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Old Mar 31st, 2012, 22:37 PM   #1
bebedreamr
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Sex... OMG OWWWW!


So I am 6 weeks postpartum, and just had sex for the first time (we tried at 4 weeks PP but it just wasn't getting in there). Soooo, I never knew it would hurt worse than losing my virginity! Anyone else?
Poor OH, I had to take it reeeeeeeaaaaaaaallllly slowly. I wouldnt have thought that it would be like that after having a baby, since it stretched so much. But seriously that was more pain than I felt pushing out my DD! What makes it hurt so much? Do the muscles lose their memory?


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Old Apr 2nd, 2012, 14:07 PM   #2
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It hurts doesn't it! We had to abandon the first time, but it got better and better every time and at 5 months now and haven't had pain for a while now so it does get better quickly xx


 
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Old Apr 2nd, 2012, 15:43 PM   #3
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I must be extremely lucky, had sex at 5 weeks pp and it felt fine, although I didn't have any tears or stitches . . .


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Old Apr 2nd, 2012, 22:30 PM   #4
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i was scared to dtd but tried it few nights ago n it actually wasnt too bad n i had 3rd degree episiotomy, jst went really slow with it!!!


 
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Old Apr 3rd, 2012, 07:58 AM   #5
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I wonder why it hurts more for some than others? It felt like I was being stretched out again, and I only had 3 internal stitches and a really small tear. I'm hoping its all stretched out now and I can enjoy it again on the rare occasions we actually get a few moments to ourselves to do it! Lol


 
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Old Apr 3rd, 2012, 10:08 AM   #6
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I didn't have any Tears or stitches n tried to have sex 3 times now it hurts so much! It's like I'm being ripped open again! It's sooo tight (tmi!) I thought it would be all open haha!

I think lubrication is a must next time!


 
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Old Apr 3rd, 2012, 15:24 PM   #7
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Originally Posted by Laurenmomma View Post
I didn't have any Tears or stitches n tried to have sex 3 times now it hurts so much! It's like I'm being ripped open again! It's sooo tight (tmi!) I thought it would be all open haha!

I think lubrication is a must next time!
lubrication is a must girls!!


 
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