hardest week of my life!

JCIC · Nov 22nd, 2009, 12:45 PM

finding the wait to see if my baby is alive or not very hard. trying to carry on as normal but its not easy.Did another pregnancy test yesterday and it showed i was still pregnant and the weeks had gone up again..so confusing, have i just got my dates wrong or has it failed altogether. I'm still feeling sickly throughout various points of the day but this could be my body playing tricks! Thursday cannot come any sooner!

justmarried24 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 13:04 PM

Oh hun! Why do you have to wait until Thurs? Have you been for an early scan or something? Sorry, I must have missed your other thread.

x

Missy86 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 13:04 PM

aww hun, I hope your ok xx

If you want to chat I am here

Crypto1976 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 13:11 PM

I have been thinking of you. This wait must be torturous. Stick in there. XXXXX

JCIC · Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:15 PM

Thanks everyone! For those of you who don't know i thought I was 9weeks but after an initial scan they said i was either 5wks or that the baby had died as all that could be seen was the sac. Had an nhs early scan 3 days later and they only saw the same as the private one so have to wait till thurs to see if they can see anymore x would the digital test show an increase in the number of weeks i'm pregnant if the baby had died?

mummy2010 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:17 PM

aww i hope everything turns out ok for you x sarah

BeanieBaby · Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:31 PM

I know exactly how you're feeling and quite frankly its absolute torture. I am 99% sure that I am going to be told that my baby has died when I have my 3rd early scan this Thurs. They think I may be having a slowly failing pregnancy as at 7 wks just a yolk sac but on the large side (indicating non-viable) and at 8 weeks a baby and fetal pole but at 4mm instead of 15mm, no heartbeat at either scan!

I do hope that your dates are wrong and you get the outcome you want on Thurs. I will be thinking of you. If you want to PM me please do.

Lots of love

xxxx

JCIC · Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:36 PM

Ah I'm sorry beanie i can totally understand how your feeling, believe me! I am 99% sure that this Thursday isn't going to have the outcome I want either. I'll keep you in my thoughts x x

debgreasby · Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:39 PM

Good luck to both of you

_Hope_ · Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:50 PM

My thoughts are with you and I hope everything turns out well for both of you xx

Nov 22nd, 2009, 12:45 PM	#1
JCIC Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Newcastle Posts: 172	hardest week of my life! finding the wait to see if my baby is alive or not very hard. trying to carry on as normal but its not easy.Did another pregnancy test yesterday and it showed i was still pregnant and the weeks had gone up again..so confusing, have i just got my dates wrong or has it failed altogether. I'm still feeling sickly throughout various points of the day but this could be my body playing tricks! Thursday cannot come any sooner!

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 13:04 PM	#2
justmarried24 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Newcastle Posts: 1,115	Oh hun! Why do you have to wait until Thurs? Have you been for an early scan or something? Sorry, I must have missed your other thread. x

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 13:04 PM	#3
Missy86 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: A welshie living in Essex Posts: 10,105	aww hun, I hope your ok xx If you want to chat I am here

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 13:11 PM	#4
Crypto1976 Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 2,820	I have been thinking of you. This wait must be torturous. Stick in there. XXXXX

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:15 PM	#5
JCIC Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Newcastle Posts: 172	Thanks everyone! For those of you who don't know i thought I was 9weeks but after an initial scan they said i was either 5wks or that the baby had died as all that could be seen was the sac. Had an nhs early scan 3 days later and they only saw the same as the private one so have to wait till thurs to see if they can see anymore x would the digital test show an increase in the number of weeks i'm pregnant if the baby had died?

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:17 PM	#6
mummy2010 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: birmingham Posts: 1,084	aww i hope everything turns out ok for you x sarah

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:31 PM	#7
BeanieBaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Surrey, UK Posts: 3,829	I know exactly how you're feeling and quite frankly its absolute torture. I am 99% sure that I am going to be told that my baby has died when I have my 3rd early scan this Thurs. They think I may be having a slowly failing pregnancy as at 7 wks just a yolk sac but on the large side (indicating non-viable) and at 8 weeks a baby and fetal pole but at 4mm instead of 15mm, no heartbeat at either scan! I do hope that your dates are wrong and you get the outcome you want on Thurs. I will be thinking of you. If you want to PM me please do. Lots of love xxxx

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:36 PM	#8
JCIC Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Newcastle Posts: 172	Ah I'm sorry beanie i can totally understand how your feeling, believe me! I am 99% sure that this Thursday isn't going to have the outcome I want either. I'll keep you in my thoughts x x

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:39 PM	#9
debgreasby Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Sutton in Ashfield, Notts Posts: 5,561	Good luck to both of you

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 14:50 PM	#10
_Hope_ Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: South Yorkshire Posts: 1,696	My thoughts are with you and I hope everything turns out well for both of you xx

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