Forum Rules


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old May 14th, 2013, 12:53 PM   51
CaliDreaming
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Atlanta, GA
Posts: 4,443
Quote:
Originally Posted by VP1228 View Post
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kelstar82 View Post
I honestly think this will be a lucky thread girls xxx
Lol me too! Because you guys are more supportive than my family. The only person in my family that has supported me during these difficult months is my cousin. My dad thinks I am still a child and doesn't want me to have a baby and my mom says that she wants a grandchild but I know I can't tell her we are actively trying because I know she will turn into Mother Dearest and try to talk me out of it right now. His parents are supportive because they had their first child at 20 or 21 so we have their support. His family asked me a few weeks ago when are we going to have a baby and I almost cried because they think it is so easy to get pregnant just because I am young. Ugh I just hope this lap makes it easier or at least gives me a answer to why it isn't happening now. Sorry for the long story just happy to have some real support and no one is judging me
Aw that sucks that your family isn't supporting your decision. I wouldn't bat an eye at someone having a child at 23. My mom had me when she was 19 and my dad was 23, and they were together for almost 35 years until my mom passed four years ago. I had a very happy childhood. There are plusses and minuses at any age, so don't let people get you down!



 
Status: Offline
 
Old May 14th, 2013, 13:04 PM   52
VP1228
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2012
Posts: 221
I don't let them stop me from having that baby I truly want so bad. But I was looking at my chart since this is my first time charting and my O has not been detected yet but I had a positive opk Saturday evening or maybe it wasn't postive anyway i am on day 15 of a 25 to 27 day cycle. If nothing changes by the time AF comes then I may not be ovulating at all because I always have the pain and positive opk but no BFP hmmm



Status: Offline
 
Old May 14th, 2013, 14:36 PM   53
Kelstar82
Pregnant (Expecting)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: Ayrshire Scotland
Posts: 144
I dont think your too young at all.. ��
My sister in law is 22 and has 3 kids x

Its great talking to others think my husband is sick of me going on lol.

Its exhausting and mentally draining dealing with TTC ... So glad i have people to talk to on here. I dont think others understand how emotional and sad it is every month not getting a BFP.... X

We will get there xx



Status: Offline
 
Old May 14th, 2013, 14:52 PM   54
VP1228
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2012
Posts: 221
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kelstar82 View Post
I dont think your too young at all.. ��
My sister in law is 22 and has 3 kids x

Its great talking to others think my husband is sick of me going on lol.

Its exhausting and mentally draining dealing with TTC ... So glad i have people to talk to on here. I dont think others understand how emotional and sad it is every month not getting a BFP.... X

We will get there xx
I second that because when I try to talk to my DF about the stress I have about not having a baby he gets frustrated and say I need to relax. How can I relax after 20 months of trying so hard. My best friend is pregnant and she didn't even tell me when she heard the baby's heartbeat until I asked her and today she told me she is going to continue living with her parents after the baby is here EDD is November 21. It makes me so mad that I can't have a baby now and she got an abortion 2 years ago at 7 weeks. Ugh it just keeps getting more annoying.



Status: Offline
 
Old May 14th, 2013, 14:56 PM   55
Kelstar82
Pregnant (Expecting)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: Ayrshire Scotland
Posts: 144
Oh i feel your pain my SIL was 5 months pregnant out partying and never even knew? Whereas for nearly 3 years i have been desperately trying.

Everyone around me just appeared to fall pregnant last year and as much as im haply for everyone of them its heartbreaking inside

My hubby just thinks i go on & on i just feel
Lonely to be honest feel so much better talking on here xx



Status: Offline
 
Old May 14th, 2013, 15:07 PM   56
VP1228
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2012
Posts: 221
My fiance feels that I am overreacting. He say that he wants to have a baby and he tries with me when he isn't working. We currently don't live together because I lost my job so we couldn't afford the rent but we are looking for a cheaper place until I find another job. I know it sounds very irresponsible to have a baby and we don't live together but I know one the baby is here we will be completely settled in. Anyway don't feel alone you have me to talk to . I feel all the pain that you feel about wanting a baby really bad. Sometimes I daydream about how my life would be if i had a baby. It doesn't make me feel any better because it's not real but it just keeps me hopeful



Status: Offline
 
Old May 14th, 2013, 16:23 PM   57
CaliDreaming
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Atlanta, GA
Posts: 4,443
Ugh, one of the worst parts of IF for me is dealing with other people's pregnancy's. My little brother is expecting his second child with his wife. I got the news right after my second failed clomid cycle and it was a huge punch in the gut. My dad was going on and on about how great it was to be a grandfather again, and I felt like everyone else in the world is happy except me. I have never felt so low in my life. I hate feeling jealous when I should be feeling happy. I love my little bro and feel so guilty when I get envious. He's been supporting me all the way in my TTC efforts.

Men really do not understand how this weighs on us.



 
Status: Offline
 
Old May 14th, 2013, 16:31 PM   58
Kelstar82
Pregnant (Expecting)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: Ayrshire Scotland
Posts: 144
They really dont and it just causes arguments with me and my hubby.. Hes quite laid back with it all or he certainly appears to be... Girls im praying for us all xxxx we will do this x

6 days ... Ahhhh xx



Status: Offline
 
Old May 14th, 2013, 16:33 PM   59
Kelstar82
Pregnant (Expecting)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: Ayrshire Scotland
Posts: 144
Also i hate feeling jealous too its just something i cant help xx im so happy for friends and family and would never wish this on them but i just feel overwhelming jealousy and im not even a jealous person tbh xxxxx my hubby does not understand this part at all x



Status: Offline
 
Old May 14th, 2013, 16:34 PM   60
VP1228
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2012
Posts: 221
Nope they don't because they don't have the same feelings that we have about this. I try my hardest not to be mean to others when they tell me they are pregnant, but when they say they weren't trying and then others look at me like I'm not actively trying it boils my blood so bad. Congrats to your brother though. Idk what I am going to do when my friend goes into labor in November idk if I can deal with it. I may hold her baby so much that I may feel like it's mine which seems so crazy. I just have that feeling I am going to go crazy soon if it doesn't happen. My doctor is supportive because he understands how important this is to me



Status: Offline
 

SEO by vBSEO