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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 20:53 PM   1
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rly need some support right now


I am so angry and upset snd stressed. Ive been vomiting all day stuck in bed and somr of yesterday too. I am miserablr and have so much work due for school that i haven't even been able to start. The df just seems like he could care less he is like im sry ur sick what do u want me to do about it nothing i can do i shouldnt be expected to wait on u hand anf foot....all ive asked him all day long is to make me a bagel bc i hadnt eaten all day. I said i dont expect you to wsit on me but a little sensitivity would be nice and hr just keeps repeating himself like a broken record well what do u wsnt me to do i was likr just be s little nicer bloody hell what r u not understanding. I am just so angry and upst and feel like i have no one. He is never the lovey dovey type but youd think hed care a little more than the woman who is carrying his child is sick and miserable snd he just doesn't i have to like beg for him to even check on me. I am just miserable and feel likr im about to have a breakdown or really lose it on him.



 
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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 20:58 PM   2
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Maybe that is what you need to do, to let him know how insensitive he is being. I am sorry he is acting like this.



 
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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 21:01 PM   3
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Maybe that is what you need to do, to let him know how insensitive he is being. I am sorry he is acting like this.
I did and all he said was what do u want me to do nothing i can do. Hes just being a jerk to the extreme he wont apologize he just wont bc he is stubborn as hell ..but hes acting like it would kill him to even pretend to have s little sympathy or act a little nicer.



 
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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 22:17 PM   4
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I am going through the same thing - well, we broke up and it is a long dramatic story...but he was acting the same way....I couldn't sleep and was sick when I was with him last week, and he got up for a minute so I was like "I can't sleeeep " He was all "What do you want me to do??" ALL shitty, and then went back to bed....and now we haven't talked in a week, he didn't answer my text when I asked for help with $ for vitamins this month - and yeah, I am basically on my own for this now. But I hear you, it is INFURIATING - they really should be SO much more sensitive. I hope he starts being nicer to you and I hope your MS gets better!



 
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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 23:14 PM   5
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I am going through the same thing - well, we broke up and it is a long dramatic story...but he was acting the same way....I couldn't sleep and was sick when I was with him last week, and he got up for a minute so I was like "I can't sleeeep " He was all "What do you want me to do??" ALL shitty, and then went back to bed....and now we haven't talked in a week, he didn't answer my text when I asked for help with $ for vitamins this month - and yeah, I am basically on my own for this now. But I hear you, it is INFURIATING - they really should be SO much more sensitive. I hope he starts being nicer to you and I hope your MS gets better!
Hes not being like outwordly shitty...hes pretty much being himself just s little more grumpy. Which usually im used to im usually the same way wrre not very lovey dovey. But im so blah and sick i just wish he could be sensitive for once in his life and he just cant or doesn't want to. He does get me everything i ask for he made me a bagel when i asked and brought me water and now going to get me a drink from the store but sometimes i just want the sensitivity instead. Its hard to try and control my emotions lately which doesn't make it better. Sorry you broke up. how long were u guys together? He planning on seeing the baby n stuff?



 
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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 23:26 PM   6
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Oh girls, I'm so sorry you are having such a tough time. They just need to imagine if it was them having the worst hangover that lasted for days at a time.... Maybe then they would show some compassion. You both deserve to be treated so much better. Here's hoping they come to their senses. Xx



 
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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 23:48 PM   7
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Thank you Well that is nice he is getting you what you need! I definitely hear ya... I am really lovey and he never was...so I don't know why I am surprised he wasn't even when I am pregnant. We were only together for 6 months, and he apparently was lying to me the whole time and is married...yeah...effing unreal. At first he was threatening to take the baby away from me once it was born (he is a little bit unstable) and then he said he would help raise it...but since we aren't talking, I'm not expecting anything, and honestly don't want the baby to have ANYTHING to do with him at this point. :/



 
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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 23:58 PM   8
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Thank you Well that is nice he is getting you what you need! I definitely hear ya... I am really lovey and he never was...so I don't know why I am surprised he wasn't even when I am pregnant. We were only together for 6 months, and he apparently was lying to me the whole time and is married...yeah...effing unreal. At first he was threatening to take the baby away from me once it was born (he is a little bit unstable) and then he said he would help raise it...but since we aren't talking, I'm not expecting anything, and honestly don't want the baby to have ANYTHING to do with him at this point. :/
Wait what hes married?! Yeaahhh he would get the baby ovrr my dead body lol. Does his wife know he is the father?
Also random question i hsve s friend in colorsdo what city r u in?



 
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Old Oct 14th, 2012, 00:03 AM   9
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Lol right!!! Ahhhhh. He said that he told her, but he has lied about so much, I have no idea if she really does. I feel really bad for her, she could have been just as blindsided as I was.

I'm in Centennial/Littleton area (South Denver) Where do your friends live?



 
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Old Oct 14th, 2012, 00:16 AM   10
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I doubt he did she probably wouldvr tried to contact you if she knew..
And they live in colorado springs.
Lol random also but my dog has his giant snout on my chest while im typing lol



 
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