Just Need to Vent

sg0720 · Apr 11th, 2012, 21:41 PM

Okay. Well I just want to vent a little bit because i can express all of this to my fiance so sorry you ladies get to deal with it

So today i am 3days late for AF and i gave in and tested and BFN. Even though we were NTNP this past month i wasnt expect a BFP until AF is now MIA....once i saw that BFN i got really sad for a couple reasons one being because i am scared that my cycles are going to be long and irregular again and i will have an even harder time getting pregnant. The main reason I got sad was because I want another child so bad. I feel like I was put on this earth to be a mom because i am not really good at anything else. I have a 2 year old son and i dont mean to sound selfish but to me my family isnt complete. When i think about this kind of thing i just feel like what if i am only able to have my one child. We have been ttc for 1.5 years after the depo and then i got on the BCP to regulate my cycles and even after stopping that mid way i still didnt end up pregnant. I said that this month i was going to change my diet and try new things and hope that i get a BFP...but its hard month after month and i just wonder how long will it take. I just wish it would happen already. I just complete school and have a great job and i was worried about daycare but now i am set and i know i will be able to afford 2 kids.

I love seeing everyone get there BFPs. i am truely happy for everyone even the people i see on tv but at the same time i wish so much that it would be me and i do get a bit jealous and feel selfish because i have a child and i know so many people who dont even have 1 and are having trouble getting pregnant...*sigh*

Thanks for listening if you got this far

Miaw · Apr 11th, 2012, 22:40 PM

Awww I'm sorry you're felling bad honey.

I'm not really good at finding words to make people feel better, but I really really hope it happens again for you and you get another little bean. Here have a bucket of baby dust, two just in case

And for the record I don't think you are selfish, you can love your kid more than anything and still want another one, I know what you mean when you say your family is not complete. I want at least 4 kids, I would be very sad with just one. (I'm only working on the first one, yes, but I still feel just one would never be enough) you are not the only one, there lots of girls like you

sg0720 · Apr 11th, 2012, 22:50 PM

thank you. i would like at least 3 children in total good luck to you also and i hope you get your BFP

Miaw · Apr 11th, 2012, 22:57 PM

Aww thanks. Good luck to you as well.

sg0720 · Apr 11th, 2012, 23:00 PM

are you trying or using anything to try and get pregnant

Miaw · Apr 11th, 2012, 23:03 PM

Well we have been NTNP since new years, but when we move in together in a few months we will be TTC, I just started prenatals and charting my temperature (it takes some getting used to lol) and I also have been feeling my cervix. And that's about it.

What about you?

sg0720 · Apr 11th, 2012, 23:13 PM

I am ttc and my oh is ntnp he sed if I got pregnant he'd be happy but doesn't actively wna try. I have used opks in the past but now I am taking prenatals and changed my diet and thinking about taking feterilaid instead of prenatals and using preseed..but with that idk when id be able to use it since we don't time sex and. Dnt wna do ne thing that will turn my oh off cuz my 2 year old does a pretty good job of that already

Miaw · Apr 11th, 2012, 23:18 PM

Awww it can't be easy TTC in these conditions. Maybe if you want to use preseed just use it, dress in something very sexy and go hit on him, he won't be able to resist!! :P
silly comment aside, I don't really know what you can do, my friend is a situation like you, her bf wants a baby but does not want to ''try'' he says it feels fake and not fun. :/

I don't know what feterilaid is, how does it work?

sg0720 · Apr 11th, 2012, 23:23 PM

Its a vitamin that helps the woman with getting her hormones balanced and mentioned even helps with ovulation and there are sooo many stories from women n men that said they used it n got pregnant they have a men n womans

Miaw · Apr 11th, 2012, 23:29 PM

wow I had no idea, it is a prescription only type of thing, or is available in pharmacies??

Apr 11th, 2012, 21:41 PM	#1
sg0720 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Milwaukee, WI Posts: 3,500	Just Need to Vent Okay. Well I just want to vent a little bit because i can express all of this to my fiance so sorry you ladies get to deal with it So today i am 3days late for AF and i gave in and tested and BFN. Even though we were NTNP this past month i wasnt expect a BFP until AF is now MIA....once i saw that BFN i got really sad for a couple reasons one being because i am scared that my cycles are going to be long and irregular again and i will have an even harder time getting pregnant. The main reason I got sad was because I want another child so bad. I feel like I was put on this earth to be a mom because i am not really good at anything else. I have a 2 year old son and i dont mean to sound selfish but to me my family isnt complete. When i think about this kind of thing i just feel like what if i am only able to have my one child. We have been ttc for 1.5 years after the depo and then i got on the BCP to regulate my cycles and even after stopping that mid way i still didnt end up pregnant. I said that this month i was going to change my diet and try new things and hope that i get a BFP...but its hard month after month and i just wonder how long will it take. I just wish it would happen already. I just complete school and have a great job and i was worried about daycare but now i am set and i know i will be able to afford 2 kids. I love seeing everyone get there BFPs. i am truely happy for everyone even the people i see on tv but at the same time i wish so much that it would be me and i do get a bit jealous and feel selfish because i have a child and i know so many people who dont even have 1 and are having trouble getting pregnant...sigh Thanks for listening if you got this far

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Apr 11th, 2012, 22:40 PM	#2
Miaw Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Silvermoon, Azeroth Posts: 340	Awww I'm sorry you're felling bad honey. I'm not really good at finding words to make people feel better, but I really really hope it happens again for you and you get another little bean. Here have a bucket of baby dust, two just in case And for the record I don't think you are selfish, you can love your kid more than anything and still want another one, I know what you mean when you say your family is not complete. I want at least 4 kids, I would be very sad with just one. (I'm only working on the first one, yes, but I still feel just one would never be enough) you are not the only one, there lots of girls like you

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Apr 11th, 2012, 22:50 PM	#3
sg0720 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Milwaukee, WI Posts: 3,500	thank you. i would like at least 3 children in total good luck to you also and i hope you get your BFP

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Apr 11th, 2012, 22:57 PM	#4
Miaw Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Silvermoon, Azeroth Posts: 340	Aww thanks. Good luck to you as well.

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Apr 11th, 2012, 23:00 PM	#5
sg0720 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Milwaukee, WI Posts: 3,500	are you trying or using anything to try and get pregnant

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Apr 11th, 2012, 23:03 PM	#6
Miaw Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Silvermoon, Azeroth Posts: 340	Well we have been NTNP since new years, but when we move in together in a few months we will be TTC, I just started prenatals and charting my temperature (it takes some getting used to lol) and I also have been feeling my cervix. And that's about it. What about you?

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Apr 11th, 2012, 23:13 PM	#7
sg0720 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Milwaukee, WI Posts: 3,500	I am ttc and my oh is ntnp he sed if I got pregnant he'd be happy but doesn't actively wna try. I have used opks in the past but now I am taking prenatals and changed my diet and thinking about taking feterilaid instead of prenatals and using preseed..but with that idk when id be able to use it since we don't time sex and. Dnt wna do ne thing that will turn my oh off cuz my 2 year old does a pretty good job of that already

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Apr 11th, 2012, 23:18 PM	#8
Miaw Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Silvermoon, Azeroth Posts: 340	Awww it can't be easy TTC in these conditions. Maybe if you want to use preseed just use it, dress in something very sexy and go hit on him, he won't be able to resist!! :P silly comment aside, I don't really know what you can do, my friend is a situation like you, her bf wants a baby but does not want to ''try'' he says it feels fake and not fun. :/ I don't know what feterilaid is, how does it work?

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Apr 11th, 2012, 23:23 PM	#9
sg0720 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Milwaukee, WI Posts: 3,500	Its a vitamin that helps the woman with getting her hormones balanced and mentioned even helps with ovulation and there are sooo many stories from women n men that said they used it n got pregnant they have a men n womans

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Apr 11th, 2012, 23:29 PM	#10
Miaw Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Silvermoon, Azeroth Posts: 340	wow I had no idea, it is a prescription only type of thing, or is available in pharmacies??

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