CIO Support Group

taperjeangirl · Jun 16th, 2009, 07:52 AM

Crying It Out Support Group

I noticed that we have alot of Mummies trying this at the moment and needing support.

I have tried it for 2 nights and not been too sucessful, but then realised that I really had no idea what I was doing and kept coming on here scrambling around looking for tips and advice!

I was left feeling so guilty and awful afterwards!

So if there's anyone who can help, or support us please leave some posts!

Or if you are going through it or planning to, come here and tell us how you go, and what works best for you xxx

AppleBlossom · Jun 16th, 2009, 08:59 AM

Well I went through it and thankfully, after a lot of hard work, it paid off

will post some advice and all that jazz later on as I am off now

but just so you all know it is bloody hard but it does pay off x

taperjeangirl · Jun 16th, 2009, 09:01 AM

Thanks Bex, look forward to your advice!

Always&4ever · Jun 16th, 2009, 09:34 AM

I can't do it

taperjeangirl · Jun 16th, 2009, 09:36 AM

Jazzy I am the same.... totally gave in last night after feeling guilty. Then I keep telling myself that I have to do it..... Dunno what to do

Always&4ever · Jun 16th, 2009, 09:37 AM

I do try, but she starts sobbing and shaking then I panic and pick her up

lorrilou · Jun 16th, 2009, 09:42 AM

dont give in girls, i did it with callum and it worked but then i did the stupid thing of letting him just sleep in our bed for ease, wish id never. anyhoo, this is my 2nd week of trying it again and so far so good, was really hard for the first few nights, he'd scream as soon as i put him in his own bed and then again when i left the room. he still screams if i leave the room now but i just let him get on with it, its heartbreaking and i feel awful but i know it'll all come good in the end. xx

Always&4ever · Jun 16th, 2009, 09:46 AM

I keep trying, but I panic so much

taperjeangirl · Jun 16th, 2009, 09:49 AM

I panic too, and then worry that she will remember in the morning and hate me!

ryder · Jun 16th, 2009, 09:51 AM

Yes i've had to resort to CIO/CC a couple times... once a long time ago... and once a couple weeks ago, jasmine decided she was going to be staying up all hours of the night, clearly very tired and grouchy and needed to be asleep... It took one night and about an hour of work to do it.

I cant listen to the crying either, I turn the baby monitor down so you cant hear it and I check on it, and I dont leave her for too long.

It worked and she is back on track with her sleeping.

Jun 16th, 2009, 07:52 AM	#1
taperjeangirl Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: Scotland Posts: 10,589	CIO Support Group Crying It Out Support Group I noticed that we have alot of Mummies trying this at the moment and needing support. I have tried it for 2 nights and not been too sucessful, but then realised that I really had no idea what I was doing and kept coming on here scrambling around looking for tips and advice! I was left feeling so guilty and awful afterwards! So if there's anyone who can help, or support us please leave some posts! Or if you are going through it or planning to, come here and tell us how you go, and what works best for you xxx

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Jun 16th, 2009, 08:59 AM	#2
AppleBlossom Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Liverpool, UK Posts: 25,860	Well I went through it and thankfully, after a lot of hard work, it paid off will post some advice and all that jazz later on as I am off now but just so you all know it is bloody hard but it does pay off x

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Jun 16th, 2009, 09:01 AM	#3
taperjeangirl Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: Scotland Posts: 10,589	Thanks Bex, look forward to your advice!

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Jun 16th, 2009, 09:34 AM	#4
Always&4ever Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,510	I can't do it

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Jun 16th, 2009, 09:36 AM	#5
taperjeangirl Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: Scotland Posts: 10,589	Jazzy I am the same.... totally gave in last night after feeling guilty. Then I keep telling myself that I have to do it..... Dunno what to do

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Jun 16th, 2009, 09:37 AM	#6
Always&4ever Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,510	I do try, but she starts sobbing and shaking then I panic and pick her up

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Jun 16th, 2009, 09:42 AM	#7
lorrilou Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: northumberland Posts: 5,565	dont give in girls, i did it with callum and it worked but then i did the stupid thing of letting him just sleep in our bed for ease, wish id never. anyhoo, this is my 2nd week of trying it again and so far so good, was really hard for the first few nights, he'd scream as soon as i put him in his own bed and then again when i left the room. he still screams if i leave the room now but i just let him get on with it, its heartbreaking and i feel awful but i know it'll all come good in the end. xx

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Jun 16th, 2009, 09:46 AM	#8
Always&4ever Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,510	I keep trying, but I panic so much

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Jun 16th, 2009, 09:49 AM	#9
taperjeangirl Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: Scotland Posts: 10,589	I panic too, and then worry that she will remember in the morning and hate me!

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Jun 16th, 2009, 09:51 AM	#10
ryder Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Belleville, Ontario Posts: 30,137	Yes i've had to resort to CIO/CC a couple times... once a long time ago... and once a couple weeks ago, jasmine decided she was going to be staying up all hours of the night, clearly very tired and grouchy and needed to be asleep... It took one night and about an hour of work to do it. I cant listen to the crying either, I turn the baby monitor down so you cant hear it and I check on it, and I dont leave her for too long. It worked and she is back on track with her sleeping.

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