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Old Jul 22nd, 2009, 17:49 PM   501
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Fed up again tonight. How's everyone else?



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Old Jul 22nd, 2009, 18:09 PM   502
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Sorry for posting in here not been diagnosed and its prob more baby blues than anything else but feeling so down in the dumps today!First day on my own with LO and my daughter who is 5 as its hols and hubby at work.I just felt like could not cope!!Was getting mad at my daughter for no reason really and just wanted to cry all day.The relief when hubby came home and could get in a hot shower!!Just had a small go at OH for no reason and again sat here in tears trying to settle LO.Feel like such a failure that I am a tearful wreck after one day with both children.



 
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Old Jul 23rd, 2009, 02:59 AM   503
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Sorry for posting in here not been diagnosed and its prob more baby blues than anything else but feeling so down in the dumps today!First day on my own with LO and my daughter who is 5 as its hols and hubby at work.I just felt like could not cope!!Was getting mad at my daughter for no reason really and just wanted to cry all day.The relief when hubby came home and could get in a hot shower!!Just had a small go at OH for no reason and again sat here in tears trying to settle LO.Feel like such a failure that I am a tearful wreck after one day with both children.
dont feel like a failure having a baby is difficult enough nevermind having to cope with 2 children for the first time no wonder u felt awful.

its nice that ur oh took over and u got to have a shower, does he take the kids off u everynight for atleast an hour? if he doesnt then maybe ask him to so then u get u time and it will help alot.

a tip i got off my mum is if the kids are playing up or ur just feeling really shit stick them in a pram/buggy and go for a walk listening to ur ipod/mp3 and just keep walkin till u feel better or have a scream.

i no having a scream has helped me



 
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felt really down all week...today im feeling a bit better, anyone hate OH going to work in the morning? I feel awful cant drag myself out of bed and i try and get him to stay at home with me as i dread the day ahead but obviously he has to go i feel like such a nuisance to him



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Old Jul 23rd, 2009, 04:06 AM   505
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aww hugs danni

i had a horrible night. OH was being really nasty to me and kept winding me up watching me get more and more upset!! ended up crying myself to sleep.



 
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i dont like oh going to work either especialy when i had a bad night or the day before didnt go well but my oh cant even call in sick as hes in the army.

im not too bad today altho zanes started to moan cuz hes tired but wont sleep so hes in his cot now crying and i came on here.



 
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aww hugs danni

i had a horrible night. OH was being really nasty to me and kept winding me up watching me get more and more upset!! ended up crying myself to sleep.
what a dick. what the hell was his problem.

hope ur ok today x



 
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Hi ladies - i hope you dont mind me posting here - my son is 4 in setpember.

He wes born 6 spetember 2005, and it wasnt till the November that i "admitted" that i wasnt coping to well, it came to head when I called my neighbour and said "deal with him or he will be put in the garden and i am locking the door" (not to sure i meant this but she got the message) - within minues she was at mine and i was crying ! The health visitor arrived withing 20 mins and my hubby was home within the hour.

I had just watched ferm Brittain on this Morning tellin go her story abou PND and it helped me sooo much !

I was put on tablets and cried it out for 2 weeks .... but, by March ish i was 100% back to myslef and wow the difference was amazing

I just wanted to post this to say that you can get better and that you need to speak about it as soon you can - but it really does help.

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aww hugs danni

i had a horrible night. OH was being really nasty to me and kept winding me up watching me get more and more upset!! ended up crying myself to sleep.
what a dick. what the hell was his problem.

hope ur ok today x
i dont know what his problem was. just feel really shitty today now. hv isnt coming again until monday. kinda wish she would ring today just to see how i am



 
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aww hugs danni

i had a horrible night. OH was being really nasty to me and kept winding me up watching me get more and more upset!! ended up crying myself to sleep.
what a dick. what the hell was his problem.

hope ur ok today x
i dont know what his problem was. just feel really shitty today now. hv isnt coming again until monday. kinda wish she would ring today just to see how i am
call her up thats what shes there for u dont have to wait till ur appointment.

does ur oh understand how ur feeling and what pnd actualy is?

my oh wasnt supportive till i blew up in his face screaming at him how he was makin me feel n how i was already feeling n i said id leave with zane if he didnt pull his finger out of his fucking arse.

he still has times where he pisses me off but he knows not to push me cuz with muy depression i will blow n he wont like it



 
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