Just a random thought....

ericacaca · Apr 3rd, 2012, 09:25 AM

Haha, ok ladies... own up - do you think you're going to end up yourself saying the cliche one liners to first time pregnant ladies that do your head in when people tell them to you at the moment once babies are here?

I know I really don't want to but I'm pretty sure I'm going to fall into the trap without realising it! I'm sure my Mummy friends say the one liners without wanting to annoy either! haha!

jenfirstbaby · Apr 3rd, 2012, 10:39 AM

haha defo! People are always moaning about that on here, . bet we all do it though

x

ericacaca · Apr 3rd, 2012, 10:45 AM

Sooooo glad I'm not the only one! lol xxx

honeybee2 · Apr 3rd, 2012, 11:14 AM

can you give me an example ?

jenfirstbaby · Apr 4th, 2012, 03:00 AM

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Originally Posted by honeybee2

can you give me an example ?

like when people say to you 'oh you're not sleeping now? just wait until the baby is here' lol

cbhattarai · Apr 4th, 2012, 04:53 AM

It is an normal issue, because at the time of Pregnancy women get their mind distracted, so that the reason why you are behaving like this...

susan_1981 · Apr 6th, 2012, 16:00 PM

I really hope not. I am really hating the fact that I can't say "I'm tired" without the predictable response of "if you think you're tired now, wait until baby is here". It seems that anything you say, the response is "wait until baby is here". Drives me crazy so I'm going to make a conscious effort NOT to do this!

My sister is the worst for this. When we were TTC (she has a daughter), whenever her daughter would play up, she'd says (her husband is just as bad) "and you want kids?". But once I have more than 1 child (which is my plan), I can't wait to say to her "oh you think that's bad, trying having 2 kids". I can drive her nuts then like she does me!

But I'm sure I'll fall into the trap of patronising first time mums myself. I think it's just natural x

MeAndMyShadow · Apr 7th, 2012, 08:50 AM

haha...I'm guilty of this now, soooo annoying! Just you girls wait, I bet some of you do it too! x

JadeaSN95 · Apr 7th, 2012, 09:31 AM

I hope not but I should imagine I will!

ericacaca · Apr 7th, 2012, 13:24 PM

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Originally Posted by MeAndMyShadow

haha...I'm guilty of this now, soooo annoying! Just you girls wait, I bet some of you do it too! x

Haha! You're at it already!

Apr 3rd, 2012, 09:25 AM	#1
ericacaca Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Milton Keynes Posts: 1,329	Just a random thought.... Haha, ok ladies... own up - do you think you're going to end up yourself saying the cliche one liners to first time pregnant ladies that do your head in when people tell them to you at the moment once babies are here? I know I really don't want to but I'm pretty sure I'm going to fall into the trap without realising it! I'm sure my Mummy friends say the one liners without wanting to annoy either! haha!

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jenfirstbaby Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 2,650	haha defo! People are always moaning about that on here, . bet we all do it though x

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ericacaca Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Milton Keynes Posts: 1,329	Sooooo glad I'm not the only one! lol xxx

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honeybee2 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: UK Posts: 12,090	can you give me an example ?

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cbhattarai Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 16	It is an normal issue, because at the time of Pregnancy women get their mind distracted, so that the reason why you are behaving like this...

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susan_1981 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: UK Posts: 4,738	I really hope not. I am really hating the fact that I can't say "I'm tired" without the predictable response of "if you think you're tired now, wait until baby is here". It seems that anything you say, the response is "wait until baby is here". Drives me crazy so I'm going to make a conscious effort NOT to do this! My sister is the worst for this. When we were TTC (she has a daughter), whenever her daughter would play up, she'd says (her husband is just as bad) "and you want kids?". But once I have more than 1 child (which is my plan), I can't wait to say to her "oh you think that's bad, trying having 2 kids". I can drive her nuts then like she does me! But I'm sure I'll fall into the trap of patronising first time mums myself. I think it's just natural x

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MeAndMyShadow Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Ohio Posts: 2,002	haha...I'm guilty of this now, soooo annoying! Just you girls wait, I bet some of you do it too! x

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JadeaSN95 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 172	I hope not but I should imagine I will!

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