Rough Day - Page 4

Stressbucket · Apr 1st, 2012, 18:32 PM

I know what you mean about the innocence being gone. I want to try again soon, but I know that this will be hanging over us.

NT123 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 01:17 AM

We are in this together ladies, when it is meant to be it will happen for us, despite how devastating this is. I found out yesterday by brother got rushed into hospital having keeled over fitting at paintball, he had never had a fit before, if we had been on holiday as planned he would have been alone, or could possibly have been home alone when he fitted so maybe my not going to NYC due to this mc was for that reason. I have to believe its not coincidence and that when we get those babies, they'll have parents who truly know their worth. X

kelly4 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 02:14 AM

Hi ladies, the things we are going through, I would not wish on anyone. I to am in alot of pain, been taking pain killers for two days now. It is like sharp pains in my tummy but I think its all part of the healing process. My bleeding also died down to nothing yesterday but last night it was like the flood gates have opened and now back to when I first had the d&c. I still have not cried since friday, just feel numb and its like I was in a dream and I was never pregnant. Its a very weird feeling. Gonna give it a few weeks and re-start my diet which I was on before I found out and start taking vitamins as I never did until I found out I was pregnant. I think its the whole will this happen again that puts me off trying, but I think I need to as I really do want another baby now. I hope you ladies are feeling ok today, its a tough old journey.

londonangel · Apr 2nd, 2012, 04:20 AM

So sorry to hear of everyone's losses. I had a miscarriage a couple of years ago at about 9 weeks. I started cramping on the Thursday but didn't start bleeding until the Sunday evening. The bleeding started really suddenly and was very heavy, but I'm not sure whether this is how it presents in all miscarriages. Sending you all lots of support - it's horrid but there are many people on here who know what you're going through xx

newbie123 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 09:53 AM

Hi Ladies,
Last night I started a thread in the third trimester section I thought you might find reassuring. (I do recommend staying away from that section in general as it's kindof depressing right now). Here's the thread if anybody's interested.

http://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy...scarriage.html

Creative · Apr 2nd, 2012, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by newbie123

Hi Ladies,
Last night I started a thread in the third trimester section I thought you might find reassuring. (I do recommend staying away from that section in general as it's kindof depressing right now). Here's the thread if anybody's interested.

http://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy...scarriage.html

Thank you for that incredibly positive thread.

NT123 · Apr 2nd, 2012, 12:46 PM

Newbie I can't believe how much better I feel from reading that thread, thanks so much x

Apr 1st, 2012, 18:32 PM	#31
Stressbucket Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Northern California Posts: 457	I know what you mean about the innocence being gone. I want to try again soon, but I know that this will be hanging over us.

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 01:17 AM	#32
NT123 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 457	We are in this together ladies, when it is meant to be it will happen for us, despite how devastating this is. I found out yesterday by brother got rushed into hospital having keeled over fitting at paintball, he had never had a fit before, if we had been on holiday as planned he would have been alone, or could possibly have been home alone when he fitted so maybe my not going to NYC due to this mc was for that reason. I have to believe its not coincidence and that when we get those babies, they'll have parents who truly know their worth. X

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 02:14 AM	#33
kelly4 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Essex, uk Posts: 140	Hi ladies, the things we are going through, I would not wish on anyone. I to am in alot of pain, been taking pain killers for two days now. It is like sharp pains in my tummy but I think its all part of the healing process. My bleeding also died down to nothing yesterday but last night it was like the flood gates have opened and now back to when I first had the d&c. I still have not cried since friday, just feel numb and its like I was in a dream and I was never pregnant. Its a very weird feeling. Gonna give it a few weeks and re-start my diet which I was on before I found out and start taking vitamins as I never did until I found out I was pregnant. I think its the whole will this happen again that puts me off trying, but I think I need to as I really do want another baby now. I hope you ladies are feeling ok today, its a tough old journey.

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 04:20 AM	#34
londonangel Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 1,467	So sorry to hear of everyone's losses. I had a miscarriage a couple of years ago at about 9 weeks. I started cramping on the Thursday but didn't start bleeding until the Sunday evening. The bleeding started really suddenly and was very heavy, but I'm not sure whether this is how it presents in all miscarriages. Sending you all lots of support - it's horrid but there are many people on here who know what you're going through xx

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 09:53 AM	#35
newbie123 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 184	Hi Ladies, Last night I started a thread in the third trimester section I thought you might find reassuring. (I do recommend staying away from that section in general as it's kindof depressing right now). Here's the thread if anybody's interested. http://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy...scarriage.html

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 12:46 PM	#37
NT123 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 457	Newbie I can't believe how much better I feel from reading that thread, thanks so much x

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