difficult for him. I'd never seen him like that actually so I think I became numb. Now I think he feels like he has to take care of me and that's what he's focused on.

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Mar 30th, 2012, 08:03 AM	#18
rose_x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 26	Its been just over 2 months since I had my mc. A part of me wants to try again but another part of me is so scared I don't think I could cope with going through something like this again. Its hard trying to get all my emotions together and trying to work out what is best for me and my family as it has been rough on us all.

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Mar 31st, 2012, 00:53 AM	#19
NT123 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 457	How are you doing today newbie? I keep waking in the middle of the night and for that split second I don't realise and then it all comes back and I'm crying. I know partially the hormones will play a role, I'm now starting to bleed more which I think is probably linked to the psychological side of getting my head around this whole horror? I'm dreading going back to work, to listening to everyone and their nosey prying questions ( my boss has told them i was in hospital for appendix problems) and to clients whose problems I'm not interested in. How do u feel? Is this happening to you? I feel like one minute I could cry and the next I coul scream with anger.

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Mar 31st, 2012, 01:56 AM	#20
Stressbucket Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Northern California Posts: 457	Feeling a little nuts *

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