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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:19 AM   1
nyaonyaokat
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I hate my husband... for absolutely no reason. Hormones?


I have the most wonderful husband any woman could hope for. We've only been married for a year and a half (ish) but we've been together for almost 8 years (I'm 26 and he's 30). He's never once treated me without kindness or respect, and he supports (the very imperfect) me in absolutely every aspect of my life.

I'm 6 weeks pregnant now after we only TTC for 2 months. We're both ecstatic about it.

But for some reason... for the last two weeks everything he does or says is annoying the crap out of me. I keep it to myself (not wanting to hurt his feelings) but still. I have to spill my insanity somewhere or I'm going to lose it.

At the dinner table, if he makes any sound what-so-ever while he's eating, it's nauseating and irritates me.

Last night I fell asleep on the couch and I woke up slightly but kept my eyes closed. He covered me with a blanket, cleared my hair away from my face, put his hand on my stomach and said Oyasumi (goodnight in Japanese... he's Japanese btw) to the baby.

I know this sounds stupidly wonderful and sweet and I am WELL aware as I'm typing this that I sound crazy... but I was so pissed off while he was doing all of that. Instead of feeling comforted and loved I felt degraded (don't ask me why... I have no idea) as if he felt me and the baby were his property.

The other day I was thrown into a crying fit when I discovered that one of his socks was missing from our hamper so I was furious thinking he just forgot to put one of the socks inside of it (turns out it was balled up in a T-shirt).

Did anybody else have any of this going on?

I'm well aware pregnant women tend to be hormonal and get emotional very easily. But this can't be normal. I'm literally going insane. Not only are my emotional reactions completely exaggerated and unprovoked... Afterwards I feel guilty and disgusted with myself for thinking of him so negatively. I suppose the normal thing to do would be to calmly ask him not to do certain things that aggravate me... but he's not done a single thing wrong.

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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:24 AM   2
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He sounds so sweet! Like my boyfriend. He will come up to me while I'm cooking and just kiss me and say "I love you" but lately, it's so hard for me not to just scream at him. He's annoying me so bad!! I don't know why!! I feel so squished and I feel better when I'm alone.



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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:28 AM   3
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Oh! Am am soooo sorry but this gave me a good giggle! Thank you! I needed that! I have been a hormonal mess as well.
The bigger thing that comes to mind for me is I am getting so freaking tired of DH CONSTANTLY asking me if I'm okay. Of course I'm not okay you moron!!!! I'm freaking pregnant!! You try it sometime!!!



 
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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:31 AM   4
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that made me laugh! I am the same! Actually i am not just annoyed at my husband, i am pretty much annoyed the world. Feel like flipping off the car thats cut me off, feel like pushing over the 5 year old who knocked my daughter over at soft play, even the dog is annoying me because he keeps climbing on my lap! Argh!



 
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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:32 AM   5
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He sounds so sweet! Like my boyfriend. He will come up to me while I'm cooking and just kiss me and say "I love you" but lately, it's so hard for me not to just scream at him. He's annoying me so bad!! I don't know why!! I feel so squished and I feel better when I'm alone.
Thank GOD I'm not the only one. My husband is gone for about 12 hours a day 6 days a week (He's a PR director for the Japanese Olympic Committee... yeah, I don't know what that really means either) so I get a lot of alone time. Before I got pregnant, I hated that I saw him so infrequently and was lonely a lot of the time. But now I LOVE my alone time... he's been making extra efforts to text me occasionally throughout the day to check how I'm feeling and tell me he loves me blah blah blah... but even THAT is reason enough to piss me off... in a 'well you didn't do that as much BEFORE I got pregnant...' kind of way.

I feel a bit better now. I'm still beyond crazy, but at least I'm not alone in my insanity.



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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:34 AM   6
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He sounds so sweet! Like my boyfriend. He will come up to me while I'm cooking and just kiss me and say "I love you" but lately, it's so hard for me not to just scream at him. He's annoying me so bad!! I don't know why!! I feel so squished and I feel better when I'm alone.
Thank GOD I'm not the only one. My husband is gone for about 12 hours a day 6 days a week (He's a PR director for the Japanese Olympic Committee... yeah, I don't know what that really means either) so I get a lot of alone time. Before I got pregnant, I hated that I saw him so infrequently and was lonely a lot of the time. But now I LOVE my alone time... he's been making extra efforts to text me occasionally throughout the day to check how I'm feeling and tell me he loves me blah blah blah... but even THAT is reason enough to piss me off... in a 'well you didn't do that as much BEFORE I got pregnant...' kind of way.

I feel a bit better now. I'm still beyond crazy, but at least I'm not alone in my insanity.
Hahaha. I love that you describe the exact way I feel! It's driving me crazy! I don't even want to sleep in the same bed with him.



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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:35 AM   7
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Same!!! the other night my husband was driving me crazy and he wasn't really doing anything. Even to the point where he has a tuft of hair sticking up I wanted to set fire it. I warned him the other night that im getting slightly emotional and to watch it cos I might stab him lmao



 
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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:37 AM   8
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Oh! Am am soooo sorry but this gave me a good giggle! Thank you! I needed that! I have been a hormonal mess as well.
The bigger thing that comes to mind for me is I am getting so freaking tired of DH CONSTANTLY asking me if I'm okay. Of course I'm not okay you moron!!!! I'm freaking pregnant!! You try it sometime!!!
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that made me laugh! I am the same! Actually i am not just annoyed at my husband, i am pretty much annoyed the world. Feel like flipping off the car thats cut me off, feel like pushing over the 5 year old who knocked my daughter over at soft play, even the dog is annoying me because he keeps climbing on my lap! Argh!
I'm a new member here... but I already love the members here.

And I DEFINITELY can empathize with the 'Are you okay?' bit. Even worse, the suggestions on how to make myself feel better... 'If I went out and bought you some crackers maybe that would help settle your stomach?'... all I could think was, 'Yeah... seeing as how many humans you've housed in your uterus, you probably know what's best, asshole.'



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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:38 AM   9
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Oh! Am am soooo sorry but this gave me a good giggle! Thank you! I needed that! I have been a hormonal mess as well.
The bigger thing that comes to mind for me is I am getting so freaking tired of DH CONSTANTLY asking me if I'm okay. Of course I'm not okay you moron!!!! I'm freaking pregnant!! You try it sometime!!!
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that made me laugh! I am the same! Actually i am not just annoyed at my husband, i am pretty much annoyed the world. Feel like flipping off the car thats cut me off, feel like pushing over the 5 year old who knocked my daughter over at soft play, even the dog is annoying me because he keeps climbing on my lap! Argh!
I'm a new member here... but I already love the members here.

And I DEFINITELY can empathize with the 'Are you okay?' bit. Even worse, the suggestions on how to make myself feel better... 'If I went out and bought you some crackers maybe that would help settle your stomach?'... all I could think was, 'Yeah... seeing as how many humans you've housed in your uterus, you probably know what's best, asshole.'
Your husband sounds adorable but I totally understand! Haha



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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 00:46 AM   10
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Same!!! the other night my husband was driving me crazy and he wasn't really doing anything. Even to the point where he has a tuft of hair sticking up I wanted to set fire it. I warned him the other night that im getting slightly emotional and to watch it cos I might stab him lmao
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Oh! Am am soooo sorry but this gave me a good giggle! Thank you! I needed that! I have been a hormonal mess as well.
The bigger thing that comes to mind for me is I am getting so freaking tired of DH CONSTANTLY asking me if I'm okay. Of course I'm not okay you moron!!!! I'm freaking pregnant!! You try it sometime!!!
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that made me laugh! I am the same! Actually i am not just annoyed at my husband, i am pretty much annoyed the world. Feel like flipping off the car thats cut me off, feel like pushing over the 5 year old who knocked my daughter over at soft play, even the dog is annoying me because he keeps climbing on my lap! Argh!
I'm a new member here... but I already love the members here.

And I DEFINITELY can empathize with the 'Are you okay?' bit. Even worse, the suggestions on how to make myself feel better... 'If I went out and bought you some crackers maybe that would help settle your stomach?'... all I could think was, 'Yeah... seeing as how many humans you've housed in your uterus, you probably know what's best, asshole.'
Your husband sounds adorable but I totally understand! Haha
Fossey - Could be time to remove any lighters or matches from the house lol


I snapped a picture of what I woke up to this morning to illustrate something impossibly annoying that my husband did, that really wasn't much at all.



Look at the curtains to my veranda. No seriously. They're magnetically attached to join in the middle of the veranda window. It's like he went out of his way to f*** them up. *End of curtain rant*



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