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Old Jun 8th, 2016, 22:21 PM   21
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hugs! this is a tough situation as the only assurance is dna.



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Old Jun 9th, 2016, 10:13 AM   22
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Hello Love21 how are you getting on with your pregnancy? I hope all is well and both guys are being supportive



 
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Old Jun 9th, 2016, 14:58 PM   23
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dna is the only sure way xx



 
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Old Jun 27th, 2016, 11:20 AM   24
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HI

It is not going well. Both really do not want anything to do with my pregnancy. So I just don't know. Kind of going through some depression now but the good thing is that I have my family. I just need a new job that I can be able to move back home. Thank you for asking. I hope all is well with you.



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Old Jun 27th, 2016, 11:37 AM   25
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HI

It is not going well. Both really do not want anything to do with my pregnancy. So I just don't know. Kind of going through some depression now but the good thing is that I have my family. I just need a new job that I can be able to move back home. Thank you for asking. I hope all is well with you.
Oh love21,

I am sorry you are not being supported. I know it's difficult right now but try your best not to hold it against them after you find out who the dad actually is... They are acting very immature because the have no control over what is going on, try to stay strong you sound like heading home would be good for you, are you far away from your family xxx



 
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Old Jul 18th, 2016, 07:36 AM   26
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Just sending my thoughts and best wishes- shit happens, we're human!
You'll be surprised just how many women go through this!



 
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Old Jul 28th, 2016, 12:57 PM   27
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Hope all is going well for you, and that the men come round to doing the right thing and being part of the baby's life if they turn out to be the father. I also agree that number 1 is the most likely option, especially as early scans more often measure behind as opposed to in front, plus your ovulation and conception dates point to number 1 also. Big hugs and lots of love to you and baby xxxxxx



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2016, 08:27 AM   28
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Your story and replies really helped me to answer my own questions..!



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Old Apr 10th, 2017, 09:06 AM   29
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With DS, his dad could have been 1 of 3 guys. I KNEW it was his dad but i still got all 3 DNA tested. I was right it was his dad.

Our DNA test was done for free through child support. I had to come in with DS and we each got a mouth swab. Then they called in each of the guys and they got a mouth swab. In about 6wks, they had the results. Then child support was handled from there. ( this was in '05 so maybe things are different now?)

My advice is: i wish i had NOT dna tested his dad. I know thats selfish but it led to a lot of issues that could have been avoided. He wanted nothing to do with us until i got him DNA tested and it didnt end well. If i was you, i wouldnt do it. Tell the baby it could be either one but you will help them find out when they are ready. Protect yourself and the baby.



 
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