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Smudgelicious · Feb 16th, 2012, 19:06 PM

Oh poo, Smiler. I was hoping for a bfp for you ! I like your devious plan though- fx

How's Beans bean ? Roughly 8 weeks already ?! So exciting, pls keep us updated ! Fx for some more cautious bfps and then we can all join in.

Nothing much happening here. P is STILL not walking. He just crawls and climbs at top speed. We went to playgroup today and he played with the toys properly for the first time ever ! (properly as in picked them up and stuff, not totally disinterested like last year )

Beanbabe · Feb 17th, 2012, 09:59 AM

smiler but 26 days is a short cycle - still time to have a 2012 baba.

well beans little bean aka bubble is just over 8 weeks now. Just back from scan and saw a lovely little blob with a good heartbeat

Got an edd of 26 Sept - one week and two days before my brother in laws wedding - hope i make their big day

Smudgelicious · Feb 25th, 2012, 05:40 AM

Do you know ive never had a pregnancy that didn't span Xmas ? Every time, it's been bfp one year, due the next. I'd love to do it all in one year ! September going to come so quickly Bean, I'm getting jealous all over again ! I don't have much chance of a 2012 baby, DH has been home for 12 hours, leaving again 36 hours, gone for a month and AF is all over the place

Hows everyone else doing ?

Smiler79 · Feb 25th, 2012, 16:11 PM

Hi girls I am still broodier than ever and everyone I know seems to be pregnant!!!!!

But according to ovulation calculators I am in my optimum conceiving window over the next couple of days so guess I should be going to bed and seducing hubby rather than being on here!!!!!!!

Will keep you all posted!!!!!!!!

Smiler79 · Feb 26th, 2012, 15:00 PM

Hi ladies could really do with your advice.

Hubby and I did dtd last night without being careful!!!! I was secretly over the moon as according to ovulation calculators it was a perfect time! However despite all the conversations hubby and I have had about contraception and how I don't like the idea of the morning after pill, he has asked me to go and get it tomorrow.

I don't know what to do to be honest. They say it is most effective taken within 12 hrs and it will be at leastv36hrs by the time I get to a pharmacy. I really really don't like the idea of the morning after pill, especially after the devastation we all understand from miscarriage. I am tempted to tell hubby I have taken it but not and see what happens as there is always the chance that the pill won't work but then I would feel so guilty!!!!

What do you girls think I should do?

VGibs · Feb 27th, 2012, 18:47 PM

Ugh....way to pass the buck hubby! Tell him that the birth control was up to him and if he didn't go through with it then it is his problem and you don't feel comfortable taking that pill. He dropped the ball...it isnt your job to pick it up again.

Smiler79 · Feb 28th, 2012, 02:04 AM

Thanks V. hubby hasnt mentioned it since si i am keeping quiet but will say exactly what you said if he says anything. it is too late now anyway as over 48hr so pill wouldnt be reliablr now anyway.

i know i am probably getting my hopes up for nothing but there is a little bit of me that thinks we might have actually done the job!! it was one of my fertile days according to conception calculator and i have been feeling really crampy over lst 24hrs so wondering if something is happening?!?!

just got to wait til 11th march as 26 day cycle it seems so that is when i am due on again xx

how is everyone else? V i see your wedding is getting closer!! how are preparations going?

Bean - how is bubble doing?

Smudgelicious · Mar 5th, 2012, 16:58 PM

Im sorry I've not been in here for a week, having a busy stressful year so far.

OMG Smiler ! I totay agree with V, his problem not yours. So, testing in a few days ??!!

I wish I had something exciting to say but I just don't. Going to hospital tomorrow for an MRI and a lumbar puncture because my headaches are back ;( Dh still away for another 2.5 weeks. Patrick is still not walking ! Seriously, he's almost 14 months ! He can crawl and climb like a pro, empty a cupboard in a blink but just hasn't taken a step yet.

Smiler79 · Mar 7th, 2012, 01:23 AM

Oh smudge sorry to hear your headaches are bac. I suffer from tension headaches and the occasional migraine and they are bad enough so cannot imagine how muh pain you must be in

I am due on on sunday if i go by my 26 day cycle but as i can have a 32 day cycle i am going to try and hold off testing til the wed if i dont com on on sunday. Some days i feel like i have loads of symptoms but then other days i dont notice any so who knows

Beanbabe · Mar 8th, 2012, 16:54 PM

Hi everyone

Smudge I hope your tests went well.

Eoin still not walking yet either and expects me to spend my days holding his two hands so he can practice. Very time consuming but hopefully he will take off soon...... please please lol.

Smiler massive fxd for you and a bfp. IMO your oh was well outta line asking you to do that. I dont think anyone who has suffered a loss could take that pill and not feel forever bad. I really really hope you get a positive result.

My little bubble is 11weeks now and I think things are starting to show. This being preg no 6 I knew I would stretch easily but noone knows yet except me oh and my sister so I was hoping to keep it under wraps for another while. Still its not a major complaint and i hope its a sign things are going good. Have another scan on Monday (my third). Will keep yous posted on how it goes

Feb 16th, 2012, 19:06 PM	#1031
Smudgelicious Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 924	Oh poo, Smiler. I was hoping for a bfp for you ! I like your devious plan though- fx How's Beans bean ? Roughly 8 weeks already ?! So exciting, pls keep us updated ! Fx for some more cautious bfps and then we can all join in. Nothing much happening here. P is STILL not walking. He just crawls and climbs at top speed. We went to playgroup today and he played with the toys properly for the first time ever ! (properly as in picked them up and stuff, not totally disinterested like last year )

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Feb 17th, 2012, 09:59 AM	#1032
Beanbabe Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 657	smiler but 26 days is a short cycle - still time to have a 2012 baba. well beans little bean aka bubble is just over 8 weeks now. Just back from scan and saw a lovely little blob with a good heartbeat Got an edd of 26 Sept - one week and two days before my brother in laws wedding - hope i make their big day

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Feb 25th, 2012, 05:40 AM	#1033
Smudgelicious Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 924	Do you know ive never had a pregnancy that didn't span Xmas ? Every time, it's been bfp one year, due the next. I'd love to do it all in one year ! September going to come so quickly Bean, I'm getting jealous all over again ! I don't have much chance of a 2012 baby, DH has been home for 12 hours, leaving again 36 hours, gone for a month and AF is all over the place Hows everyone else doing ?

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Feb 25th, 2012, 16:11 PM	#1034
Smiler79 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Kent, England Posts: 335	Hi girls I am still broodier than ever and everyone I know seems to be pregnant!!!!! But according to ovulation calculators I am in my optimum conceiving window over the next couple of days so guess I should be going to bed and seducing hubby rather than being on here!!!!!!! Will keep you all posted!!!!!!!!

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Feb 26th, 2012, 15:00 PM	#1035
Smiler79 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Kent, England Posts: 335	Hi ladies could really do with your advice. Hubby and I did dtd last night without being careful!!!! I was secretly over the moon as according to ovulation calculators it was a perfect time! However despite all the conversations hubby and I have had about contraception and how I don't like the idea of the morning after pill, he has asked me to go and get it tomorrow. I don't know what to do to be honest. They say it is most effective taken within 12 hrs and it will be at leastv36hrs by the time I get to a pharmacy. I really really don't like the idea of the morning after pill, especially after the devastation we all understand from miscarriage. I am tempted to tell hubby I have taken it but not and see what happens as there is always the chance that the pill won't work but then I would feel so guilty!!!! What do you girls think I should do?

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Feb 27th, 2012, 18:47 PM	#1036
VGibs Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 1,750	Ugh....way to pass the buck hubby! Tell him that the birth control was up to him and if he didn't go through with it then it is his problem and you don't feel comfortable taking that pill. He dropped the ball...it isnt your job to pick it up again.

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Feb 28th, 2012, 02:04 AM	#1037
Smiler79 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Kent, England Posts: 335	Thanks V. hubby hasnt mentioned it since si i am keeping quiet but will say exactly what you said if he says anything. it is too late now anyway as over 48hr so pill wouldnt be reliablr now anyway. i know i am probably getting my hopes up for nothing but there is a little bit of me that thinks we might have actually done the job!! it was one of my fertile days according to conception calculator and i have been feeling really crampy over lst 24hrs so wondering if something is happening?!?! just got to wait til 11th march as 26 day cycle it seems so that is when i am due on again xx how is everyone else? V i see your wedding is getting closer!! how are preparations going? Bean - how is bubble doing?

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Mar 5th, 2012, 16:58 PM	#1038
Smudgelicious Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 924	Im sorry I've not been in here for a week, having a busy stressful year so far. OMG Smiler ! I totay agree with V, his problem not yours. So, testing in a few days ??!! I wish I had something exciting to say but I just don't. Going to hospital tomorrow for an MRI and a lumbar puncture because my headaches are back ;( Dh still away for another 2.5 weeks. Patrick is still not walking ! Seriously, he's almost 14 months ! He can crawl and climb like a pro, empty a cupboard in a blink but just hasn't taken a step yet.

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Mar 7th, 2012, 01:23 AM	#1039
Smiler79 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Kent, England Posts: 335	Oh smudge sorry to hear your headaches are bac. I suffer from tension headaches and the occasional migraine and they are bad enough so cannot imagine how muh pain you must be in I am due on on sunday if i go by my 26 day cycle but as i can have a 32 day cycle i am going to try and hold off testing til the wed if i dont com on on sunday. Some days i feel like i have loads of symptoms but then other days i dont notice any so who knows

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Mar 8th, 2012, 16:54 PM	#1040
Beanbabe Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 657	Hi everyone Smudge I hope your tests went well. Eoin still not walking yet either and expects me to spend my days holding his two hands so he can practice. Very time consuming but hopefully he will take off soon...... please please lol. Smiler massive fxd for you and a bfp. IMO your oh was well outta line asking you to do that. I dont think anyone who has suffered a loss could take that pill and not feel forever bad. I really really hope you get a positive result. My little bubble is 11weeks now and I think things are starting to show. This being preg no 6 I knew I would stretch easily but noone knows yet except me oh and my sister so I was hoping to keep it under wraps for another while. Still its not a major complaint and i hope its a sign things are going good. Have another scan on Monday (my third). Will keep yous posted on how it goes

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