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Old Aug 7th, 2017, 11:01 AM   11
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I felt this way in the beginning too! I want this baby more than anything but hormones and morning sickness had me wondering if I made the biggest mistake in wanting another baby. Now that I am feeling better and my hormones are evening out I feel much more like my normal self. I think its common in the beginning like the other ladies have said!



 
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Old Aug 7th, 2017, 15:05 PM   12
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Thanks for your replies girls
But I think my body has just made up its mind for me
I'm at the hospital on first aid at work duties I go toilet and I have what is like a full blown period bleeding and I'm actually petrified now so I will book in and wait now too



 
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Old Aug 7th, 2017, 15:49 PM   13
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Oh no Pixie. I'm hoping it is nothing. Bleeding can happen and all can be well.

If this is the start of something bad, please remember that nothing you thought or felt can cause it. I had serious doubts and worries during my last pregnancy and when I lost the baby I really blamed myself. It took a while for me to accept that nothing I did could have caused it. I also want to warn you that falling hormones can cause as much chaos as rising hormones. I think I developed some mild-moderate depression after my miscarriage so be on the look out.

All that said, I really hope this is nothing. There are lots of things that can cause bleeding during pregnancy. Get checked out and hope for the best. Several ladies on here have talked about having a lot of bleeding and going on to have perfectly healthy babies. I am keeping all my fingers crossed for you!



 
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Old Aug 7th, 2017, 15:52 PM   14
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Thinking of you pixie. Hope all is ok.



 
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Old Aug 7th, 2017, 15:54 PM   15
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Old Aug 7th, 2017, 16:08 PM   16
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Old Aug 7th, 2017, 16:55 PM   17
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Thanks everyone
Well my colleague has now been discharged and gone home and I'm still waiting to be seen
Not been seen once yet at all I booked in 1.5 hours ago :/
But I'm having on and off cramps now



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2017, 09:40 AM   18
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I hope you were seen and everything was alright. I have been thinking about you!



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2017, 10:02 AM   19
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Thank you sorry I was meant to update
Was examined yet again and she said the bleed was minimal by then and cervix has closed fully again
I now have only minor spotting
But she said I'm not out of the woods yet and if I continue to bleed or started bleeding again then I'm to ring EPU To arrange a scan and she put on system that scan to be given if needed
But I think it might have been due to the shock of seeing a young girl white as a ghost with bluish lips
Then half way to the first aid room she went again and I was trying to hold her up

Also I'm still stuck living with my ex and it's so stressful knowing she is already with someone, that someone has a wife though and she's still trying to deny it but I have it in black and white that they sleeping together from a recorded 2 hour phone call with her, not only does she say who she's talking to but my ex explains what's in her house so obviously she has been there
But not sure what my next move is with that as I wouldn't want anyone in this world to feel how I felt
But I feel it's right to show the wife my recording (they have been married for 7 years or so) together longer
So I'm not sure if she will leave the wife for my ex either tbh
I actually think it's been going on since last October

So now I'm sitting at the council awaiting a meeting to put an appplication of homelessness as I need out now after 2 bleeds I feel it's best for my baby(very much wanted baby) and Myself to stay healthy and stress free



 
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Old Aug 8th, 2017, 10:34 AM   20
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So glad the bleeding stopped and that they will scan you if needed.

I'm sorry about your living situation with your ex. I can't even imagine how difficult that would be.

What will it mean to get an application of homelessness? Will that give you access to low income housing? Shelters? In Canada I know you need to be in a certain category to gain access to low income housing (usually subsidized rent). Good luck! Do what is best for you and your baby.

I have no advice on your ex and the other woman though. I would want to know if my partner was cheating on me, but at the same time I don't know if it would be strange for a stranger to be the one to share the news or if I would even believe that person. It's a difficult situation.



 
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