BFP today after MC 4 weeks ago

toothfairy29 · Mar 28th, 2012, 05:55 AM

Hi Ladies
I got a BFP today at 10dpo on FRER and a pregnant 1-2 weeks on a digi also. I MC at 7 weeks on 28th Feb. Doc said we didn't need to wait to try again as no medical intervention. So I haven't had AF since MC.

I don't know how I feel? I was so desperate to get pregnant again but now that I have seen the lines I have mixed feelings. I haven't even told my hubby yet even though I got v faint line yesterday.

I had a 5 wk MC in november last year also so this is the 3rd pregnancy in 6 months. The other 2 times I was really excited by the BFP but this time I just don't know?? It's almost like it doesn't really mean anything?? Does that make sense? I know I'm in for a worrying time. I don't even feel like going to the doctors for a few weeks either.

Did anyone else feel the same??

toothfairy29 · Mar 28th, 2012, 07:00 AM

anyone??

ChiGirl18 · Mar 30th, 2012, 21:14 PM

Hey!

I had a mc on Feb. 29 and today got a bfp... 9 dpo. I feel the same way. Very scared. My doctor told me to wait a full cycle and, obviously, we didnt listen. i am comforted to hear that your doctor said it was okay to try right away. Are you ttc #1? Keep me posted on your progress... sounds like we are days apart on things!

Kita · Mar 30th, 2012, 22:02 PM

I felt the same way for a long time. Even after things were confirmed with this pregnancy and I saw him wiggling on the screen. My first BFP I was completely in love with and after the MC everything seemed to fall apart. Don't get me wrong, I am very much in love with my little one on board now but it took a WHILE before I REALLY felt that way, I was too scared to get attached and then lose him too you know?

Good luck ladies!

tuckie27 · Mar 30th, 2012, 23:25 PM

Yep, totally felt weird about this bfp too. Didn't want to get excited just to be let down if something goes wrong. My hubby didn't even acknowledge for a few days after I told him. Miscarriages tend to take out a lot of the joy and excitement that we felt the first time :/ Gotta have hope though! Always be optimistic, even if you don't want to get too excited because you're scared...I can never lose hope

beth30 · Mar 30th, 2012, 23:37 PM

I got pregnant with my son just after my first m/c... no period between. I was scared, but I was at ease with his pregnancy.... then I had trouble after him, a couple more m/c-I always felt that something was wrong, and I was right, and now here I am, almost 11 weeks, and although I feel more at ease with this one, and have since the beginning, I still am nervous, and afraid to get invested emotionally. But, I am hopeful that things will be okay.

toothfairy29 · Mar 31st, 2012, 03:47 AM

Oh Ladies you are all AWESOME!!!!!!

KITA you have an inspirational bump!!

Chigirl lets try keep in touch as seems like we're only days apart.

Tuckie and Beth..... is anything different with this pregnancy?

I am 13dpo and feeling very sick already. I have a 13 and a 15 year old and was sick badly with them both. With my 2 recent MCs I hardly felt sick at all and midwife said probably as I am older and with a different partner. I am hoping this is a good sign although hard to see feeling so sick in a positive way :-)

Thanks for the replies! Love to you all x x x x

ChiGirl18 · Mar 31st, 2012, 07:01 AM

when are you planning on scheduling your first appointment with your doctor? i have not called mine yet... i think i am going to wait it out another week. just wondering if she'll want to see me earlier bc this is straight after mc?

toothfairy29 · Mar 31st, 2012, 07:11 AM

I was at doc couple days ago with a cough/virus I can't shake off. Wasn't gonna see him about preg for few wks but ended up mentioning it. I asked not to have in acknowledged or see midwife or anything yet. Said I'd go back in few wks. He wasn't interested to be honest. When I mc at 7 wks they couldn't even get me in for scan for 5 days even though I was bleeding, by time scan day came they wouldn't do it as my preg tests were almost negative. Said thy didn't need to check I'd lost it all even. They were so matter of fact and unhelpful that I can't face them again. I ended up paying for a private scan when started bleeding. I will pay again at 7 wks if I get there and then go see doc I think?
How about you?

ChiGirl18 · Mar 31st, 2012, 07:40 AM

wow... it seems like they are to busy to care! can you find another doctor?? Normally my doctor likes to see me at 8 wks to check everything--blood test, baby's heart beat, ultrasound. but she told me to wait a full cycle before getting pregnant again. i did not do that and never got af. i am wondering if shell need to see me sooner bc of the mc? I am actually kind of scared to call her. i feel bad about not listening to her advise and now im really worried about the baby.

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ChiGirl18 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Tennessee Posts: 133	Hey! I had a mc on Feb. 29 and today got a bfp... 9 dpo. I feel the same way. Very scared. My doctor told me to wait a full cycle and, obviously, we didnt listen. i am comforted to hear that your doctor said it was okay to try right away. Are you ttc #1? Keep me posted on your progress... sounds like we are days apart on things!

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Kita Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Central Florida Posts: 7,589	I felt the same way for a long time. Even after things were confirmed with this pregnancy and I saw him wiggling on the screen. My first BFP I was completely in love with and after the MC everything seemed to fall apart. Don't get me wrong, I am very much in love with my little one on board now but it took a WHILE before I REALLY felt that way, I was too scared to get attached and then lose him too you know? Good luck ladies!

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Mar 30th, 2012, 23:25 PM	#5
tuckie27 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Northern California Posts: 960	Yep, totally felt weird about this bfp too. Didn't want to get excited just to be let down if something goes wrong. My hubby didn't even acknowledge for a few days after I told him. Miscarriages tend to take out a lot of the joy and excitement that we felt the first time :/ Gotta have hope though! Always be optimistic, even if you don't want to get too excited because you're scared...I can never lose hope

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Mar 30th, 2012, 23:37 PM	#6
beth30 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: West Virginia, USA Posts: 2,658	I got pregnant with my son just after my first m/c... no period between. I was scared, but I was at ease with his pregnancy.... then I had trouble after him, a couple more m/c-I always felt that something was wrong, and I was right, and now here I am, almost 11 weeks, and although I feel more at ease with this one, and have since the beginning, I still am nervous, and afraid to get invested emotionally. But, I am hopeful that things will be okay.

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Mar 31st, 2012, 03:47 AM	#7
toothfairy29 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1,817	Oh Ladies you are all AWESOME!!!!!! KITA you have an inspirational bump!! Chigirl lets try keep in touch as seems like we're only days apart. Tuckie and Beth..... is anything different with this pregnancy? I am 13dpo and feeling very sick already. I have a 13 and a 15 year old and was sick badly with them both. With my 2 recent MCs I hardly felt sick at all and midwife said probably as I am older and with a different partner. I am hoping this is a good sign although hard to see feeling so sick in a positive way :-) Thanks for the replies! Love to you all x x x x

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Mar 31st, 2012, 07:01 AM	#8
ChiGirl18 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Tennessee Posts: 133	when are you planning on scheduling your first appointment with your doctor? i have not called mine yet... i think i am going to wait it out another week. just wondering if she'll want to see me earlier bc this is straight after mc?

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Mar 31st, 2012, 07:11 AM	#9
toothfairy29 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1,817	I was at doc couple days ago with a cough/virus I can't shake off. Wasn't gonna see him about preg for few wks but ended up mentioning it. I asked not to have in acknowledged or see midwife or anything yet. Said I'd go back in few wks. He wasn't interested to be honest. When I mc at 7 wks they couldn't even get me in for scan for 5 days even though I was bleeding, by time scan day came they wouldn't do it as my preg tests were almost negative. Said thy didn't need to check I'd lost it all even. They were so matter of fact and unhelpful that I can't face them again. I ended up paying for a private scan when started bleeding. I will pay again at 7 wks if I get there and then go see doc I think? How about you?

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Mar 31st, 2012, 07:40 AM	#10
ChiGirl18 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Tennessee Posts: 133	wow... it seems like they are to busy to care! can you find another doctor?? Normally my doctor likes to see me at 8 wks to check everything--blood test, baby's heart beat, ultrasound. but she told me to wait a full cycle before getting pregnant again. i did not do that and never got af. i am wondering if shell need to see me sooner bc of the mc? I am actually kind of scared to call her. i feel bad about not listening to her advise and now im really worried about the baby.

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