Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old Sep 17th, 2013, 23:25 PM   1
Mouse2321
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: my location would put the boondocks to shame haha
Posts: 12

Nearing 3 Weeks Late and Still Negative Results???


My periods are like clockwork...I swear sometimes I can nearly predict the time of day they will arrive, and as of right now I am going towards being three weeks late. i have been pregnant several times before now, but had a miscarriage each time before ever reaching 12 weeks. I know that this is not simply stress or overworking or anything I know that I am pregnant..I can just feel it..I know that may sound odd, but I just know. I don't know how to explain that though. I took a pregnancy test at a little over two weeks late, expecting to see two pretty little pink lines starring back at me, and to my dismay one lonely little line glowered in my face... I know it is possible to get false negatives, but I am worried about the health of my baby. If there was something wrong with my baby would it make the pregnancy test negative, or is that even possible. I really don't know what else to do at this point. With my past experiences, I am just so worried that something is wrong. for now I am trying to stay positive about everything...I can't get a doctors appointment until after getting two positive results, so I simply don't know what to do....Any advice, help, answers, words of wisdom, or luck would be appreciated.



Status: Offline
 
Old Sep 18th, 2013, 06:58 AM   2
Topanga053
Mum (Mom)
Chat Happy BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Aug 2012
Posts: 1,249
Your doctor's office won't see you just based on your period being that late? I know a lot of doctors offices will see women for that. Also, have you tried a different brand more recently?



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Sep 18th, 2013, 12:52 PM   3
Mouse2321
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: my location would put the boondocks to shame haha
Posts: 12
I just don't have insurance at the moment and am currently working from home as a freelance writer, so there's no benefits with that...have to get positive results for insurance so that I can actually go to a good doctor....I plan on taking another test soon...possibly first thing in the morning...I am hoping for a positive result to tell me what I already know.



Status: Offline
 
Old Sep 18th, 2013, 13:33 PM   4
Drsamyjohn
Pregnant (Expecting)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: Idaho
Posts: 59
I usually don't advocate cheating, but do you have to actually PROVE you got a positive? Just say you did and get the insurance....



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Sep 18th, 2013, 15:40 PM   5
Mouse2321
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: my location would put the boondocks to shame haha
Posts: 12
haha I honestly thought about doing that as bad as that sounds, but they make you take the tests in a small clinic before doing any of the paperwork...haha so that won't work either...hopefully the results will start coming back positive before I lose my mind haha



Status: Offline
 
Old Sep 19th, 2013, 13:10 PM   6
Mouse2321
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: my location would put the boondocks to shame haha
Posts: 12
still negative...I'm so confused



Status: Offline
 
Old Sep 19th, 2013, 21:07 PM   7
dairymomma
Other
BnB Addict
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 2,615
Can you go to a health department or one of those pregnancy clinics for a blood test? We have one in a nearby town that advertises free, confidential pregnancy tests and pregnancy services. I think it's run by a church or some religious organization but it's something to look into. Or could you simply call your doctor and say you want to confirm a pregnancy but will pay for the blood test yourself? I don't think it's all that expensive. And have your other miscarriages been medically confirmed? If they have, then maybe you can tell your doctor of your history of miscarriage and get the test done that way?
My dr sees me extra early and orders up a blood test for me even if I haven't had a positive hpt but feel pregnant because of my history of recurrent miscarriage and my need to take medication as early as possible. Hope you get an answer soon and good luck!



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Sep 22nd, 2013, 12:33 PM   8
Mouse2321
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: my location would put the boondocks to shame haha
Posts: 12
i started bleeding yesterday...at this point there was nothing that doctors could do..i lost my precious little one...I don't understand how so many people that dont even want kids end up with them and then dont even take care of them, but I would die for my kids any day of the week and yet still cannot have them...Sometimes I wonder what the point of even trying anymore is...



Status: Offline
 
Old Sep 23rd, 2013, 12:25 PM   9
GI_Jane
Pregnant (Expecting)
Active BnB Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2011
Location: UK
Posts: 969
I've had my fair share of pregnancy loss so I don't want to come accross as unsympathetic but is it possible that you were not pregnant and your period was late? There is always a first time that your period can be late and not run to clockwork.

MC or not, I know the heartbreak of not getting a BFP month after month, especially after being convinced this is the month. I hope it comes your way soon.



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Sep 23rd, 2013, 16:57 PM   10
Mouse2321
Trying to conceive (TTC)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: my location would put the boondocks to shame haha
Posts: 12
you don't come across like that at all, but I thought about that, but I just know that i was pregnant...all the signs were there except the positive result...i was even beginning to despise foods that i normally could eat everyday and never grow tired of it...It isn't the first time that this has happened, but i hope it's the last...there is nothing quite as heartbreaking as losing a child or wanting so badly to become pregnant and not being able to.. I am so tired of trying...i am about ready to just get on BC and give this up for a while...I can't take losing another one, and being shut down from month to month when we are trying is just a slap in the face..can't take that anymore.



Status: Offline
 
Reply



Bookmarks

Tags
late , miscarriage , multiple , negative , pregnancy , results , test , weeks

featured articles


Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search






SEO by vBSEO