Let's talk about SeX! - Page 3

jenniferttc1 · Mar 19th, 2012, 20:05 PM

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I'm so jealous of all ya'll having sex so soon! My husband is literally humping my leg everynight

Sounds like you could do with being checked out to make sure your tear isn't worse or is healing properly.

I'm not getting any either - healing from my tear.

I have my appointment for post partum checkup monday. Really nervous about it! I have no discharge or blood or anything and feel fine down there except when something so big is trying to get in haha!

Hope it goes well (the appointment, that is!!)

(I'm sure other threads on here suggests lots of wine, relaxation and a giant pot of lubricant to sort out sex!)

I think I might need a shot (or 5!

) of tequila. Doctors went good, hurt like hell though, I was hoping they wouldnt use the metal instrument during the pap :/ but she said everything healed up nicely and the stitches are all dissolved. Said it might take a few times to get use to sex. My husband is so excited, but im so nervous for tonight! :0

jenniferttc1 · Mar 19th, 2012, 23:09 PM

Update: We had sex tonight....and it was a sucess!!

Hurt like hell at first, kinda like something in the was blocking him but after going easy for a few minutes it went away

ttcnewbie123 · Mar 20th, 2012, 06:23 AM

We waited 2 weeks after a EMCS x

Biddylee · Mar 20th, 2012, 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by jenniferttc1

Update: We had sex tonight....and it was a sucess!!

Hurt like hell at first, kinda like something in the was blocking him but after going easy for a few minutes it went away

Excellent news!! Glad the doctor went well too!

jenniferttc1 · Mar 20th, 2012, 09:51 AM

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Update: We had sex tonight....and it was a sucess!!

Hurt like hell at first, kinda like something in the was blocking him but after going easy for a few minutes it went away

Excellent news!! Glad the doctor went well too!

Thank god my husband can now stop pestering me! was nice to have some "us" time again

bebedreamr · Mar 20th, 2012, 14:14 PM

Oh and I tried last night. We were unsuccessful! I have a Graze that is still healing, so that kinda inhibited us. We had other fun though, it was nice to be somewhat intimate again.

Is it just me or does sex kind of hurt as if you were a virgin again? Oh said he was barely in there... But that's what it felt like was that I had never had sex before! Surprising since weeks ago I just pushed out a 7 pound baby! Lol

jenniferttc1 · Mar 20th, 2012, 14:17 PM

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Oh and I tried last night. We were unsuccessful! I have a Graze that is still healing, so that kinda inhibited us. We had other fun though, it was nice to be somewhat intimate again.

Is it just me or does sex kind of hurt as if you were a virgin again? Oh said he was barely in there... But that's what it felt like was that I had never had sex before! Surprising since weeks ago I just pushed out a 7 pound baby! Lol

how long ago did you give birth? Felt alot like loosing virginity again and thats how my doctor described doing it again. We tried and failed a week ago cause it felt like he couldnt get in and it was painful. Tried again last night and same thing happen as last week but he very slowly went in a little more at a time and it actually got use to it and was enjoyable

bebedreamr · Mar 20th, 2012, 15:23 PM

I gave birth a little over a month ago! So I wanted to try before I was discharged from my midwife care in case we had problems. I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt that way! Once my graze heals fully we will try again. Thanks for the advice!

EarthBorn · Mar 24th, 2012, 08:56 AM

sex after delivery is safe and normal and yes sometimes uncomfortable or painful.
While you don't have to wait until the 6 week mark, there are general guidelines:
1. Wait until your bleeding has stopped. Sometimes sex can cause you to bleed more. Bleeding means the uterus/cervix are still healing.

2. If you have stitches, ideally you want them to be removed or completely dissolved. While you may feel up to it, what you don't want is the stitch to tear, restart the bleeding and create any unnecessary scar tissue for the future.

3. Go slow! Use lubrication! and Listen to your Body!

Hope this helps!

PinkGlitter87 · Mar 24th, 2012, 09:28 AM

LO is nearly 4 months and i can count the no of times we have dtd since he was born on one hand, dont think we first did it til about 3 months and im still not 100% comfortable now x x x

Mar 19th, 2012, 23:09 PM	#22
jenniferttc1 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: US Posts: 10,838	Update: We had sex tonight....and it was a sucess!! Hurt like hell at first, kinda like something in the was blocking him but after going easy for a few minutes it went away

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bebedreamr Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 610	Oh and I tried last night. We were unsuccessful! I have a Graze that is still healing, so that kinda inhibited us. We had other fun though, it was nice to be somewhat intimate again. Is it just me or does sex kind of hurt as if you were a virgin again? Oh said he was barely in there... But that's what it felt like was that I had never had sex before! Surprising since weeks ago I just pushed out a 7 pound baby! Lol

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bebedreamr Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 610	I gave birth a little over a month ago! So I wanted to try before I was discharged from my midwife care in case we had problems. I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt that way! Once my graze heals fully we will try again. Thanks for the advice!

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Mar 24th, 2012, 08:56 AM	#29
EarthBorn Mum (Mom) New BnB member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: USA Posts: 3	sex after delivery is safe and normal and yes sometimes uncomfortable or painful. While you don't have to wait until the 6 week mark, there are general guidelines: 1. Wait until your bleeding has stopped. Sometimes sex can cause you to bleed more. Bleeding means the uterus/cervix are still healing. 2. If you have stitches, ideally you want them to be removed or completely dissolved. While you may feel up to it, what you don't want is the stitch to tear, restart the bleeding and create any unnecessary scar tissue for the future. 3. Go slow! Use lubrication! and Listen to your Body! Hope this helps!

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Mar 24th, 2012, 09:28 AM	#30
PinkGlitter87 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: County Durham, UK Posts: 784	LO is nearly 4 months and i can count the no of times we have dtd since he was born on one hand, dont think we first did it til about 3 months and im still not 100% comfortable now x x x

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