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Old Dec 31st, 2016, 12:21 PM   11
Laurenmomma
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Well I'm still here, had scan at 8,10 and 12 weeks and everything was fine but I can't shake the feeling that something is going to happen!

Iv had norovirus twice this month and hardly ate for 2 weeks yet today Iv had pains in my belly, it honestly feels like muscle or wind kind of pains but it's making me feel sick so I can't eat again ��

I'm ordering a Doppler now, I know it's not the best to go by but hopefully il get another scan in 2 weeks otherwise il book a private one. Iv hardy slept being so anxious about everything, im back In work on Tuesday and want to tell them straight away.

I honestly felt so much more positive this time but i can't help looking at my belly thinking has it grown, I'm sure I can feel movements but then the pains too ��



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2017, 06:03 AM   12
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Im going to buy a doppler too. The hospital said after 12 weeks if i want to go there every day to listen to the heartbeat then i can but its at least 40mins there and i work so couldn't do that realistically. I hope it doesn't make me worry more!
Im 9 weeks now and got another scan tomorrow but i was saying yesterday that my boobs aren't sore anymore and it makes me worried as that was the only symptom i had.
I've got a cold too but nothing compared to what you've had so I'm not surprised it's making you even more worried. Fingers crossed things are fine.
My loss was at 14 weeks but i didn't know until 16 weeks when i wiped a bit of pink. I had no pains or bleeding. I know the closer i get to 14 weeks and then to 16 i will be super anxious and even until 20 week scan.
Its a coincidence actually that around my due date i will be 14 weeks again.. How wierd is that?

Like i said, i had no signs of miscarriage at all however, i did feel from the start that something wasn't right and i was worried the whole way through. It was like an instinct. I was worried but i didn't know why or what i was worried about then i had my 12 week scan and everything showed fine but i was still worried.

This time i haven't had that feeling but i don't know if it's because I'm accepting now that if something is going to happen then it's going to happen. I don't know but i am worried about lack of symptoms but i know people who've had loads of symptoms and its still happened so they aren't a sure sign really. It's just, its nice to focus on something seen as a positive sign!

Lets hope the pains are wind or muscle pain. If that's what they feel like then they probably are. Are they at the sides of your tummy?



 
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Old Jan 3rd, 2017, 06:47 AM   13
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Im going to buy a doppler too. The hospital said after 12 weeks if i want to go there every day to listen to the heartbeat then i can but its at least 40mins there and i work so couldn't do that realistically. I hope it doesn't make me worry more!
Im 9 weeks now and got another scan tomorrow but i was saying yesterday that my boobs aren't sore anymore and it makes me worried as that was the only symptom i had.
I've got a cold too but nothing compared to what you've had so I'm not surprised it's making you even more worried. Fingers crossed things are fine.
My loss was at 14 weeks but i didn't know until 16 weeks when i wiped a bit of pink. I had no pains or bleeding. I know the closer i get to 14 weeks and then to 16 i will be super anxious and even until 20 week scan.
Its a coincidence actually that around my due date i will be 14 weeks again.. How wierd is that?

Like i said, i had no signs of miscarriage at all however, i did feel from the start that something wasn't right and i was worried the whole way through. It was like an instinct. I was worried but i didn't know why or what i was worried about then i had my 12 week scan and everything showed fine but i was still worried.

This time i haven't had that feeling but i don't know if it's because I'm accepting now that if something is going to happen then it's going to happen. I don't know but i am worried about lack of symptoms but i know people who've had loads of symptoms and its still happened so they aren't a sure sign really. It's just, its nice to focus on something seen as a positive sign!

Lets hope the pains are wind or muscle pain. If that's what they feel like then they probably are. Are they at the sides of your tummy?

I have been the same, last time I had a feeling, I had no pain no blood nothing but went to the 20 week scan on my own for the first time ever! I just wanted to be alone!

I'm actually due the same day as I delivered my little boy! 4th July a year apart!

He had died at 16 weeks so as I'm approaching that I am so nervous!



 
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Old Jan 3rd, 2017, 17:44 PM   14
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Oh my god its like a sign i was talking to the midwife today and told her about it and i said, im not religious in any way but its like shes sending me a sign saying "here mummy... here is another baby since i wasn't able to make it"
:')

My appointment went absolutely fine by the way, i had another scan and saw a proper little baby instead of just a bean. It was amazing, I've never had any early scans before. The baby was so active too, wriggling around lots.
I've just got to wait until my 12 week now which should be within the next 2 weeks. Eek!



 
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Ahh lovely! I found the 10 week internalscan really good it was so clear and considering I'd only been 2 weeks before I couldn't believe the difference!



 
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Old Jan 5th, 2017, 16:51 PM   16
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Amazing isn't it. I actually had an external one instead this time.
Has your doppler arrived yet? I haven't even ordered one but im so nervous about it.



 
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