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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 17:35 PM   1
Kat541
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The outside of my vagina looks destroyed


The outside entrance to my vagina looks destroyed. It looks like the stitching from my 1st degree tears never held. It doesn't even resemble a vagina anymore. I feel destroyed as well. I am incredibly disgusted how disfigured I look. I'm not even sure my husband could tell where the hole is. It looks like I have a sideways split off to the side of where the entrance should be. My son was born on the 5th of September, so I am what I would say healed now. It actually made me feel sick to see what it looked like. I feel nauseated while I type this. I had been considering trying to DTD today, but now I just want to cry and never be touched again! I know this can't be normal!



 
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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 17:40 PM   2
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Awww, you've only just had your baby so I'm not surprised that things still look weird down there, just give it some time I'm sure things will start to look normal
I didn't look at mine till 3 weeks pp I was too scared to look any sooner of course it doesn't look the same and I doubt it ever will but I just remind myself that it was my baby's entrance into the world and then get over it lol :]



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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 17:53 PM   3
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I STILL haven't looked.... The midwife said it looked great, like I never had a baby during my PP check up... But I still can't bring myself to peak..



 
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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 18:35 PM   4
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Mine looks horrendous as well. I wish I never looked!! I made myself forget about it though. My OH days it still feels fine. Sex is still fine, but I never ever look or touch down there coz it is so so different. Made me feel sick and ugly as well. Give it time. Xx



 
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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 18:40 PM   5
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Crumbs I had 3rd degree tears and I've never bothered looking at mine. Think I might now... except I'm now worried at what I may see down there. Maybe I'll just live in ignorance, it feels okay and healed really quick.

Go to Docs hun if it still doesn't look good in a while. Can't you get corrective surgery or something?



 
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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 19:09 PM   6
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My parts were black and blue for quite awhile, which made it hard for me to look down there. Add to it that I had a labial tear and I knew that my outsides would look different. Childbirth can be brutal down there.

I think I started looking a little better around 6 weeks. I had my OB check down there at my 6 week PP checkup, and it was looking a bit better as well. However, internally I was still broken and she mentioned that it'd take months to heal in there.

If you're still concerned, though, make an appointment to see your doctor and have him/her talk with you about your concerns.



 
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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 19:10 PM   7
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i look aweful too! totally different but DH still seems to enjoy it!



 
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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 19:58 PM   8
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Honestly, I never saw a vagina that looked like an artistic masterpiece in the first place! They come in all shapes and sizes and colours and levels of hairiness, and let's be real here, surely nobody really spends that much time staring at them? As long as they still work the same way, that's the main thing, in my opinion.



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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 20:27 PM   9
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ew mine looks gross too like all super flappy? maybe because i was so swollen down there



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Old Oct 2nd, 2012, 21:05 PM   10
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Honestly, I never saw a vagina that looked like an artistic masterpiece in the first place! They come in all shapes and sizes and colours and levels of hairiness, and let's be real here, surely nobody really spends that much time staring at them? As long as they still work the same way, that's the main thing, in my opinion.
yeah and tbh, I thought mine was really ugly BEFORE child birth ... I'd hate to see it now (so I don't look)



 
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