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Old May 27th, 2016, 13:46 PM   1
love21
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Sex with two guys and now pregnant.


Hi everyone,

I am currently 7 weeks pregnant and confused
I am not sure but was wondering if maybe someone can give me advice because I am scared! Maybe help me understand who the father can be.
I know many won't like what I am about to say so please don't be negative and judge. :/

I had my period on April 4th and I am always regular on my periods.
I had sex with guy #1 on April 7, 14, and 15.
I had sex with guy #2 on April 23rd.

According to my doctor's appointment I was 6 weeks and 6 days on May 23rd.

Is there any way of knowing by all this who the father is?
I don't know who I should tell and I am scared about this.
I hope this makes sense and hope no one puts mean comments

An early thank you for whoever took the time to read this and help.



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Old May 27th, 2016, 13:59 PM   2
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Do you know when you usually ovulate dear or how long your cycles normally are? That might help you pin point which time you conceived.



 
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Old May 27th, 2016, 14:00 PM   3
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How long are your cycles?



 
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Old May 27th, 2016, 14:42 PM   4
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Did you end your period on the 4th or just start it? I know tmi question but did both men finish inside you or was a condom worn with one and not the other?



 
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Old May 27th, 2016, 16:05 PM   5
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No, I am not sure when I ovulate. I always have my periods normal every 28 days. I don't know how to calculate that.
I can try to find out though.

Thank you so much for your reply!



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Old May 27th, 2016, 16:07 PM   6
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I have them like 7 days or less.
Like on April I had it from the 4th-9th

Thanks for the reply!



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Old May 27th, 2016, 16:08 PM   7
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I started on the 4th.
And I didn't use protection at all. They both did finish inside me. :/

Thank you for your reply!



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Old May 27th, 2016, 16:38 PM   8
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The average woman ovulates about 2 weeks into her cycle, but there can be a lot of variation among women. If you follow this average pattern, then if your period was on April 4 you would ovulate on April 18. Your fertile window is from about 5 days before ovulation until 2 days after ovulation so for you that would be from April 13-20. So based on this it would be more likely that guy #1 is the father. However, a lot of women ovulate later than what the 'average' is, so if you ovulated just 3 days later than what is average, then guy #2 could be the father. The only way to know for sure is to do a paternity test once the baby is born.



 
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Old May 27th, 2016, 17:43 PM   9
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If you measured 6 weeks 6 days on 23rd May, that would put your conception date as April 19th, which would make guy #1 the father. However, there are always variations and babies can measure a little ahead or behind, I think the dates are just too close between the two guys and potential ovulation dates to be certain. Sorry, like pp said I think the only way to know now is to test baby when it's born ��



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Old May 28th, 2016, 04:48 AM   10
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Hey, no judging from me whatsoever. If I was a betting woman I would say guy number one but obv there is no way to know 100% until baby is here.
Big hugs though, it's a tough situation to be in x



 
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