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Old Mar 13th, 2018, 05:41 AM   21
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Well he then said he wanted to do a paternity test once the baby is born and as hurtful as that is, I went and found a non-invasive prenatal paternity test and sent him the info saying "let's do this now!"
That was yesterday evening and since then not a word, he's blocked my calls and blocked me on Messenger too.



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Old Mar 13th, 2018, 06:41 AM   22
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Did he date other women when you split up? Even if he didn't it doesn't matter, if you're not together then you have every right to see someone else! That absolutely doesn't mean the baby isn't his though. I don't understand it really, if he's genuinely concerned ok, do a test and show him he's wrong, but leave you over this? What is he going to do when it comes back saying the baby is his? He would have broken your trust and security for nothing



 
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Old Mar 13th, 2018, 07:03 AM   23
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He claims he didn't, but he has spent so little time with me I don't know.
As for the dna test, I want it asap but he's not answering me. I think it's because he knows he's wrong and that the test will prove it. He always goes silent when he knows he's wrong.



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Old Mar 13th, 2018, 07:06 AM   24
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Perhaps instead of being silent he should be apologising



 
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Old Mar 13th, 2018, 07:07 AM   25
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I agree!



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Old Mar 13th, 2018, 07:08 AM   26
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He would be crazy to throw everything away on this



 
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Old Mar 13th, 2018, 07:11 AM   27
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Maybe as well, he's just in a bit of shock, and reacting silly. Was he mentally ready for a baby do you think? Could he also be feeling a bit nervous about being a Dad too?
So then he's used this as an excuse to be like 'oh well it might not be my baby!'

It's not a good excuse of course, and he should be very apologetic about his behaviour.

He is being incredibly childish by blocking you, and whatever happens, you can do this. You are going to be a wonderful mother. The scan is two days away right? Did you say 15th March? Not long to wait now! Maybe he will feel a little more confident once the dates are confirmed anyway?



 
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Old Mar 13th, 2018, 07:13 AM   28
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I am starting to question his sanity. He changed so quickly. One day all was going well, then suddenly he was barely talking to me for 2 days, then he was gone.



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Old Mar 13th, 2018, 07:17 AM   29
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Yes he already has 2 daughters aged 11 and 9 who live with their mum and he does do all he can for them.
And yeah the scan is thursday morning and I'm crossing my fingers and toes that when he sees the pics he will become more rational.



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Old Mar 14th, 2018, 08:14 AM   30
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It kind of sounds like someone has said something to put doubt in his mind? Could this be the case? Sometimes some people can be so jealous of other people's lives and successes and happiness, perhaps someone said something and this is why the random change in his attitude and behaviour



 
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