Oh I have just been through exactly the same fear...it's only natural to be terrified after such a horrid experience But try to stay positive and take each day at a time, I kept busy at work which helped keep my mind off things a bit. And stay away from google!
I'm now 13 weeks and things are looking hopeful, if that makes you feel more positive I think after a MMC we will always have a fear that others can't understand, don't beat yourself up about it. Even my ob said it was completely normal to be terrified and I shouldn't feel silly about it. And when you finaly do see a heartbeat on a scan its just incredible. My ob (who is very wise) also told me that for those of us who have been on rock bottom the happiness when it does work out is ten times greater Good luck and try to stay calm xxx
I had a mc at 11 weeks but they think the baby died really early on too as I had a scan and there was a tiny bean. This time has been completely different and despite having very few symptoms, I'm having a healthy baby. Don't stress yourself too much and rest. EVERY PREGNANCY IS DIFFERENT.
I can relate to your fears. I think it is only natural. I have even said (1/2 kidding) to a friend of mine that I wish I could be given a pill that would fast forward time until week 13. It's so nerve wracking!
I know the feeling this is my first pregnancy since I had I MC in 2010. I have 2 healthy children which I had before. I'm so scared that it will happen again I just wake up thanking God that he has got me through another day and night.
Keep positive x it is the hardest thing to do and people don't understand why you are so worried x when I saw my baby at 8 weeks and it waved and it's heartbeat was flashing I just broke down with relief! Now I have just hit 22 weeks and have been woken up by my little one kicking me :-) back on the summer when I lost my twins I never thought I would be happy ever again but it is possible just keep positive xxx
We had a MC in Jan. I was almost 5 weeks. We are now currently pregnant again. and i'm a nervous wreck!!! This will be my 3rd pregnancy and hopefully 2 child. I've been having some stomach craps and lower back pain. With everything pain i start worrying. My MD already saw me for my 1st appointment and we are doing HCG test and progestrone test. I have to go again today to have more blood drawn, and will get my results on Thursday. (Friday I will be 5 weeks and i'm freaking out)
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