i have been to a doctor and she told me to try a few more months and i talked to my OH and he was like well i dont want you on fertility medicine cuz i dont want multiples and things liek that so i have not been back to see her but im in the process of switching insurances and when i do i am going to have a nice chit chat with her..
awww...I know how you feel. I have a 2 year old daughter and have been trying for #2 for almost a year now. Well, I'm ttc - OH is NTNP, for the same reason as yours, which makes it so stressful as I don't have as much control over the process as I would like. I got pregnant last July but had a mc at 9 weeks. Got pg again in Dec but it was a chemical pregnancy. I worry about being able to only have one child too...especially at my age - almost 36. I know what you mean about feeling like your family isn't complete. I love my daughter but would love to have another too.
How irregular were your cycles before? I've read that Soy isoflavones is good for regulating cycles too. I think it helps you O earlier, if you are a late O'er.
my cycles ranged from 33-96days every month was different. and i am looking to take something to help boost fertility at least to give me a better chance of getting pregnant
wow, it must be frustrating to have your cycles be so different from month to month. It sounds like Clomid would be good for you, although I know you said your OH doesn't want you on fertility meds. I was prescribed it myself for mild pcos and irregular cycles, ranging from 35-40 something days. It helped stabilize my O date and I got pregnant quickly on it. They say soy is the natural Clomid, and I don't think their is the same risk for multiples with it.
hey! i feel your frustration and it is ok to vent and your not selfish. you want to add to your lovely family unit what could be selfish about that?
Ive enjoyed reading the replies you got and think i may look into a natural form of fertility aid. I like the idea of NTNP but ive very quickly learned i find it hard to ignore my body not to mention my emotions about the whole thing! my OH is similar to yours, he doesnt want to know the nitty gritty and i think if i mentioned i had O'd or was extra fertile he'd not enjoy it, so i have to keep it all to myself. Although when i got a BFN the other day he was very supportive ( i got brekky in bed and flowers) as my bottom lip was out and my fake smiles were not fooling him!!
im eating healthy too, trying to be positive & taking my conception vitamins but i like a good rant too.
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