Feel so bad for feeling like this :-((

princess2406 · Apr 10th, 2012, 15:40 PM

Is it normal that I miss my bump and miss being pregnant so much, yet I have the most gorgeous perfect baby boy in my life who I love so much? I feel like every single day I'm thinking about when I was pg and how much I loved being pg. I don't feel it's affecting my bond with lo, but I feel so bad for feeling like this

I am so broody at the moment aswell so this isn't helping. I'm hoping one day I will just snap out of it

Does anyone else feel this way or has experieneced this?

CatandKitten · Apr 10th, 2012, 16:54 PM

I really really miss being pregnant too. I felt special and felt like people treated me better. But now Im just a lady with a pudgy belly and a yelling baby.

It doesnt help that my pregnancy was SO smooth but now I have a very snuggly infant which is a lot of work. She is either on me or right up next to me about 20 hours a day.

I love her to pieces though. I know that eventually I will feel like me again instead of just mom.

Honeypot · Apr 10th, 2012, 16:57 PM

I feel the same sometimes. I was just telling my husband yesterday that I miss being pregnant.

Nrs2772 · Apr 11th, 2012, 01:32 AM

I was really missing being pregnant and I went back to work on Monday and had to fly out of town for a day for a regional meeting. I was gone for a little over a day from my LO and all I could think about was her. I constantly looked at her pictures on my phone (I have hundreds

) and I truly realized how much I loved her and I did not miss being pregnant anymore.

Babybear85 · Apr 11th, 2012, 05:57 AM

I miss being pregnant I loved it

babyjoy10 · Apr 13th, 2012, 12:28 PM

i really miss been pregnant, goin for my six week check up nexy week and im not lookin forward to it as that will be it the final part of been pregnant and it is really gettin me down even though i have a beautiful little girl i just find it hard that im not pregnant any more

Pixxie · Apr 14th, 2012, 16:07 PM

I still miss it! Some women just love being pregnant, your one of them!

SmartieMeUp · Apr 16th, 2012, 17:13 PM

I miss my bump - not so much the pregnancy as it was a rollercoaster. I'm teasing myself by looking at my progression pictures :'( OH finally admitted to the same thoughts as well. So we've decided to TTC next year

x

Betheney · Apr 22nd, 2012, 08:18 AM

I felt like this big time!!! I really greived the loss of my bump. I was so smitten and in love with my new baby bundle. She had nothing to do with how I was feeling I just really missed my bump and wanted it back asap. Haha.I even got really concerned I missed it so much I kept telling myself I cant be pregnant forever even if I love it. Because at the time all I wanted was to be pregnant again. Anything to fill the void that my bump had left.

But I will tell you now you do stop missing it so much. Sure I still look back on it with fond memories and sure I would still love a bump. But its not quite that sad "why cant my bump still be here" feeling. So chin up and don't panic time will help you forget :-) took me a few months tho!

sandilion · Apr 23rd, 2012, 07:58 AM

I am going through the same thing.. I hated being pregnant at the time because i worked full time and also dealt with a lot of shit from my mother etc - so the unnecessary stress made things hard.

But now i feel like i wanna be pregnant again .. LO might be getting a brother or sister a bit sooner than planned if i get my way

Apr 10th, 2012, 15:40 PM	#1
princess2406 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: South Yorkshire Posts: 2,031	Feel so bad for feeling like this :-(( Is it normal that I miss my bump and miss being pregnant so much, yet I have the most gorgeous perfect baby boy in my life who I love so much? I feel like every single day I'm thinking about when I was pg and how much I loved being pg. I don't feel it's affecting my bond with lo, but I feel so bad for feeling like this I am so broody at the moment aswell so this isn't helping. I'm hoping one day I will just snap out of it Does anyone else feel this way or has experieneced this?

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Apr 10th, 2012, 16:54 PM	#2
CatandKitten Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Oklahoma City, OK Posts: 674	I really really miss being pregnant too. I felt special and felt like people treated me better. But now Im just a lady with a pudgy belly and a yelling baby. It doesnt help that my pregnancy was SO smooth but now I have a very snuggly infant which is a lot of work. She is either on me or right up next to me about 20 hours a day. I love her to pieces though. I know that eventually I will feel like me again instead of just mom.

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Apr 10th, 2012, 16:57 PM	#3
Honeypot Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Madison, AL Posts: 346	I feel the same sometimes. I was just telling my husband yesterday that I miss being pregnant.

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Apr 11th, 2012, 01:32 AM	#4
Nrs2772 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Missouri Posts: 203	I was really missing being pregnant and I went back to work on Monday and had to fly out of town for a day for a regional meeting. I was gone for a little over a day from my LO and all I could think about was her. I constantly looked at her pictures on my phone (I have hundreds ) and I truly realized how much I loved her and I did not miss being pregnant anymore.

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Apr 11th, 2012, 05:57 AM	#5
Babybear85 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Down at the bottom of the garden beneeth the birds and the bees Posts: 589	I miss being pregnant I loved it

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Apr 13th, 2012, 12:28 PM	#6
babyjoy10 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: ireland Posts: 827	i really miss been pregnant, goin for my six week check up nexy week and im not lookin forward to it as that will be it the final part of been pregnant and it is really gettin me down even though i have a beautiful little girl i just find it hard that im not pregnant any more

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Apr 14th, 2012, 16:07 PM	#7
Pixxie Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Salford, UK Posts: 7,239	I still miss it! Some women just love being pregnant, your one of them!

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Apr 16th, 2012, 17:13 PM	#8
SmartieMeUp Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Lincoln, United Kingdom Posts: 888	I miss my bump - not so much the pregnancy as it was a rollercoaster. I'm teasing myself by looking at my progression pictures :'( OH finally admitted to the same thoughts as well. So we've decided to TTC next year x

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Apr 22nd, 2012, 08:18 AM	#9
Betheney Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 5,358	I felt like this big time!!! I really greived the loss of my bump. I was so smitten and in love with my new baby bundle. She had nothing to do with how I was feeling I just really missed my bump and wanted it back asap. Haha.I even got really concerned I missed it so much I kept telling myself I cant be pregnant forever even if I love it. Because at the time all I wanted was to be pregnant again. Anything to fill the void that my bump had left. But I will tell you now you do stop missing it so much. Sure I still look back on it with fond memories and sure I would still love a bump. But its not quite that sad "why cant my bump still be here" feeling. So chin up and don't panic time will help you forget :-) took me a few months tho!

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Apr 23rd, 2012, 07:58 AM	#10
sandilion Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 3,435	I am going through the same thing.. I hated being pregnant at the time because i worked full time and also dealt with a lot of shit from my mother etc - so the unnecessary stress made things hard. But now i feel like i wanna be pregnant again .. LO might be getting a brother or sister a bit sooner than planned if i get my way

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