Hey Bellas

I dont really come on here much anymore, to be honest I haven't really let myself get too excited or attached so far to this little bean it's just a constant fear of the worst thing happening again, so I've been just going with the flow and not thinking too much about it.

How are you? Not long now are you nervous, excited??

xxx

hi impatient, good to hear from you. i completly understand you. i was like that after my mc. when we got pregnant with this baby i just wanted to get over the 12 week mark so i could relax a bit. eventually you will relax and start enjoying. it took us sometime to do that since we went through me having sever ms then risk of downs, amnio test the wait but since around week 24 we have enjoyed and relaxed. i am sure you will feel that way after some time.
how are you feeling in general are you having symptoms, ms etc? try to relax and stay of your feet as much as possible. i will pray for you to have this baby be your forever baby.

yes things are good here, just counting down the days just a little over 1month left. i can't wait to see her little face.

how is everyone else doing? i can't belive that you all dissapeared after having your little ones. i thought we would all be around until eachone of us got our little ones. well i hope you are all doing fine as well as your babies and that you do come around from time to time and check in with the rest of us.

Im coming in once in a while to check bellas dont worry, wouldnt miss your little one for the world! Do you have facebook? x

er, tiggerz, newfie - how are you and your newborns doing? geez you are all scaring me by completly dissapearing. it feels like i will not have a life after baby. or do you all just feel that your don't need this forum any longer? is that the case? please let me know.

belle - how are you doing, how are you moving along? have you been buying baby stuff yet?

impatient - how are you doing? i see you are already past 8 weeks, things move on so fast. you are just about to complete 1/4 of your pregnancy, congrats!!! have you booked a scan yet?

Hi Bellas - things arent so good actually at the moment, I am going in for an emergency scan tomorrow as I have been getting some sharp cramping, heavy feeling in my abdomen and lower back ache. Also alongside all these my sypmtons are starting to disappear. I called my midwife last night as I think the same thing as last time is happening all over again.
Obviously I wont know for sure until the scan tomorrow but I would give anything to see a healthy dancing baby on the screeen, we know our bodies best and I just cant see this happening unfortunately!

I'll keep you updated xxxxx

hi hun, i am so sorry, i will say a prayer for you and your bean that all is ok. i hope you won't have to go through the same thing again. all i can say is that my symptoms were on and off in the begining so it is hard to tell if it really means one thing or another. but you are right we all know our bodies best. i know i bleed twice before the 12 week mark the first time i went to see my doc the second time it was not during office hrs so i went straight to the er. all turned out ok. i hope that is the case for you as well. have you bleed or anything like that? are you still temping? because i know that helped me know if there was anything wrong as when i got pregnant and had the mc even though i didn't start bleeding right away i knew that i would mc as my temp droped. but this time around i temped until week 12 and it stayed up.


please keep us updated i am here if you need to talk. i will think of you and that you get good news. biggest hug to you my dear.

impatient - how did it go? is everything ok with you and bean?

oh my god impatient, i couldn't wait to hear how your appointment went looked up if you had posted else where and i am so glad to hear that all is well with your bean. big hug to you and try to stay relaxed and enjoy the next couple of weeks until your next scan.

oh thank you hun - I did mean to come on this thread and let you know. Very pleased little bean measured a couple of days behind but the midwife says this is nothing to worry about as af is only a guide to dates.
Really looking forward to the next scan a week on Monday and then we can hopefully see our healthy bean again and truly start to relax.
I was so overwhelmed yesterday, I was positive it was bad news again so very excited to see healthy happy bean

xxxx

i am so glad for you impatient please keep us updated. try to have faith that this will be your forever baby.

how are the rest of you ladies doing?

er - how is max? he must be 2 months by now right?

newfie - is everything ok? i have not seen you here since you had danni...i am hoping it is because you are super busy not because something is wrong. please update us on here even if it is with a line or two.

tiggerz - sorry that i have not replayed on fb, i am a horrible fb member. how is jacob and you doing? is he growing fast?

belle - how are you? how are things moving forward for you?

well i just want to say that i think of you all and i hope you are all doing great! big hug b.