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Old Oct 7th, 2009, 12:31 PM   31
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hey huns any news? and my god can i ask why are u still with this man, i get feeling he blames u for it if u are preg, well he must remember without him its an impossible task and anyway it was accidental so know one is to blame its just a shame he making u feel like this.
huns i had my first baby at 16 yeah it was hard and all the rest of it but he never ruined my life, now to have a second so close is a great thing, my son is 8 and his lil sis is nearly 2 they have a 6 year gap which i also love but i do wish id done it sooner this is why we started trying for number 3 when our daughter was 10 months, huns it will be fine and u have so much support here, also huns family friends and people like that if there not happy for u then they dnt have to stay around do they.
did u test today huns, i really think u should make it a priority in the next few days as u sound very distraught at not knowing and i think if u get a clear answer yes or no then u can start to really think about what ur going to do, i hope u get what u want huns and do let us all know how the testing went were here for u huns xxx

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Old Oct 7th, 2009, 14:43 PM   32
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Thanks for the support guys! im planning to test tomorrow, going to buy a test in my lunch break at 6th form lol.
OH is supposed to be coming over tomorrow night, ill be having HUGE words with him! as last night he said he doesnt see why we need to talk because hes told me what he wants to do, its up to me now aprenently! he said "sarah you need to make a decision soon before its too late, you know what i think and you wont be able to cope if you keep it, and just think what people will say" .. he said this in a test must i add !!

i duno where i would be without the support from you ladies, i can wait to test and just get some answers.


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Old Oct 7th, 2009, 15:03 PM   33
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hi sarah, im in a simular situation to you, im nearly 28, im married and I have 3 children a 7, 5, and a 7month old. I think im pregnant again, I did a test this morning and got a very faint positive, I dont know if it was my eyes playin tricks but my sister could see the line too and she has really bad eyesight.So im now sittin opposite my husband typing this pretending everything is alright when inside I just want to scream that I think im pregnant and I dont know what to do because im scare of what his reaction is going to be. hes such an amazing dad to the 3 we have but hes only 27 and I feel this is going to put too much pressure on him. im going to test again in the next couple of days to double check but deep down I know I am, I can just feel it. so your not alone hun.

Old Oct 7th, 2009, 17:26 PM   34
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Sarah I don't have much/any advice but firstly :
From the posts I've seen you make, you're very mature, sensible and I know you'd cope if you were pregnant again. You must be so scared though

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Old Oct 7th, 2009, 17:55 PM   35
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Didn't wanna read and run - just wanted to say I agree with everyone else here, your OH needs to wake the hell up and take responsibility, and if he doesn't then big deal. You sound like you're doing a fabulous job with one, and you could do the same with two! Tell him where to shove it lol :P Best of luck with your test tomorrow xx

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Old Oct 7th, 2009, 18:29 PM   36
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good luck with testing hun. Hope you get the result you want xx

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Old Oct 7th, 2009, 19:40 PM   37
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omg im sorry but your oh sounds like an arse, he needs to be supporting u right now not worrying what other ppl will think of him! i really hope you get the result you want tomorrow when you test. will be thinking of you x

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Old Oct 7th, 2009, 22:12 PM   38
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Good luck. I hope everything works out and your OH pulls his head from his as (sorry, but how dare he speak to you like that?) Remember, no matter what happens, you will make it.

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Old Oct 8th, 2009, 04:13 AM   39
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good luck testing today, no matter the outcome x

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Old Oct 8th, 2009, 04:58 AM   40
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Good luck testing today hunny, hope you get the result you want xox

Your OH needs to start taking responsibility for his actions. x

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