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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 05:12 AM   1
MrsBroodyPant
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dont believe im pregnant....going crazy


Hi ladies.

This has been driving me crazy for weeks now but finally posting about it.
My husband and i were ltttc. I had HSG & clomid and after 22 months finally got my bfp on 1st feb. I believed it at first as i did lots of hpts. Went to docs & seen midwife but none would confirm my pregnancy as they say hpts are so reliable! I just need soneone other than myself to tell me im pregnant!

Ive got no symptoms what so ever and im 10 weeks now. I read about symptoms coming & going but mine never came. I feel totally myself, normal & not pregnant.

I have my 12 week scan on 26th march and so scared that there will be nothing in my tummy. I want a baby do badly & this seems to good to be true.

Ive done 6 hpts - all positive, including one yesterday as i just can not believe im pregnant.

Anyone else feel the same? Should i stop worrying? Do u think i actually am pregnant?

Im going crazy here xxx



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 05:47 AM   2
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I totally understand, I went through this with my first pregnancy and its not nice so I totally feel for you. This time I'm paying for a private scan at 8w 3 days.mi didn't know you could get early private scans when pregnant with my 1st? Could you get one? If not, I we t to my 12 week scan shaking and crying to find out that I had a perfectly health baby. Hope you're ok Hun xx



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 05:52 AM   3
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Thanks for replying.
We had thought about getting an early scan but never booked one. Wish i had now but my nhs scan is in 1week & 5days so i might as well wait.

I feel i will be the same as u at the scan and be crying before i even go in.

Just feel i have been left for weeks not knowing if this is actually true. My mum & husband know im pregnant & they believe it! Its such a crazy situation xxx



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 05:58 AM   4
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I think it's stupid that doctors and midwives won't do a test to see if you're actually pregnant. It annoyed me so much the first time. It would give some people just a little bit of peace of mind. Yeah probably no point in getting a scan now if you've got your 12 week scan in less than 2 weeks, you'll feel wonderful when you see your little baby on screen



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 06:06 AM   5
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I felt like that too as I haven't had hardly any symptoms at all. I kept testing too. My sister & I had a good laugh at my expense because after doing 5 tests, I bought another 10 for 'non-believing days'.
If you ask a midwife/doc to test you they just say that the home tests are as good as anything they can offer you. So we need to believe that 6 out of 6 tests can't be wrong!
Anyway despites my lack of pregnancy symptoms, I have now had a scan and seen our LO with my own eyes - so try and relax because I guess we are the lucky ones that are having a sickness-free 1st tri.



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 06:15 AM   6
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Totally agree....if a doc or midwife confirmed it i would prob feel better but after ttc for so long i feel like i might be making this up or just seeing what i want to see when i look at a positive hpt lol. Sounds crazy i know.
Im hoping to god that i do see a healthy baby at my scan but can not imagine it!
How can there be a person growing inside me & i feel totally normal? Doesnt make sense to me :-) xxx



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 06:19 AM   7
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Hi dime,
Congrats on seeing your lo on your scan! If this is real for me too then yes i have been lucky!
Nice to find other non believers with positive outcomes as ive done a search on b&b and there are no other threads about this. Thought i was the only crazy one around lol xxx



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 06:32 AM   8
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Totally agree....if a doc or midwife confirmed it i would prob feel better but after ttc for so long i feel like i might be making this up or just seeing what i want to see when i look at a positive hpt lol. Sounds crazy i know.
Im hoping to god that i do see a healthy baby at my scan but can not imagine it!
How can there be a person growing inside me & i feel totally normal? Doesnt make sense to me :-) xxx
Even when I saw him/her on the screen and the doc prodded the LO until s/he rolled over and had a kick, it was still hard to get my head around that the baby was inside me because I couldn't feel it. But no, it's definitely in there!!

Not long now and you'll get the confirmation you need - it's just difficult to believe that something you wanted so bad has finally happened; it seems 'too good to be true' but it's trueeeee!



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 06:43 AM   9
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I hope so!!!!!

It will be a dream come true xxx



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2013, 09:56 AM   10
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The biggest symptom is no period! So don't start thinking you don't have any. Also, some of my friends who have gone through fertility treatments with hormones have found they have fewer sickness symptoms probably because their body is already used to hormone changes so they don't react as strongly to the pregnancy. No matter how long it takes it's still really hard to believe it actually happened! And don't forget, the odds are in your favor!



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