Painful sex after D&E??? TMI alert

MrsR3AM5 · Mar 30th, 2012, 08:29 AM

So, DH and I obeyed the doctor's orders, and waited three weeks to

--for about 12 days of that we were geographically separated for work/visiting family. So I came back home last night and we were ripping clothes off...but in the middle of our celebrations, I suddenly felt intense pain "down there" and we had to stop everything. There's still some pressure and discomfort 12 hours later.

I don't understand...we waited the appropriate time...why is it hurting? Should I be concerned?

rose_x · Mar 30th, 2012, 08:43 AM

I had the same pain even 6 weeks after my mc and d&c I went docs and they said its my uterus going back to normal size. Sorry TMI the pain happened in certain possition and lasted all the next day. It has been just over 2 months since mc and pains have gone.
I don't think there is anything to be concerned about xxxx

sassymrsbee · Mar 30th, 2012, 17:23 PM

I was wondering the same exact thing!! Today is the first day we can

and my husband and I are both really excited lol but I have been worried about it hurting. We will take it easy for a while, I am hoping just being gentle will keep it comfortable.

thankful2012 · Mar 30th, 2012, 18:26 PM

I had no pain at all & we only waited a week bc the dr told us as soon as I stopped bleeding we could
do the deed. My body heals really fast with anything else so I figured that's what happened. But I'm probably the odd ball lol.

debzie · Mar 31st, 2012, 14:05 PM

I had this after my second miscarriage and am expecting it again after this recient one. My pain lasted for around 8 weeks post miscarriage and then longer in certain positions. My Gp said that it can be down to the soft ligaments of your uterus and uterus returning back to normal and causing some pain. This time I had a ERPC so wondering how that will affect things in a few weeks.

xobabyhopes · Mar 31st, 2012, 22:57 PM

we had this problem too, it hurt so bad the first time we tried i literally cried and we had to stop, didnt try for another week. it will go away soon im sure of it

NeverHappn2Me · Apr 1st, 2012, 07:04 AM

What about emotional baggage? All I could picture was my internal examinations during the ordeal and other things that are probably TMI and if noone else has experienced that I don't want to put it in your mind. Anyone? I feel terrible for my poor husband he felt horrible when I cried afterwards. He wanted to talk about it but I think it will make next time worse if I tell him what goes through my mind. Poor guy. I just want this all to be over. If anyone gets kinda what I mean is there anyway you can email me personally if you don't want to post on here?

Mar 30th, 2012, 08:29 AM	#1
MrsR3AM5 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Delaware, USA Posts: 142	Painful sex after D&E??? TMI alert So, DH and I obeyed the doctor's orders, and waited three weeks to --for about 12 days of that we were geographically separated for work/visiting family. So I came back home last night and we were ripping clothes off...but in the middle of our celebrations, I suddenly felt intense pain "down there" and we had to stop everything. There's still some pressure and discomfort 12 hours later. I don't understand...we waited the appropriate time...why is it hurting? Should I be concerned?

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Mar 30th, 2012, 08:43 AM	#2
rose_x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 26	I had the same pain even 6 weeks after my mc and d&c I went docs and they said its my uterus going back to normal size. Sorry TMI the pain happened in certain possition and lasted all the next day. It has been just over 2 months since mc and pains have gone. I don't think there is anything to be concerned about xxxx

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Mar 30th, 2012, 17:23 PM	#3
sassymrsbee Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: California Posts: 227	I was wondering the same exact thing!! Today is the first day we can and my husband and I are both really excited lol but I have been worried about it hurting. We will take it easy for a while, I am hoping just being gentle will keep it comfortable.

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Mar 30th, 2012, 18:26 PM	#4
thankful2012 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Lexington, NC Posts: 285	I had no pain at all & we only waited a week bc the dr told us as soon as I stopped bleeding we could do the deed. My body heals really fast with anything else so I figured that's what happened. But I'm probably the odd ball lol.

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Mar 31st, 2012, 14:05 PM	#5
debzie Other BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: County Durham UK Posts: 3,473	I had this after my second miscarriage and am expecting it again after this recient one. My pain lasted for around 8 weeks post miscarriage and then longer in certain positions. My Gp said that it can be down to the soft ligaments of your uterus and uterus returning back to normal and causing some pain. This time I had a ERPC so wondering how that will affect things in a few weeks.

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Mar 31st, 2012, 22:57 PM	#6
xobabyhopes Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 350	we had this problem too, it hurt so bad the first time we tried i literally cried and we had to stop, didnt try for another week. it will go away soon im sure of it

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Apr 1st, 2012, 07:04 AM	#7
NeverHappn2Me Waiting To Try (WTT) New BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 5	What about emotional baggage? All I could picture was my internal examinations during the ordeal and other things that are probably TMI and if noone else has experienced that I don't want to put it in your mind. Anyone? I feel terrible for my poor husband he felt horrible when I cried afterwards. He wanted to talk about it but I think it will make next time worse if I tell him what goes through my mind. Poor guy. I just want this all to be over. If anyone gets kinda what I mean is there anyway you can email me personally if you don't want to post on here?

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