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Old Nov 15th, 2016, 08:26 AM   21
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Welcomr Stacip



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Old Nov 15th, 2016, 19:03 PM   22
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Welcome. This thread has been so quiet



 
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Old Nov 15th, 2016, 21:48 PM   23
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Welcome stacip!

Agreed on the quietness. I am sure I will get more talkative in the next month or so haha. I am just finishing up my college degree so I am in an internship right now, trying to work when I'm not there since it is unpaid, keeping up with household and parenting, finishing up final reports, and my licensing exam is in 2 days....I love my b&b time but I haven't been able to squeeze it in haha



 
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Old Nov 17th, 2016, 12:47 PM   24
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So, I was supposed to have my first midwife appointment today; I've been looking forward to it for weeks. I've been having severe (debilitating) anxiety throughout this pregnancy; I basically keep telling myself there's no baby in there/no heartbeat. I was just really looking forward to talking to someone about it.

I got to the appointment 20 minutes early (like they tell you too) to fill out paper work. After that, I waited for the appointment. I waited. And waited. And waited. An HOUR later, no one had given me any update or explanation. So I left. I was too sick, tired, and hormonal to put up with that sort of treatment.

Suffice to say, I will not be having a midwife.

I'm just so upset and frustrated. All I truly wanted was for someone to talk to about my anxieties, and I couldn't even get that.

I'm just feeling very defeated and needed to vent haha.

Hopefully you're all having better experiences.



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Old Nov 17th, 2016, 16:57 PM   25
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I'm sorry your appointment went that way Have you called to reschedule elsewhere? I think the anxieties are normal...I have symptoms and my husband seems to think I am showing already (I didn't ask for his thoughts on this ) but I am still preparing myself for the worst and have those same fears. I hope you are able to get in to someone else quickly!



 
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Old Nov 17th, 2016, 21:15 PM   26
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I'm sorry your appointment went that way Have you called to reschedule elsewhere? I think the anxieties are normal...I have symptoms and my husband seems to think I am showing already (I didn't ask for his thoughts on this ) but I am still preparing myself for the worst and have those same fears. I hope you are able to get in to someone else quickly!
Thanks for the support! I haven't scheduled anything else, however, my first ultrasound is already scheduled for the end of November when I'm (supposed to be) 12 weeks. I'm just gonna continue to go to my family doctor every few months and hope that's enough.

I'm also preparing myself for the worst; I told DH today that we're just gonna pretend I'm not pregnant anymore haha.



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Old Nov 19th, 2016, 18:54 PM   27
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Hey yall


I'm due June 3rd anyone else??



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Old Nov 19th, 2016, 19:00 PM   28
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June 3rd here



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Old Nov 20th, 2016, 12:03 PM   29
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I have been feeling axiety too. Like raining in the excitement with "you dont know what will happen. It is still early you might still have mc even if you saw heartbeat. There might just be one in next scan" and so on.. not fun..



 
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Old Nov 20th, 2016, 22:15 PM   30
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I have been feeling axiety too. Like raining in the excitement with "you dont know what will happen. It is still early you might still have mc even if you saw heartbeat. There might just be one in next scan" and so on.. not fun..
Definitely feeling the whole "reigning in excitement" thing. It's like, you just wanna be happy cause you're pregnant and that's awesome. But, you can't be.

Oh the first trimester blues.

I'm glad other people are feeling similarily anxious. I keep thinking, "because I'm so worried, things must not be going well". So it's reassuring knowing I'm not alone.



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