Hi ladies, just an update, I had my D&C today and it went well. When I got there I started to bleed heavy and then my womb started contracting, so I was given Morphine. I was then taken down and it was all over quickly. Have just got home now and I feel so much better. I have not cried today, which is a good sign and I feel at peace as I know my bean is another star in the sky. I had great care and I know now what to expect if I should miscary again. I hope all you ladies in the same position are ok and I know its scary, but we can get through it, sending you all loads of hugs xxxx

sending hugs xx

I'm glad everything went so well today. Lots of hugs ur way.

I had a d&c yesterday also. Hugs to you!!! I received great care also.

Hey all, I am new to this forum. I read somewhere that sharing your experience can make you feel better so here I go. I was diagnosed young with PCOS and have never had a regular cycle and rarely got a period. When my husband and I decided to try for a baby, I started taking provera in order to start my cycle and 50mg of Clomid to ovulate, i had one cycle that seemed to go normal without a resulting pregnancy, but the next cycle I didn't get a period . My doctor started me on provera again and upped my dose to 100mg and i got a positive result! Unfortunately, at 7 weeks the fetus was only about 5.5 weeks and there was no heart beat. After about 3 ultrasounds the sack was abnormal and still no heartbeat. My doctor told me that I was probably going to miscarry anyway, but I had the choice to do it naturally or have a D&C. This was yesterday and I said that I would wait it out and do it naturally. After a day of crying and a morning of clarity, I made an appointment to do in today for the D&C, I realized it was hurting me more WAITING for it to end and still having to feed pregnant when it was clearly suppose to be over. The D&C was performed without anesthesia, since the anesthesiologist only does comes to the office on specific days. But I actually don't like being put under, so it was completely okay with it. There is definite pain during and after, but a lot of the emotion pain seems to be gone. This has to be the definition of a cathartic experience, at least in my case. I am not saying this is the right solution for everyone, but it was definitely the best choice for me. If anyone has any questions about the procedure, I am here for you.