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Old Nov 4th, 2017, 07:36 AM   21
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That's great news!



 
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Old Nov 4th, 2017, 08:41 AM   22
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Fantastic news!



 
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Old Nov 5th, 2017, 11:54 AM   23
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That's fabulous news you must be so relived!!!



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Old Nov 6th, 2017, 13:15 PM   24
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certainly not pleased with the ER staff that were SO SURE about it. i even asked if there was any room for error and he told me no, i was definitely miscarrying. not even close. wasn't even threatened miscarriage!!!!! baby is right on track still as far as i know!!!



 
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Old Nov 6th, 2017, 17:04 PM   25
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Good grief!!! Darn ERs!!!



 
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Old Nov 10th, 2017, 20:16 PM   26
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Scary! I had two D&C procedures done because my midwife was convinced I was miscarrying and pressured me into it. Makes me wonder now how common it is for them to tell you you're miscarrying when you're really not. Needless to say when I was expecting my third loss, I decided to miscarry naturally, just to make sure. I did, in fact, end up losing that baby but it really makes me regret getting those two D&Cs especially when doctors seem to get things so wrong all the time. Makes me wonder what if I would have waited? Kudos to you for going with your gut instinct.



 
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Old Nov 10th, 2017, 23:36 PM   27
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Scary! I had two D&C procedures done because my midwife was convinced I was miscarrying and pressured me into it. Makes me wonder now how common it is for them to tell you you're miscarrying when you're really not. Needless to say when I was expecting my third loss, I decided to miscarry naturally, just to make sure. I did, in fact, end up losing that baby but it really makes me regret getting those two D&Cs especially when doctors seem to get things so wrong all the time. Makes me wonder what if I would have waited? Kudos to you for going with your gut instinct.
This. I have had multiple friends told they were miscarrying and they didn't. I hope that before a d&c they check for a heartbeat, a responsible dr would of course.

But for me, I know my baby wasn't viable at 5 weeks when my hcg started dropping. I knew d&c was an option but I waited until 8.5 weeks when I started bleeding naturally and passed everything. Honestly I would rather not have a procedure that might damage things anyways, and not having a thought pop into my head years later "what if the pregnancy could've been fine" made those few weeks worth it. I still had terrible ms right till everything passed so I can see why some may want it done and over with when they lose a baby... but to have peace of mind I think naturally is more helpful.



 
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Old Nov 11th, 2017, 07:33 AM   28
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Scary! I had two D&C procedures done because my midwife was convinced I was miscarrying and pressured me into it. Makes me wonder now how common it is for them to tell you you're miscarrying when you're really not. Needless to say when I was expecting my third loss, I decided to miscarry naturally, just to make sure. I did, in fact, end up losing that baby but it really makes me regret getting those two D&Cs especially when doctors seem to get things so wrong all the time. Makes me wonder what if I would have waited? Kudos to you for going with your gut instinct.
i totally understand. when i lost my first i took pills to make it happen and my mother of all people is convinced that we killed my baby. i know they were right. there are alot of reasons why. but either way... it just sucks. theyre gone no matter why. lots of love to you.



 
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Old Yesterday, 16:02 PM   29
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Congrats! I was told I was going to both my son's and they are tucked up fast asleep in their beds,ages 2 and 5 😍



 
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