NTNP 30+ - Anyone else? - Page 4

Kaleido · Jul 15th, 2011, 07:54 AM

Hello everyone! Im 33 and excited that this will be my first month ntnp. My db and Ihave been together for a year both desperately want children, I always thought id have 3 by now! But neither of us were ever in the right relationship/situation until we were lucky enough to find each other. We were waiting to try until we finished remodeling our home and saved what I believed to be a safe amount of money (as I make more money and own a business, and don't want to have to worry) . But after believing I was pregnant last month and getting a bfn , we realized how disappointed we were and that we are both ready for this part of our lives... I am so so excited and so happy I found this board, can't wait to get to know everyone!

CeeDee · Jul 15th, 2011, 09:17 AM

Welcome, Kaleido! Hopefully you'll have a short journey.

Heidi · Jul 15th, 2011, 11:08 AM

No fair, i don't fit in to either the 30+ or the young 20's thread, i'm almost 27!

joeybrooks · Jul 15th, 2011, 14:16 PM

Kaleido, that's how I found myself here. When I wasn't pg I was disappointerld and at 30, in a brill relationship and v happy, I questioned why I wasn't FTC. Think the disappointment of bfn is an eye opener.

Kaleido · Jul 16th, 2011, 07:02 AM

Yes joeybrooks it really was! Of coarse I knew I wanted children, but until I got that bfn I didn't realize how much I had been trying to block out and distract myself from how badley I wanted them now! And we both realized we were only waiting bc we each thought that's what the other wanted! Now we are both just walking around with smiles, we know it may not happen right away, but just knowing we are on that path is so exciting

it really is a great feeling to share

CeeDee · Jul 17th, 2011, 15:21 PM

Heidi your close enough. Join us.

Heidi · Jul 18th, 2011, 03:53 AM

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Originally Posted by CeeDee

Heidi your close enough. Join us.

Yay thanks!!

mommy2lilmen · Jul 20th, 2011, 01:52 AM

Hi there Im 34 this August..and we are deciding if we will just throw in the towel and leave it in and see what happens or wait till one of the 2 are out of diapers or wait till one of the 2 are out of diapers and my oldest is moved out or what. .. we're not using protection and were not trying..so im not sure if im in the 30+ NTNP or what. Hard to decide what to do ...as I want to TTC a GIRL baby, and am afraid of TTC that it iwll be a boy. I know my cycles, so right at the peak of eggwhite cm then we will babydance, ugh, idk lol anyawys Im 34 soon. and possibly belong to this forum

CeeDee · Jul 20th, 2011, 10:35 AM

mommy2lilmen, Wow! 6 boys! Hopefully you'll get some pink soon.

noshowjo · Jul 20th, 2011, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Clara cluck

OH and I decided a few months ago. I've had 2 periods since removal of the Mirena coil. They seem to be around 24 day cycles so far, used to be longer before. I too am worried I won't conceive having suffered severely painful periods since age 16 that have been attributed to endometriosis. Fingers crossed for us all! It's nice to hear many people saying similar things. I've finally met someone lovely who I want to have kids with, later than many people but hey, that's how life is I guess.

hi there , just noticed you had the mirena also have endo too , well thats me too . i have mirena now and have also fished a 6 month go on zoladax , i want my mirena out so much to ttc , but my husband keeps saying there is plenty of time ,
he really not understanding that my endo could grow back so soon , then im back to getting laps , more zoladax and maybe not concieving ever , xx

Jul 15th, 2011, 07:54 AM	#31
Kaleido Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 194	Hello everyone! Im 33 and excited that this will be my first month ntnp. My db and Ihave been together for a year both desperately want children, I always thought id have 3 by now! But neither of us were ever in the right relationship/situation until we were lucky enough to find each other. We were waiting to try until we finished remodeling our home and saved what I believed to be a safe amount of money (as I make more money and own a business, and don't want to have to worry) . But after believing I was pregnant last month and getting a bfn , we realized how disappointed we were and that we are both ready for this part of our lives... I am so so excited and so happy I found this board, can't wait to get to know everyone!

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Jul 15th, 2011, 09:17 AM	#32
CeeDee Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Maryland, USA Posts: 1,630	Welcome, Kaleido! Hopefully you'll have a short journey.

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Jul 15th, 2011, 11:08 AM	#33
Heidi Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: South-UK Posts: 7,625	No fair, i don't fit in to either the 30+ or the young 20's thread, i'm almost 27!

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Jul 15th, 2011, 14:16 PM	#34
joeybrooks Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Ireland Posts: 1,159	Kaleido, that's how I found myself here. When I wasn't pg I was disappointerld and at 30, in a brill relationship and v happy, I questioned why I wasn't FTC. Think the disappointment of bfn is an eye opener.

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Jul 16th, 2011, 07:02 AM	#35
Kaleido Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 194	Yes joeybrooks it really was! Of coarse I knew I wanted children, but until I got that bfn I didn't realize how much I had been trying to block out and distract myself from how badley I wanted them now! And we both realized we were only waiting bc we each thought that's what the other wanted! Now we are both just walking around with smiles, we know it may not happen right away, but just knowing we are on that path is so exciting it really is a great feeling to share

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Jul 17th, 2011, 15:21 PM	#36
CeeDee Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Maryland, USA Posts: 1,630	Heidi your close enough. Join us.

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Jul 20th, 2011, 01:52 AM	#38
mommy2lilmen Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Delta BC Canada Posts: 4,332	Hi there Im 34 this August..and we are deciding if we will just throw in the towel and leave it in and see what happens or wait till one of the 2 are out of diapers or wait till one of the 2 are out of diapers and my oldest is moved out or what. .. we're not using protection and were not trying..so im not sure if im in the 30+ NTNP or what. Hard to decide what to do ...as I want to TTC a GIRL baby, and am afraid of TTC that it iwll be a boy. I know my cycles, so right at the peak of eggwhite cm then we will babydance, ugh, idk lol anyawys Im 34 soon. and possibly belong to this forum

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Jul 20th, 2011, 10:35 AM	#39
CeeDee Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Maryland, USA Posts: 1,630	mommy2lilmen, Wow! 6 boys! Hopefully you'll get some pink soon.

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