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Old Apr 12th, 2017, 07:39 AM   1
Bbari2018
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Only BD's twice for BFP. When did I conceive?


updated question on last post!

DH and I only BD'ed twice near O and very surprisingly got a BFP.

Is it possible to know which BD most likely lead to conception?

BD1: 3/27/2017
O: 3/31/2017 or 4/1/2017 (based on app predictions, which based on CM seemed relatively accurate
BD2: 4/6/2017
BFN: 4/10/2017
BFP: 4/11/2017 (faint), 4/12/2017 (slightly darker)
Avg cycle length: 37 days
Avg luteal phase: 14 days (not sure about this, just using the default)

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Old Apr 12th, 2017, 07:59 AM   2
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There are only 5 days between bd2 and your BFP. Even if you add a couple of days for o'ing up to 48 hours before, a BFP at 7dpo is very unusual. Bd1 with o around the 30th/31st would be more likely, IMO, and that sets your BFP at around 11/12dpo, which is much more common. You may never know for sure though.



 
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Old Apr 12th, 2017, 08:41 AM   3
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Since the egg only lives about 24 hours, you really need to BD before O to conceive or right on the day of. BD'ing over 24 hrs after O will not do anything for conception.

As for us, we BD'd 6-7 days before O (highly unlikely) and the day of or day before (highly likely) O. We got a very faint BFP at 8-9 dpo.



 
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Old Apr 12th, 2017, 13:12 PM   4
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Looks like BD 1 did the job and those swimmers had a few days kip if you really did O on the 31/1st xx



 
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Old Apr 12th, 2017, 13:40 PM   5
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Definitely would have been the first BD. I BDed 5 days before ovulating to conceive this baby. Same with my second-born. I know because it's the only time I BDed the whole cycle, both times. Congratulations!



 
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Old Apr 12th, 2017, 14:16 PM   6
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It's amazing when that happens xd!
I'm the other end of the spectrum, I've only ever got a BFP on cycles where we have BD on ov day itself!



 
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Old Apr 13th, 2017, 12:30 PM   7
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Thank you all for your input! And congrats to those who also just got their BFP. Its so miraculous.



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Old Apr 13th, 2017, 19:06 PM   8
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Also your ovulation is definitely not 14. That gives you a 23 day luteal phase and the average is 12-14. So o is likely around cd 23-25. I agree that bd one is likely. You probably were a couple days before O. BD 2 a faint line that early is possible. J/c when was your lmp? since there is such a huge range, your first scan will settle it. Do you have a picture? Faint is such a subjective term. Congrats though!



 
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Old Apr 16th, 2017, 11:25 AM   9
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Also your ovulation is definitely not 14. That gives you a 23 day luteal phase and the average is 12-14. So o is likely around cd 23-25. I agree that bd one is likely. You probably were a couple days before O. BD 2 a faint line that early is possible. J/c when was your lmp? since there is such a huge range, your first scan will settle it. Do you have a picture? Faint is such a subjective term. Congrats though!
Thanks! I'm not sure when I implanted as I didn't have implantation spotting or anything. I did have some major cramps, but after I got my first faint positive. Attached is the picture of my tests. I've obviously become obsessed hehehe



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Old Apr 16th, 2017, 11:34 AM   10
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Definitely bd one that's a super obvious line for 5dpo (though I have seen it happen). Lol love the caption on the second test. You are definitely in the right place for testing obsession hehe. Excellent progression on your tests! Congrats again!



 
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