Constantly worried, anxious....lets be support buddies

thinknboutbby · Apr 16th, 2010, 08:16 AM

Everywhere I read here I see ladies completely worried about their little bean...is it really there, is it safe/healthy, is it progressing the way it should??? I too am this way. Thought it might be nice to have a thread for all of us to vent in and hopefully bring back good reports from scans to share with each other. Just give each other support!!!

I have days where I am completely confident that all is well

then I have days where all I do is worry

. Today is a good day for me , but Im always concious

about not getting my hopes up till my dr. appointment.

Cookie1979 · Apr 16th, 2010, 08:20 AM

I definitely have good and bad days, sometimes I feel quite optimistic and other days I'm convinced that when they do the scan they wont find a heartbeat. I guess more than anything I find it hard to believe there is a tiny little baby growing inside me, its something I've wanted for a long time, but I find it hard to associate what is happening to my body to the end result of a baby...its like I can't believe that I will have one, no matter how positive I try to be.

I think when I have my scan it will finally change how I think.

mrsfeehily · Apr 16th, 2010, 08:25 AM

Even though I saw bubs was healthy with a little beating heart at 9 weeks, my 12 wk scan today is still making me more nervous than I think I've ever been in my whole life

I too have positive days and not so positive ones, once I've had this milestone scan today if all is OK I think I will relax a lot more

Here's praying all is OK.

xx

Remi09 · Apr 16th, 2010, 08:35 AM

I have days like that too!! Aches & pains make me worry & no pains at all make me worry.

I hate morning sickness but worry when it doesn't appear!!

I'm 9weeks on Monday & feeling more & more apprehensive as I edge towards the 12 week mark...I just want to be there now!!

Good luck hun & try not to worry too much...you're more than welcome to have a moan to me whenever you feel the need!!
xxx

Cookie1979 · Apr 16th, 2010, 08:37 AM

Good luck today mrsfeehily, I'm sure everything will be just fine.

Remi - I'm 9 weeks on Sunday, so we're very close. Feel the same, get pains worry, dont get pains and I worry some more. Can't win! I guess its something we all go through.

Mommy2Kian · Apr 16th, 2010, 08:39 AM

Nice thread

im actually waiting for a phonecall to see if my blood test shows im immune from chicken pox as my 4 yr old has come down with it

fingers crossed, its the last thing i need to worry about!

Cookie1979 · Apr 16th, 2010, 08:45 AM

Oh no!! Fingers crossed.

padbrat · Apr 16th, 2010, 08:58 AM

I am just praying that its 3rd time lucky for us... having the same symptoms as the last 2 times, no different... just hoping that it doesn't mean I am going to lose this one too...

Answers will come on Monday... will be a hard weekend!

Mommy2Kian · Apr 16th, 2010, 09:09 AM

Best of luck padbrat

thinknboutbby · Apr 16th, 2010, 09:48 AM

Good luck everyone!
Cookie, I have the exact same way.
I am also waiting on my bloodwork to come back .
Thanks everyone! We can hang in there together...

Apr 16th, 2010, 08:16 AM	#1
thinknboutbby Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 161	Constantly worried, anxious....lets be support buddies Everywhere I read here I see ladies completely worried about their little bean...is it really there, is it safe/healthy, is it progressing the way it should??? I too am this way. Thought it might be nice to have a thread for all of us to vent in and hopefully bring back good reports from scans to share with each other. Just give each other support!!! I have days where I am completely confident that all is well then I have days where all I do is worry. Today is a good day for me , but Im always concious about not getting my hopes up till my dr. appointment.

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Apr 16th, 2010, 08:20 AM	#2
Cookie1979 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Buckinghamshire Posts: 3,543	I definitely have good and bad days, sometimes I feel quite optimistic and other days I'm convinced that when they do the scan they wont find a heartbeat. I guess more than anything I find it hard to believe there is a tiny little baby growing inside me, its something I've wanted for a long time, but I find it hard to associate what is happening to my body to the end result of a baby...its like I can't believe that I will have one, no matter how positive I try to be. I think when I have my scan it will finally change how I think.

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Apr 16th, 2010, 08:25 AM	#3
mrsfeehily Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 498	Even though I saw bubs was healthy with a little beating heart at 9 weeks, my 12 wk scan today is still making me more nervous than I think I've ever been in my whole life I too have positive days and not so positive ones, once I've had this milestone scan today if all is OK I think I will relax a lot more Here's praying all is OK. xx

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Apr 16th, 2010, 08:35 AM	#4
Remi09 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Manchester Posts: 31	I have days like that too!! Aches & pains make me worry & no pains at all make me worry. I hate morning sickness but worry when it doesn't appear!! I'm 9weeks on Monday & feeling more & more apprehensive as I edge towards the 12 week mark...I just want to be there now!! Good luck hun & try not to worry too much...you're more than welcome to have a moan to me whenever you feel the need!! xxx

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Apr 16th, 2010, 08:37 AM	#5
Cookie1979 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Buckinghamshire Posts: 3,543	Good luck today mrsfeehily, I'm sure everything will be just fine. Remi - I'm 9 weeks on Sunday, so we're very close. Feel the same, get pains worry, dont get pains and I worry some more. Can't win! I guess its something we all go through.

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Apr 16th, 2010, 08:39 AM	#6
Mommy2Kian Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: West Midlands Posts: 3,834	Nice thread im actually waiting for a phonecall to see if my blood test shows im immune from chicken pox as my 4 yr old has come down with it fingers crossed, its the last thing i need to worry about!

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Apr 16th, 2010, 08:45 AM	#7
Cookie1979 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Buckinghamshire Posts: 3,543	Oh no!! Fingers crossed.

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Apr 16th, 2010, 08:58 AM	#8
padbrat Other BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 3,411	I am just praying that its 3rd time lucky for us... having the same symptoms as the last 2 times, no different... just hoping that it doesn't mean I am going to lose this one too... Answers will come on Monday... will be a hard weekend!

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Apr 16th, 2010, 09:09 AM	#9
Mommy2Kian Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: West Midlands Posts: 3,834	Best of luck padbrat

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Apr 16th, 2010, 09:48 AM	#10
thinknboutbby Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 161	Good luck everyone! Cookie, I have the exact same way. I am also waiting on my bloodwork to come back . Thanks everyone! We can hang in there together...

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