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Old Oct 12th, 2015, 18:41 PM   1
DobbyForever
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You have got to be s*ing me


I've been miserable for the last 9 days dealing with this sac vs hematoma with a side dish of upper respiratory infection. So when I finally get all that bs straightened out, I go to my appointments... "No upcoming appointments are scheduled at this time."

HOLD THE F*ING PHONE my prenatal was scheduled for next Wednesday! Which worked great for me AND I have to be monitored in a week anyway to see if my mystery sac/bleed/whatever is absorbed by then.

So my usual gyn, whom I love dearly, just moved to the hospital. I finally adjusted and got another gyn that I had seen once and love. My original prenatal was scheduled with her. But, of course, she is now booked until the second week of November!!! So I take a deep breath and ask for the other two doctors I have seen and... one just went on maternity leave and the other only works until 1:30! I can't take anymore sick days because I have been out 6 days already plus another 2 this week, and I am taking a personal day to go to my Panorama. So my first ever prenatal appointment is now with a complete stranger who was originally assigned to me when my gyn left and after one message I wanted to punch her in the face.

I'm like pissed and depressed and stressed now. Sigh.



 
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Old Oct 12th, 2015, 18:47 PM   2
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Awww I'm sorry!!! .. that's horrible!!! I hope it goes much better than you anticipate!



 
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Old Oct 12th, 2015, 19:02 PM   3
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Urgh sorry to hear! But u know what it's no big deal, just a standard visit really as long as u can get your original Dr back for the other appointments then I'd say it's all good xx



 
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Old Oct 12th, 2015, 19:12 PM   4
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I messaged the original doctor and explained what's up. I know Kaiser likes to do the first prenatal between 7-9 weeks, so I'm trying to either A- figure out if I can somehow be wait listed for her or B- go in on Wednesday (exactly 7 weeks). I really should let it go, but I have high anxiety disorder. This is my first pregnancy where I get to go to the prenatal, so I have no idea what questions to ask or what to talk about. I'm also stressed because it just dawned on me a few days ago that I'm moving 30 minutes away which means new doctors, new clinics, and a new hospital to give birth in. To much change happened. I don't deal well with change.



 
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Old Oct 12th, 2015, 19:14 PM   5
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Boooo. Just what you didn't need. :/ Did they have a system glitch or something? That's awful, I'm so sorry.



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Old Oct 12th, 2015, 19:43 PM   6
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I have done a lot of schedule and re-schedule lately. On Saturday, I talked to a nurse who was not very bright and I had a gut feeling she was going to screw things up. She is the most likely culprit.



 
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