After 5 days of happiness it looks like pregnancy over

Emmielou28 · Apr 1st, 2012, 02:05 AM

I found out I was pregnant on Monday and last night started bleeding. I am so so upset. This is my third mc!!! Why me? I wouldn't wish mc on anyone but I am the only one of any of my friends who has had one. They have all sailed through multiple pregnancies with no problems. Now I have had 3. I don't know what to do. I am devastated. I hadn't even been to my doctor to confirm pregnancy, my appointment is this wednesday. Do I still go? I know it's definitely over as the bleeding is heavy. I can't stop crying.

LegoHouse · Apr 1st, 2012, 02:07 AM

Have you taken a pregnancy test? Is it negative? If not I would ring the EPU.

If you've had 3 miscarriages you do need to see a doctor x

Hopefulgirl00 · Apr 1st, 2012, 02:12 AM

I'm so sorry that this is happening to you - I've just gone through the same thing last week

Ring your doctor tomorrow & tell them - they may refer you to the EPAU as if it is an MC (there's always a small chance it's not) they will need to check nature is doing this 'properly'
Again I am so sorry. HPT's can be very misleading as HCG MAY stay in your system for WEEKS or disappear within days. At least a blood test can detect the levels xxx big hugs xxx

Emmielou28 · Apr 1st, 2012, 02:13 AM

I will take pregnancy test in a week to confirm its over. I wasn't even 5 weeks pregnant so wouldn't show on scan.

Although this is third mc, I had a daughter with second pregnancy so until I have 3 mc in a row doctors won't be interested!

LegoHouse · Apr 1st, 2012, 02:18 AM

I had my daughter first and then my miscarriages. Mine was looked into after 2. I had a lovely doctor back then I don't think my doctor now would have been so understanding.

I'm sorry for your loss

x

SabrinaKat · Apr 1st, 2012, 16:53 PM

I'm not sure where you live, but is it possible at least, to ask your GP for some basic tests, e.g. thyroid, iron, etc? I was able to persuade my own doctor after my mc (and two possible chemicals) when we were considering IVF and discovered I had an underactive thyroid, ultimately and on the medication, I was able to conceive and hold on in my last pregnancy (LO is now 8wks+). I think it might reassure you that all is well with YOU, especially since you were lucky before....

best wishes and please take care of yourself....

Apr 1st, 2012, 02:05 AM	#1
Emmielou28 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 381	After 5 days of happiness it looks like pregnancy over I found out I was pregnant on Monday and last night started bleeding. I am so so upset. This is my third mc!!! Why me? I wouldn't wish mc on anyone but I am the only one of any of my friends who has had one. They have all sailed through multiple pregnancies with no problems. Now I have had 3. I don't know what to do. I am devastated. I hadn't even been to my doctor to confirm pregnancy, my appointment is this wednesday. Do I still go? I know it's definitely over as the bleeding is heavy. I can't stop crying.

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Apr 1st, 2012, 02:07 AM	#2
LegoHouse Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 5,473	Have you taken a pregnancy test? Is it negative? If not I would ring the EPU. If you've had 3 miscarriages you do need to see a doctor x

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Apr 1st, 2012, 02:12 AM	#3
Hopefulgirl00 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 18	I'm so sorry that this is happening to you - I've just gone through the same thing last week Ring your doctor tomorrow & tell them - they may refer you to the EPAU as if it is an MC (there's always a small chance it's not) they will need to check nature is doing this 'properly' Again I am so sorry. HPT's can be very misleading as HCG MAY stay in your system for WEEKS or disappear within days. At least a blood test can detect the levels xxx big hugs xxx

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Apr 1st, 2012, 02:13 AM	#4
Emmielou28 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 381	I will take pregnancy test in a week to confirm its over. I wasn't even 5 weeks pregnant so wouldn't show on scan. Although this is third mc, I had a daughter with second pregnancy so until I have 3 mc in a row doctors won't be interested!

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Apr 1st, 2012, 02:18 AM	#5
LegoHouse Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 5,473	I had my daughter first and then my miscarriages. Mine was looked into after 2. I had a lovely doctor back then I don't think my doctor now would have been so understanding. I'm sorry for your loss x

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Apr 1st, 2012, 16:53 PM	#6
SabrinaKat Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Transplanted American living in Ireland Posts: 4,662	I'm not sure where you live, but is it possible at least, to ask your GP for some basic tests, e.g. thyroid, iron, etc? I was able to persuade my own doctor after my mc (and two possible chemicals) when we were considering IVF and discovered I had an underactive thyroid, ultimately and on the medication, I was able to conceive and hold on in my last pregnancy (LO is now 8wks+). I think it might reassure you that all is well with YOU, especially since you were lucky before.... best wishes and please take care of yourself....

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