Hiya girls, just wanted to let you all know what great support you have been, but I am finding it very hard to think positive right now as you may have all guessed. I am stressing myself out immensely which can't be good for me at all.

So, I'm going to have a break from b&b, as I am constantly reading sad threads and worrying ect ect. I just think its best I have a bit of a break, I will check in soon, and Im definately not leaving for good! I hope everyone with up coming scans gets good results and I hope you are all still here when I come back! xxx

Hi Shar, would love to be bump buddies with you seeing as we are in similar situation??

Hope you are feeling more positive soon BabyDust and that we'll see you back here soon feeling better about your rainbow

babydust -i do hope you'll come back as soon as you get good news on your next scan. Let me tell you though, that I don't feel pregnant either! Sore boobs, and that's it! I feel great, and have energy. I don't get those pains anymore, but I am starting to just trust that this pregnancy is different that the last.

Ladies, how are your OHs doing throughout all of this? Being that it's still early, and I don't look or feel pregnant yet, we don't talk about it all too much. We do a little bit but we have to be careful around DD. I can't wait til he can put his hand on my belly and feel baby. DH was quite touched during the ultrasound since we saw that it was moving.

babyjo- I feel bad you're so sick : ( I hope is passes soon so you can get on with feeling good!

My OH is very quiet about what he is feeling, but he tells me that just like last time, once I fall asleep he puts his hand on my belly and talks to baby g it makes me feel happy that even with what happened last time he still wants to bond with baby this early.

Aww thank you so much! I've been through so much in my life that it takes a bit more to get me really really down, my mom passed away almost 4 years ago and I'm still alive so you know, some liar is not gonna bring me down

Thank you again! that's the nicest thing anyone ever said to me since I got pregnant

It is sometimes better hun, I had to do the same at around 7 weeks. Hope your worries disappear quickly so we can have you back soon, hugs

Hey all,

Im not sure if im too late but was wondering if i could join in and hopefully find a bump buddy.

My Story:

I found out i was pregnant with my first on new years day and me and the OH were over the moon, everything was going smoothly until i had some spotting in January. The midwife told me it wasnt much to worry about as it was common, however i went for an early scan to find that the baby had no heart beat and i had had a MMC. I had a D&C on the 25th Jan and found it very hard to deal with.
Now the good bit, i found out in March, after 8 weeks from my op and no AF that i was pregnant again. I started spotted again and automatically thought the worst. I went for another early scan to find that i was 9+2 weeks pregnant and had a healthy baby with a strong heart beat My due date is 12th November. Even though everything is going fairly smoothly this time around im still nervous that i will have bad news at my 12 week scan, only a few weeks away.

Sorry for the long post, but just looking for support from others who have been in a similar situation.

Hope you are all well.

Lucy xx

Congrats and welcome Lucy! So happy to see you hear with your rainbow!

Hi Lucyjo81. How great that you were already 9 weeks when you found out! Welcome and this place will be great for supportive friends : )

Haven't heard from Klein in a while....

Hi Lucy and welcome! Sorry for your loss, but congrats on your rainbow baby I agree that you are so lucky to have already been 9 weeks when you found out you were pg. That's a number of weeks of worry and anxiety that you skipped out on and now you're almost in the 2nd tri!!