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Old May 30th, 2018, 15:56 PM   21
dinidani
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Its even worst when gamily share the news of the birth before you get a chance this annoyed me with ds2 my exs mil shared all info names times etc on facebook before we even got the chance to go an see him he was wisked to nicu and she went with him took a pic etc before i even got to see him they litrelly took him and she took it on her self to follow him and post all over facebook so first time i saw my son was on my ex mil facebook lieke cheers most of our church new about my pregnancy before my family as ds1 new as we were open and he was telling everyone so had to tell everyone early this time round xx



 
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Old May 31st, 2018, 06:19 AM   22
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I'm so sorry for your loss sparky mum X luckily her and my family live about 100 miles apart and only contact each other through me and my partner X
That's something at least then, she didn't completely take it from you Still annoying though!



 
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Old May 31st, 2018, 17:40 PM   23
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I had to come back here to vent. So now every time we tell someone we are expecting my MIL makes it a point to say ďthatís why I couldnít talk to you for the past two monthsĒ. Like you really canít have a conversation with a friend or family member without blurting out we are pregnant? I feel like sheís blaming me for not being able to talk to people. It is so annoying. My new response is well itís not your news to share, so if you canít talk to them without letting it slip thatís on you. She is driving me nuts. Then she wanted us to call and tell all these people yesterday, distant relatives, and I said no. That we were enjoying telling people in person when we see them and it can be public knowledge once we go for our 12 week scan. No need to call a 3rd cousin Iíve never met. Like good Lord, leave me alone!



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Old May 31st, 2018, 21:47 PM   24
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I had to come back here to vent. So now every time we tell someone we are expecting my MIL makes it a point to say ďthatís why I couldnít talk to you for the past two monthsĒ. Like you really canít have a conversation with a friend or family member without blurting out we are pregnant? I feel like sheís blaming me for not being able to talk to people. It is so annoying. My new response is well itís not your news to share, so if you canít talk to them without letting it slip thatís on you. She is driving me nuts. Then she wanted us to call and tell all these people yesterday, distant relatives, and I said no. That we were enjoying telling people in person when we see them and it can be public knowledge once we go for our 12 week scan. No need to call a 3rd cousin Iíve never met. Like good Lord, leave me alone!
Sounds like your mil is way to excited and pushy. I think she is trying to subtly let you know how difficult it was not to tell people and maybe it upset her, but she needs to grow up 2bh and just let you enjoy it x



 
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Old Jun 4th, 2018, 11:58 AM   25
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Just ignore her, she sounds like she's just attention seeking now. It seems like the upset she caused has just gone over her head completely. I would personally see this as a warning for the future - when it comes to announcing names and the birth of your baby make sure that she is the last to find out or she will do it again.



 
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