Am I unreasonable to be upset? - Page 2

daisy_ · Apr 12th, 2012, 10:43 AM

I get where your coming, I hate being alone. BUT I wouldn't mind if mu husband went. Simply because he will get to feel a bit normal I guess and seeing friends etc. When he goes why dont you plan a shopping trip or see if there are any baby events going on around your area.

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lisasmile · Apr 12th, 2012, 14:29 PM

thanks all, and thanks for your honest opinions!

I discussed with OH last night and we've agreed that if before 32 weeks he can go to the original venue, if it was after that he will try and make the weekend away at a closer city so would only be 4 hours away (rather than 8).

he's trying to make it for a weekend I have friends visiting anyway and earlier if possible so before 32 weeks-as less likely anything would happen the earlier he goes.

I normally don't mind being alone and enjoy a night to myself but it's the thought of having no-one close by at all bec we moved far away from our families/friends! one of his colleaugues wives suddenly had first baby at 32 weeks with no warning so think it's made me a little bit more nervy! But only one I really want there when baby arrives is OH so wouldn't make much of a difference if anyone else came to stay i don;t think!

lisasmile · Apr 12th, 2012, 14:31 PM

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Originally Posted by jenfirstbaby

i think as long as he doesn't go away too late it should be ok... Im 34 weeks now and would quite glady get rid of OH for a few days

Nothing is likely to happen around 30 weeks so you should be ok! you might even be quite happy to get some time to yourself then

I think my OH thought he could go to T in the Park in july.... our baby is due end of May... Don't think so somehow!

LOL! quite right no T in the park this yr!

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lisasmile Inactive Join Date: Apr 2012 Country: Posts: 88 Thanked others: 48 Thanked 21 times in 21 posts	thanks all, and thanks for your honest opinions! I discussed with OH last night and we've agreed that if before 32 weeks he can go to the original venue, if it was after that he will try and make the weekend away at a closer city so would only be 4 hours away (rather than 8). he's trying to make it for a weekend I have friends visiting anyway and earlier if possible so before 32 weeks-as less likely anything would happen the earlier he goes. I normally don't mind being alone and enjoy a night to myself but it's the thought of having no-one close by at all bec we moved far away from our families/friends! one of his colleaugues wives suddenly had first baby at 32 weeks with no warning so think it's made me a little bit more nervy! But only one I really want there when baby arrives is OH so wouldn't make much of a difference if anyone else came to stay i don;t think!
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